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Hi girls,
As I have “oft” posted here, due to a house move earlier this year, my Caty time has been drastically reduced.
I try to compensate for this by underdressing as much as I can and adopting things that females do instinctively as a matter of course.
My three are as follows.
1/. I sit to use the “ladies” and always put the seat down and shut the door
2/. I try to remember to get in and out of my car imagining I’m wearing a very short skirt. (Cant have anyone seeing my imaginary stocking tops or panties)
3/. At times when I remember to do so, I make female hand motions as if I have long fingernails or pretend I’m walking in heels. (Slowly with one foot out in front of the other.)Any advance on these??
Caty
Hi Caty, I’m the same with the first two. The second I found I had to for comfort reasons prior to a hip operation. Now I do it all the time. Let me add another: crossing of legs, a topic raised in forum a few months ago. This has to be done in a feminine way, not only for the obvious reasons but because it can look so attractive if done properly. I now always cross my legs as if I’m wearing a skirt (which of course I am a lot of the time). Even in drab, it both looks and feels so much nicer.
Thanks Caty when I am dredded I go a little over board I hate to say I turn into a woman literally walk sit mannerisms I am a whole different person I am the woman I should have been. The rest of the time as a male I am very masculine go figure played football and was good at it. Nobody would even guess II was a crossdresser my little secret in short t thank you ladies for making me feel at home at this site hugs and kisses Jasmine.
Hi Caty, sorry if my typing is a bit wobbly, too much vodka last night. Ok, the answer to you question is yes! all the time! its mainly the way I stand, i’ll stand cross legged, or move in a womanly fashion. To be honest, I still feel girly inside even dressed drab but of course I have to try to suppress the actions, with difficulty, so my work collegues dont twig on…..
Fiona xxx
Happy New Year Caty!
yes I often find myself in feminine mood while in drab either on purpose or naturally. I like to move as if I’m wearing a skirt or dress… how I sit , bend over and not just getting out of a car (or truck) but how I sit and drive .. I’ve mentioned before on another posting that I checkout women at stop lights and while driveing And I emulate their movements and actions .. how they hold the wheel and place their hands .. I find myself doing it without thinking. It’s obviously the inner female in me happily coming out.
hugs
Nancee
Hi. No, not really. Other than after (or during) an “extended chance to dress” when I spent several days en femme then I may catch myself trying to smooth a skirt I’m no longer wearing while I seat or the like.
Otherwise, no.
Gaby 💜
Very much so – although I like to see myself as two separate personalities at the moment, we are one person.
I’ve been burying feminine tendencies in a pathetic attempt to “be a man” all my life, and when I am Laura, I encourage everything that is effeminate in a willful and playful way.
Burying a part of me has been detrimental to my life – I am finding that by expressing myself in a more female way, I am becoming stronger and better defined as a person – not to mention happier and more successful.
No-one comments on sudden little feminine movements or mannerisms – rather they seem a little entranced, I’ve noticed, seeming to see such things as interesting.
So I guess the “secret” is to be yourself 100%. Others like that and it makes you happier.
Love
Laura
For me sometimes I will do fem things while I’m at work and I don’t even realize it. I think some of my coworkers are taking notice. I realized recently I am transgender and really over the hiding part now.
Funny you should ask this Caty! I was just thinking about this the other night. I have noticed that I have unconsciously made more feminine gestures and movements when I am in drab. I certainly cross my legs more lady like and even get out of cars as though I am wearing a skirt (while wearing pants). I use my hands more when I am talking and even put my hand to brush back my hair (which is a short hair cut).
And truthfully, I don’t mind at all, though I will try to make an effort to not if I feel that it would be an issue in a place.
Hugs,
Michelle
Yes, I’ve watched myself adopt different things in my growth. All which I’d say were natural progression. Being your trueself feels so right in the time. I love to notice and savor the moments when I present a femme version of myself to my fiancee. (Especially if it garners her attention)
I love this question. When I reflect on it, all the mannerisms started with taking a shot at it. I want/need much more courage in my future growth. Taking a shot at being happy, just in the moment and just living.
Stay true girl!
It’s subtle, when walking through the isles at a women’s clothing store, I reach out and feel the textures of the clothing. It’s a small pinch like movement using my index finger and thumb. Women do it all the time. Z
I often find myself saying ” fab”in a female voice whenever I am trying on something new.I did it on Friday when my wife and I received two pairs of red Mary Jane shoes from Pavers Shoes,the UK shoe specialists.When I was dressing in private I usec to stand in front of the mirror and sing along to songs by female singers.As I am a good mimic and can sing I coulc do a very good female voice.Made me feel so girly.
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