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Hi ladies!
When I transform myself from male to female, I have a certain order in which I do things. This is because, for me, I’ve found that doing things in the order I do helps put me in more of a feminine frame of mind, so that as each step is taken, I submerge more and more fully and completely into becoming a woman as my feminine self emerges. And for me, becoming Holly is not only relaxing and wonderful, but therapeutic as well. She helps me become a better person each time I can spend time as a woman. That’s why I always go through the same steps, reglardless of how long I will be her, so that I can fully embrace my femininity. By the time I’m done, the man I was doesn’t exist at all and only Holly looks back at me from the mirror.
How about you? Do you have a set order to the steps you take to transform yourself into a woman?
For the most part, yup, I follow the same steps depending on time.
First is makeup. I may skimp some corners if I’m a little short on time, like no false eyelashes. After make up is done, then hip/butt pads, tights/shapewear to cinch it together, breastforms, jewellery, then outwear like a blouse/skirt.
This last step I mix it around at times, sometimes the wig goes on first them lipstick or vice versa.
I now live as Lauren fulltime, 24/7, and at work I am referred to as ‘she’ and ‘her’, so technically I
am no longer transforming myself into a woman as I am one already. But I have my daily routine getting dressed and doing my makeup. It is a little different on the weekends as I don’t go to work on those two days. My makeup is simpler on those days, just a bit of foundation, some lipstick and mascara. I’ll wear a nice t-shirt, skinny jeans or yoga pants and a pair of sneakers, flats or slides.No particular order for me, it depends on how long I’ll be dressing or what the plan for the day is. Sometimes full makeup, sometimes mascara and lipstick only, sometimes slacks, sometimes a dress, heels or flats. The only thing for sure is that lipstick goes on last. That’s the capper and then I’m ready for the day.
Renea❤️
Same routine. Don’t even try it if I won’t have at least, say, 10 to 12 hours before I need to change back.
‘FULL DISASTER”
I like to shower, attach breast forms, then perfumed dusting powder all over.
Tucking and lingerie next. Then “make up and hair”, clothes shoes and jewellery. Finally a liberal spray of perfume in all the right places.
JUST ‘FOOLING AROUND”. ie NOT ENOUGH TIME FOR THE “FD”
No Shower, just forms in bra, no make up or perfume.
Usually the former when I’m away from home on volunteer business. The latter when I’m home but know the “boss” will be out for quite a few hours.
Caty.
I personally don’t feel like I transform, so I don’t have a routine for it.
Sometimes I feel femme in my masc outfits, like a girl who has put on her bf/husbands clothes
That said, a bath with scented candles and a glass of wine is step one of my dress up routine when I want to feel decadent and classy 🍷
I have the same basic routine every day. Shower, shave, underwear, foundation wear, makeup then hair. That is the basic canvas. I then adapt the makeup, hair and clothes for day wear or evening out. It is a slick routine now with the time down to an hour to complete the morning routine with breakfast and out the door.
Hi Holly, well, at this stage in my life, when I decide to dress, it’s either because I have enough time to do all that I feel good about, or it’s just enough time to be enjoyable. And for each of those two possibilities, I pretty much only go as far, and in pretty much the same way as time allows. Simple dressing for the shorter times, maybe 2-3 hours max, more involved for the longer times 4-6 hrs. (or more when that becomes available). And it’s pretty much, I wouldn’t want to say routine, but the order and manner are pretty constant. That way I can control a little of what I need to do in reverse in order to make sure everything is off, put away, and I’m back to looking ‘normal’ (whatever that means.)
Hugs, ChloeC
I’m a definite no, because it really depends. If I’m going out for a walk, I will just put on some beard cover makeup and a wig. If I’m going to a store, I may add concealer around the eyes and maybe a bit of contouring. I don’t need to do this on my walks because I’m wearing dark sunglasses.
If I go swimming, instead of a wig, I’ll just put in clip-on bangs. And if I’m going out for an evening (mostly with my support group), only then will I do full makeup, full eye makeup, jewelry, lipstick, heels, the whole shebang.
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