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    • #552312
      BillieJay
      Managing Ambassador

      I’m getting a lot of feedback from the staff that our membership here doesn’t like the staff, or the way this site is moderated.

      there’s a few truths here…

      1. the staff are volunteers. none of the staff you see interacting here are paid for what they do.

      2. the staff are following protocols developed over time to keep trolls, malcontents, and mockers out of the site.

      3. the staff are trying to ensure that our topics stay away from sexual situations, politics, and religion, again, our mission and our protocols.

      4. this is a support site with a mission, not a “free speech” site. I have removed many comments/posts that I personally agree with that don’t match up with the mission of the site.

      5. if you call out a staff member in public by name for something they coached you in private and I find out about it, there’s a good chance your account will be banned.

      our staff put in literally hundreds of hours per week doing this. no one pays us. for those who are subscribers, those funds go toward running the site, to scholarships, and other good causes the site owner deems proper.

      I am the Managing Ambassador. everything that comes to my desk is dealt with as soon as I can, and dealt with as fairly as I can be.

      please feel free to use the “contact the managing ambassador” link to contact me directly if you have an issue, I usually respond within 24 hours.

      please stop treating our staff as servants and censors.

      we really are the good folks making this site a safe place for those in need.

    • #552339
      Anonymous

      Billiejay…

      No complaints from this girl…I think the site and the staff are bloody wonderful…..EVERY single one of you.

      Grace xxx

    • #552358

      Thank you, Billiejay, and thank all the staff for the great job you do.
      I think sometimes we do forget those facts, I know I for one am guilty. I do tend to let my free speech get away from me, from time to time, and dont always think about the other side
      No disrespect is ever intended.
      This is a safe place for us, and it is you volunteers’ who make it so.
      Regine

    • #552361
      Anonymous

      I think you do a cracking job. Thank you.

      Connie

      xxx

    • #552371
      Anonymous

      No complaints here either, and totally appreciated everything the staff do too.
      We all try to be creative and contribute but obviously not everything can be perfect. Thanks for post BillieJay
      Lol Amanda xx

    • #552375
      Elaine
      Duchess

      I am sure allot of effort goes on in the background to ensure CDH is a safe place for us. Thank you so much for all you do.

    • #552376
      Anonymous

      Thank you, Billiejay for all you and the staff do.  I don’t envy the job and appreciate the overall atmosphere of the site contributed to boost the vast majority of the members. 😘

      Much love,

      Raquel

    • #552377
      Anonymous

      As usual, I have no idea what you’re talking about. 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️😁

      Billie, you and I have had discussions and have resolved any difficulties. I have no clue why any girl would have a problem.

      Now, I love a rousing political debate, and religion and sex aren’t out of bounds for me either. But the rules are the rules. You know this when you sign up. So abide by the rules, simple, see.

      If anyone wants to debate with me on any of above-mentioned topics, let me know, I’ll PM an off site email and we can discuss stuff, as long as we stay civil. I don’t lose friendships over ideological differences.

      Back on point, I think the staff does a great job of keeping CDH running, that’s why I have a paid membership.

      Jillian

    • #552513
      Liara Wolfe
      Duchess

      I think this is a wonderful site and I appreciate all of you that look after it. I for one come to this site for support and fellowship. I don’t want to discuss politics, religion, etc. here. I just want to talk about makeup, fashion and girly thinks. I can go elsewhere for the other topics.

      Thanks again for all you do.

      Hugs, Liara

    • #552529
      Anonymous

      Thank you BillieJay and the rest of the staff of volunteers that make CDH what it is a safe environment for all the girls.  No complaints from this girl.  Doing a heck of a job.

      Donna

    • #552550
      Barb Wire
      Lady

      Hi BillieJay:

      I joined CDH less than a month ago. I cannon-balled in once I realized your site is a wonderful and safe place for us crossdressers, no matter where we are on the sexual spectrum.  For 59 years I had no idea I was not alone. Really!

      I’ve been making friends all over the world and plowing my way through all that your site has to offer. I’m really that kid in a candy shop! I’m learning and listening. And making the occasional comment too! My goodness! The unbridled warmth and hilarity!

      So, I’m feeling rather “giddy” with it all, especially with my new found acceptance and honesty. I finally realized who I am and I love what I see. I’m no longer afraid to speak and live it.

      Thank you!

      With 💓,

      Barb

      (Oh! I’m delighted our funding goes towards scholarships and other good causes!)

    • #552563
      Anonymous

      Billie, thank you for such a well thought out post.  Thank you for everything you do here.  You’re pretty special.

      I’d like to say a couple things, if I may.  The first is that your post is wonderful.  The volunteers here are angels in their way, and they deserve far more credit than they get, you included.  I’d add site founders to that too, and everyone that had a hand in creating or maintaining the place.  You have my gratitude and admiration, even when I’m too belligerent to show it appropriately.

      Second, it’s your world here, your rules, your way.  (“You” in the general sense, the site itself and management). Personally, I recognize policies here were developed over time by fixing stuff as it came up, and I respect that.

      All that said, the place is still evolving, I hope, and a love-it-or-leave-it style is probably counterproductive to that effort, I’d think.  Don’t know, just a nobody with too many opinions here.  That stuff is your call, and I trust you’ll make the right ones, as usual.

      Thank you for reminding us, me especially, of the angelic nature of this wonderful place and the people that make it possible.  Kinda feel like I owe you all at least a nice meal or something…any time you’re in the area hon.

      Big hugs.

      Rach

    • #552627
      Anonymous

      A big thank you to all the staff here you do a fantastic job, I personally have no issue’s whatsoever with CDH or any of the staff. I think what you have created and look after for everyone here makes it a wonderful place to come and chat with friendly like minded girls.

      Thank You

      Sarah

    • #552637

      I do not post much. Frankly, I am very private about my crossdressing. Having a place to keep it reasonable and polite is amazing. I come here to connect in a small way with other crossdressers (or whatever they want to call themselves). All in an effort to have a better understanding of what other CD’s are doing and why. I think the moderators are doing a great job of keeping the site relevant while not turning it into a porn site. Thanks Ladies…

      • #552749
        Anonymous

        I think that’s pretty cool.  So many people come here for so many reasons, and that diversity is part of why this place rocks.  I’m glad you’ve found what you came here to find.

        I also very much love the way you say things.  You’re not afraid to define yourself, and you seem to not care much how others do the same.  I truly dig that.

        I hope anyone coming here trying to figure out how they’d like to express themselves gets to meet and talk with people like you.  I’m glad I got a glimpse.

        Thank you for sharing.

         

         

    • #552641
      Brielle
      Lady

      Hi BillieJay, I want to say how much I value what all the voluteers do. If it were not run in the matter it is, I would not likely have joined the CDH site.

      You are all helping us become better spouses, mates, BFs, GFs, and most importantly, people! Thank you for everything you and the others do to keep the site intact and safe!

      Hugs and kisses!!

      Brielle 💕

    • #552755

      I have nothing but the greatest respect for the staff, the site, the members, the love, the understanding and the rules that make it all work.

      Thank you.

      Miss Clara Cross

    • #552766
      BillieJay
      Managing Ambassador

      I was probably a tad strong on a few bits of that message, as I was frustrated at the time.
      it’s seldom my way or the highway, the managers confer on most of our actions here.
      I’ve said it many times, and I’ll say it again, I would rather help every single member here than have to ban another person ever again.
      I don’t like doing that.
      We don’t, however, live in a perfect world.
      I enjoy being a protector of our piece of Heaven.

    • #552777
      Anonymous

      I have nothing but respect for the staff here and the job they do.

      This is, frankly, the *only* site where I feel safe to truly express myself, ask questions, and share my thoughts and experiences about this.

      I was surprised, and saddened, that this post was even necessary.

      • #552937
        Anonymous

        I agree Dianne, this is the ONLY place I’ve found where I am comfortable enough to let Jillian roam free.

    • #552782

      Hi Billiejay  im so happy that you and the rest of the staff here put CDH together as im coming up on two years here and joined and have jumped my status to Princess to support this wonderful site as best i can to keep it going  i was lost and alone when i found you girls here and joined now im still lost ha ha really but never alone it would be a really bad day if you had to close you and all the staff here keep us going down out femme girly path in life right where i want to be .. As my wife says im a much better person since joining CDH and she should know being married 38 years to Stephanie.. Thank you for all the help and support you put into this wonderful site hugs ..

      Stephanie Bass

    • #552844

      Billiejay,This girl thinks you do a great job ,thank you.Its wonderful to have a place to come to and be welcomed by awesome people.Stay with it ,my friend,you are doing very well.

    • #552850
      Anonymous

      Thanks Billie. I got no problem with what you do. Keep the peace and keep the trolls and creepers out of here and I’ve first hand had to deal with some.

    • #553164

      I Also think you do a great job and would like to thank you for your effort. Maybe the few that have a issue would like to volunteer?

    • #553174
      Anonymous

      BillieJay

      You and the rest of the staff do an EXCELLENT job (and I use caps sparingly!) This site is exactly as advertised, a safe and respectful place for human beings to explore a piece of themselves that can in the best of times be confusing. There are so many places online where you can argue and denigrate everyone and everything. CDH is literally an oasis, a cool drink of water in a desert wasteland otherwise known as Social Media. This is the only social media site I have ever participated in and that is no doubt because of the wonderful job you do keeping everyone aligned to True North

      Thanks

    • #553195
      Mandy Wife
      Baroness

      All the volunteers on here so such a fantastic job – this is the only place I would feel happy posting on as a wife and know that it’s a safe space.

      Billiejay and all the mods, admins and volunteers I thank you and think you do an amazing job x

    • #553509

      The staff is doing A terrific job keeping this site A safe and enjoyable place for us all. If there are some that don’t appreciate it here they might look for A place that suites them. I and most members are VERY happy here and we love our hard working staff.

    • #553545

      There is not anything I can add to what I have ready already from others. I am glad this site is here, It took me awhile to finally decide to join. I am glad I did, just in the past few months as a new member I have read so many stories that have been similar to mine. I now know I am not alone.

      Hugs for everybody. Tina

    • #557828

      I think I speak for most of us when I say how much I appreciate and admire all your efforts to keep this community as close to heaven as humanly possible. We don’t say it enough but you deserve three cheers for all the hard work you put in. Thank you!

    • #558393

      Hi there. Sorry to hear of the malcontents. Having done volunteer work in the past I know what it can be like. Thankless. I appreciate your comments defending the staff and wish Crossdresser Heaven the best in future. Cheers.

      Brianna-Leah

    • #558396

      I come here to try and make friends and help I feel alone and it help to come here I have been this way all my life I have tried to stop but can’t so I live with it

    • #558420
      ChloeC
      Duchess

      I cannot express enough my appreciation for all the work the volunteers and staff put in to keeping this a safe, respectful and enjoyable site.  Some years ago I volunteered to be a mod on another similar site and from experience, I know many of the difficulties and trying times that can make for a less than pleasant experience.  From my perspective, you all do a great job, and I hope you’re all able to keep doing it.

      My heartfelt thanks to all of you.

      Hugs, ChloeC

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