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Hello pretty girls
The other day I was on internet looking for ways to made the illusion of wide hips and I find basically two ways: use hip pads or choose clothes wisely to create the curves. For example my body shape is inverted triangle so I can wear an A-cut skirt to made visually my hips wider.So what method do you prefer? I would love to hear your answers.
Kisses,
Annette
Hi Annette, I use a padded panty that gives me wider hips, and enhances my bum all at the same time. I have tried hip pads on their own, but they move around a bit. Actually I have 2 versions of these, one that is longer in the leg, and has a tummy cincher as well, and one the is shorter in the leg, and no tummy control, and depending on what I’m planning to wear.
So, with some extra waist control, it gives me an acceptable femme figure.
However, I feel the same way about my hips, as a lot do about their breasts, meaning that I wish they were bigger. I have sometimes put the separate pads in with the padding in my panty, which gives me the wider hips I want, but I think that they get too lumpy, depending on what I’m wearing.
Amy
Hi Amy,
Thank you for your answer, I use too butt pads (with o without control panty) but I feel sometimes too constricted and sadly I can not wear my beautiful lacy bikinis, thongs o cheekies, so when I wear a dress I don’t use any pads at all.
Kisses,
Annette
I do owna padded him and “rear” padded girdle but have not worn it in years. When combined with all my other “down there” garments, gaff panties etc etc, it just gets in the way.
So whenever I venture out, I wear a jacket or cardi long enough to go over my “non padded” hips.
If you get everything else right, outfit/hair, make up, shoes/handbag, unless you really want to be a “curvaceous” figure, just dont bother with the padding
Happy dressing
Caty
Works well for me and may do so for others.
I wear hip pads if the shape of a skirt requires it – some don’t stay up otherwise.
The rest of the time I don’t wear them. Either what I’m wearing gives me the right silhouette, or I simply don’t stress about it.
I wear hip pads, I find I have to use skintac wipes to help keep them in place plus tights (pantyhose). I have never had a problem with them moving around. But in hot weather they can make you sweat. They do give me a good profile, I think. I have tried padded panties, they are ok but don’t seem to have the same smooth shape silicon pads do, but you can get around that by wearing control briefs over the top, they are also much cheaper to buy and don’t make you sweat so much. If i were you I would try padded panties first as the less expensive option and see how you get on, Good luck!
I’ll wear hip pads if the outfit calls for them, especially with slim-fitting pants. But I do try to look for skirts/dresses to wear that have enough of an A-line not to need them. Much more comfortable that way.
I always wear hip and butt padding even though I have a defined waist. I’m one of those people with almost no ass as my wife would say. Clothes choices also help but I feel padding is essential!
Sandy
Hip pads, butt pads and waist-cinching corset – all three most the time. But I’m in the closet and only dress for single-day photo shoots, with time to catch my breath in between outfit changes.
Could never wear all that battle armor for an extended period. But I feel that I do need it all for maximum effect. Hey, a girl my age needs all the help she can get 😉
I wear a padded panty with foam pads adding to both hips and buttocks and also an elastic waist chincher with spiral metal boning most of the time wether presenting male or female. In male mode i usually wear a pair of women’s skinny stretch jeans and a T-top. As a woman, l prefer wearing a dress or a skirt with a top or blouse, but often wear my jeans for casual activities.
Hi Annette, I have a pretty good shape but no rear to speak of so I have several different pair of patted panties foam and silicone they never come with thick enough pads I think, so I combine them in different combinations depending on the attire and with some clothes I like just some nice silk undies
Hi Annette,
Sometimes it’s just the clothes and I take what little breast tissue I have a stuff it into an A cup bra. When I’m glammed pads are a must. The only pads I use are Dresstech. Coupled with medical adhesive they are, in 50+ yrs of dressing, the best! Luv what they do for me, the clothes and how they encourage me swish and sway! HUGS Mina
Both!
Mostly I avoid padding unless necessary – it does interfere with the feel of the clothes, but sometimes you need the shape!
Sometimes is pretty much all the time for my bust, as I am flat as an ironing board, so breast forms in my bra at all times unless at home and on the rare occasions I don’t want that delicious feeling of bouncy weight – like when my back went recently!
For butt and hips, I have a Sodacoda garment, which is awesome for jeans, leggings, pencil skirts and bodycon dresses.
However, I usually wear fit and flare style dresses or flarey skirts with tucked in t-shirts or blouses, or even a belt over loose dresses to fake a waist and emphasise hips. The flare style suits me better from a feeling point of view too, as the material brushes against my legs, and I have the delicious feeling of bare legs or legs in tights in the elements while still covered – or not, depending on length!
I love all the amazing looks and styles you can create with female clothing!!!!
Love Laura
I use both, together or individually. It depends on the outfit I’ll be wearing.
I am a little lucky I really don’t need anything since i have what they call a sway back, which causes my butt to stick out and my hips are fairly good what a normal woman would be. The cloths I wear tend to show off what i need and the right accessories like a belt to break my body where i want it broke so it looks proper proportion helps. And proper strips will help. I attached a pic to show what I mean this is with no padding. Though i would love to give a little to my hips so a bodycon style or sweater dress would make me more hippy and give a more female appearance.
Hip pads are a must for most CDs in particular when going out and trying to blend in, IMHO. True, women come in all shapes and forms, but even females with no hips and wider shoulders can be mistaken by men. So, add up hands/feet, facial features, torso, etc on a CD, yes, makes it a lot easier to be read.
People will assess if you are a female or a male in the first fractions of a second when looking at you. Having a proportioned shape (hips = shoulders and waist = 2/3 if hips for an hourglass figure) will likely be seen as a female.
I could not agree more, when out observing people the first thing I notice is the clothes followed by the shape. That means female or male at a quick glance, I only look at the face last to perhaps confirm a gender.
Me I have no hips, pants fall down. In a woman I find slender hips the same, sexy.
When I get dressy, which means I’m wearing slimming undergarments, I’m fortunate in that I don’t need hip pads to give me a figure (slight tho it might be). But I do put in lower cheek pads – minimal – to try and make my rump a little bit rounder. I’m just trying my hardest to lose some belly weight to get my waist a little smaller (sigh!)
I first started using foam hip pads, the ones with removal pads that go into panties. They were ok, but I was never able to find a good size that fit me right, it was either a little too big or a little too small.
Too big and I would constantly get hip droop, too small and it was very uncomfortable. Plus, it looked like big warts on my hips and did not give me the look I wanted.
I finally ponied up for silicone hip and butt pads, and I’ve never looked back. Yes, they are heavy, and yes the first couple of times it is awkward to put and to get it close to symmetrical, but after you get a system down pact, it is as easy as breathing. You also get a much natural looking and feeling hips. It is expensive, but well worth it for me.
Chocolate and pizza, works every time.
I have very little in the way of hips. I have no ass. Luckily I have no waist either, so that helps. Basically I’m the shape of a light post with a couple of little bumps in it.
I work with what I have though. Still have my quasi-girly looks and hair, so it could be worse. 🙂
Stevie
Early this year I ordered two new figure shaping girdles from China with elongated foam pads reaching from a bit above the knees up to the waist and back over the buttocks. Covuid delayed the shipping but once they came it was instant success.
Thre i earlier got a fee bumps i now had the perfect smooth outline of a curkvy woman!
I don’t do anything really. But I sure wish I had bigger hips and a bigger rounder butt. Oh and bigger thighs, all the things a real woman complains about.
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I just tried these and love the results. I wish I had gotten a size smaller. I am 165 and ordered an 2xl should have gone with an xl.
No photos yet cant wait to really give them a strong outing.
Hugs
Diane
mmmm, i had a particularly difficult time with this..i worked on farms my whole life so i was 14p kg, all muscle 6 ft tall, darling, & so, before i managed to thankfully trim down, i used to use a combination..i used to tuck by wearing 2 pairs if panties;a tight thong with a second pair on top but an annoying bulge still in really tight clothes so i would wear a pair of tiny stretch lace shorts or micro skirt in top again which was perfect..i also found that by cutting some foam pads, i could place it in the shorts firmly &, even bending or close eye contact range, no bulge & a feminine inner thigh curve to accentuate the hip line, while the shorts added some minor bulk to the hips..i also added very thin foam so it felt almost natural to toucg to the outer thigh/buttock, held by the shorts again & would wear a second soft skirt when wearing skirts/ dresses..finally a slip sometimes to conceal any lines!..lol..💋
I like to use cheesecake
Flary skirts and dresses mostly, but definitely pads under figure hugging dresses and jeans.
Last time I wore jeans and boots, with a gaffe and pads, it was a little tricky to get the jeans done up, but the effect was quite devastating – got my first full on check out from a guy (First time I noticed, anyway!).
I could see from the reflections in shop windows that he was having a good long look at me walking away from him.
It’s not my thing to attract guys, as I’m physically repelled by maleness – a strong part of my attraction to being femme – but, as compliments go, that was a good one!
I will always wear a gaffe under tight dresses – pads are a bit tricky with really short dresses, as there’s little room for pad panties, but a gaffe is essential for non-tuckers like me.
If you’re doing karaoke and someone shouts “I can see your cock”, then you know you need to change your style a bit… not a great look, or an encouraging statement.
Hope it’s ok to repeat such words!
Love Laura
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