Tagged: Rebellious Xdressing
November 14, 2017 at 6:36 am #72952
Terrisa WashbourneParticipantOfflineRegistered On: October 29, 2017Topics: 7Replies: 149
Sometimes I feel that my Xdressing is merely an outlet for my rebellious attitude towards society that I can never seem to come to peace with.
I was wondering if there was anyone else that feels this way or started off this way.
Thanks and hugs – Terrisa
November 14, 2017 at 4:17 pm #73012
I used to be a Punk and dressed in some crazy attire complete with crazy hair styles. Then I went Goth and it got weird lol.
I think every one here rebels against the preconceived notions of attire and yes they generally do it for their selves. It’s not a rebellion per se but one that says “I am going to wear what I want and I don’t care what you think unless you say I look good.”
I hope I got what you wrote right and maybe your right it isn’t how it started but it is how it is now.
Thanks and hugs – TerrisaNovember 14, 2017 at 10:50 am #72976JaimeParticipantOfflineRegistered On: July 3, 2017Topics: 4Replies: 28
Thank you for expressing something that I have had a hard time admitting. The way I am expressing myself gender in public is to paint my fingernails. Just seeing some people react negatively or outraged by it. It makes me feel like a punk rocker. I once had a co-worker who was in a bunch of punk bands. We used to joke about the silly things people do to be “punk”.
Overall, the motive for crossdressing isn’t rebellion. I can think of a million ways to rebel against society. Mainly, telling people that they are smarter and better than how they are behaving. I crossdress, because I am finally expressing something that I kept repressed for a really long time. One of the main reason is because of society. In a way, I am rebelling against society. However, I am not doing for them. I am doing it for myself.November 14, 2017 at 9:07 am #72968
Thanks Kendra, it makes total sense to me. When I first went out in my skirt and tights, I wore it to say “I can wear whatever I want and I don’t care what you think.” I was a very rebellious back then and did anything I could (in demonstration and words, never violence.) to disrupt the way people thought. But there was that little voice in my head that said I have to keep this skirt and I wore the Hell out of that skirt until my SO shut it down for fear of the children. Maybe I’m only half a xdesser lol.
Thanks and hugs, Kendra – TerrisaNovember 14, 2017 at 8:27 am #72967
Hi Lady V,
Just still trying to figure out where I fit into the CD/XD equation and was looking for insight from the outside. “…Love my dogs…” lol I so understand that. I too am tired of intolerance and idoicy. I always say “I don’t care what you eat, wear or whom you sleep with; I only care if you are a good person.”
Thanks and hugs – Terrisa
1 user thanked author for this post.November 14, 2017 at 7:59 am #72965Lady Veronica GraunwolfParticipantOfflineRegistered On: May 8, 2017Topics: 16Replies: 723
Hi Terrisa!! You pose an interesting question. Myself, I cross dress because I love the clothing and role playing. As a rebellion against society….no. Society and I have never declared peace. It is an ongoing war that will never end. I was born with genes of intolerance for idiocy, stupidity, rudeness, racism, and just plain people as such. The expression of…..”the more people I meet, the better I love my dog” tends to apply. HOWEVER, I just love my girls at CDH. If I had inherited my families land, I would have declared and independent country where all my “socially unaccepted friends could live and be happy” My very own Camelot as it were. For now…….hugs and pecks
Lady V.November 14, 2017 at 7:39 am #72961KendraParticipantOfflineRegistered On: September 10, 2015Topics: 14Replies: 50
I have never thought of the desire to crossdress being associated with a desire to rebel, but there probably is a connection between feeling rebellious and deciding to act on my desire to femininze despite what “society’s norms” might suggest is acceptable.
I have had the desire to wear feminine clothes from a very young age and i think the desire itself is separate from what “authority figures” or “society” thought about it. But I have to admit that now that I am little older and care a little less about what others think and a little less about authority and the status quo – I do indulge in my need to feminize more freely.
So I guess being rebellious wouldn’t make the desire to crossdress any greater, but it would make me do it more – does that make sense?November 14, 2017 at 7:12 am #72958Lanna BartonParticipantOnlineRegistered On: May 25, 2017Topics: 7Replies: 210
No, not at all. Just an expression of my true self.November 14, 2017 at 7:11 am #72957
Ineresting Lanna, do you see the female in you rebellious?November 14, 2017 at 6:42 am #72953Lanna BartonParticipantOnlineRegistered On: May 25, 2017Topics: 7Replies: 210
My desire goes much deeper. I have a very strong feminine side and I feel the incredible urge to express it. It completes me as I do believe there is a women in here trying to escape!!!
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