Dressing En Femme in Public on New Year's Eve?

Dressing En Femme when celebrating New Year's Eve 12/31/2021?

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    • #592408
      Jane Holliday
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      If I was in New York, absolutely I would, if I was in Chicago I would, if I was in Vegas I would, if I was in LA or SF I would, but I’m not so I’m staying at home, probably going to be asleep before 10.

    • #592349
      Robyn DeVyne
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      Definitely!!

      There wasn’t a button for “HELL YEAH!!”  LOL!!

      Robyn

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      We’re not really new years people, watch the ball drop if we make it that far and go to bed so it’s a no on the dressing too, my wife doesn’t like it. Also this year we’re taking care of 3 grandkids so that kind of seals the deal there. I’m not explainingto a 3, 4 and 6 year old way they  have 2 grandmas tonight, wouldn’t be good. lol

    • #591322
      Katie Plowright
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      We will not be going out. Even if we did I wouldn’t be allowed to. Unfortunately that itch is growing. I can dream that Katie could see in the New Year but within the SO guidelines that probably will not happen.

    • #589964
      Alison Anderson
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      For starters, I don’t usually go out on New Year’s Eve.  I’m not really a night owl, I usually head to bed around 15 minutes after the ball drops.  There have been years I went to sleep before midnight.  I can’t see paying super expensive prices going out just because a digit is flipping on the calendar. More often the extent of  “going out” means going to pick up Chinese food to bring home.

      Last year I dressed up at home, complete with wig and makeup.  I had a friend who was in the transformation business and she had to move away.  As she was selling her inventory, I found a dress that I wore 10 years earlier in a show she put on.  It was black with sparkles throughout and very slinky.  I included it in what I took.  So New Year’s Eve was an appropriate time to wear it.  I have a photo of it in my private gallery.

      But this year, New Year’s Eve falls on a Friday night with New Year’s Day on a Saturday.  So I’m going to be out at Sabbath services until 10 PM on Friday, and it doesn’t make sense to start to put on makeup for just a few hours of staying home.  And I can’t sleep too late on Saturday for the Sabbath morning services.  So I may change into something late Friday night, but it’s not likely to be with makeup and wig.

    • #589950
      Amy Myers
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      We (my wife and I) are going to a CD/TG party at a private house, so for part of the time we will be out in public. Two years ago when we toasted in 2020 I was also out celebrating en femme. Little did we know what what was going to happen in a few months.

      Amy

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    • #589646
      BigBangtheory
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      Haven’t been out for New Years celebration in a long time. If they moved it up to about 8pm cst we would probably go out. We still don’t get to sleep though as we live in a rural area. Fireworks, shotgun and automatic rifle fire are common. I wish everyone a happy and safe celebration…. Stephanie

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      Krista
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      Hi April.  I wish I could.  My wife hates going out for New’s Years Eve.  This year, due to my daughter’s relationship status, I think my wife (who knows about me being a CD) will likely be babysitting our grandchildren for our daughter at her house.  So I’ll be at home and will be dressed en femme having a bit of the sparkly.  Cheers, Krista.

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    • #589333
      Requal Joanne
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      It would be soooo nice if I could.   Toooo many friends around and I am a very private dresser.  Only the wife knows.

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    • #589311
      Sandy Chase
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      Hey it’s Sandy!  Dressing on New Years is a perfect situation to go out a see and be seen in your lovely outfit. If you go to the right restaurant or bar your will be very welcome so go out, put on your sexy short dress or skirt and don’t worry about what people think or say.
      Its a great opportunity so go for it!

      The first time I went out I had to ride the hotel elevator with a security guard!
      Anyway have fun and wear something pretty tonight

      Hugs, Sandy.

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    • #589249
      Elizabeth(Liz)
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      You girls who’ve supportive partners are very fortunate.
      Hope you enjoy whatever you’re doing enjoy the occasion
      Liz

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    • #589246
      Dawn Judson
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      I would love to. Some TG/CD friends will be in town. I’d love to meet up with them, but my wife has us going out of town to spend New Year’s with our daughters.

       

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    • #589211
      Alicia Sunrise
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      I am a maybe. There is a LBGQT New Years celebration an hour away at a club that I want to go to if a number of star align.

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      • #589212
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        Alicia, I do so hope you get the chance girl.

        Crystal

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          Alicia Sunrise
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          Thanks Crystal!

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    • #589117
      Liara Wolfe
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      April, while the thought of being able to go out in public En Femme is what I desire, I am not there yet. Hope that those that do go out have a wonderful time.

      Hugs, Liara

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      If i could too i would, but i will be at home with my wife,

      As I’m still in the closet it will be difficult to get dressed up,

      Hugs Roz X

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      • #589218
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        I’m similar- but I intend to underdress and enjoy that which is possible under the circumstances-( well under something!!)
        Anya

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    • #589043
      Michelle McQueen
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      Going to be with family so its a NO

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    • #589032
      Gina Sinclair
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      If I could I would in a heartbeat

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    • #591379
      April Flowers
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      Love your response Laura. Right on spot gurl. Showing confidence when out in public is by far the mental attitude to have in stores or just out walking. That confidence also pushes out of your mind any thoughts of who may be looking at me, trying to “read” me and just enjoy.

      -April

    • #591370
      Laura Lovett
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      Hey Bonnie

      Do what feels good to you, honey!

      I’ve seen a few guys with beards and makeup en femme, and that’s just the way they want to play it – there are no rules except the ones in people’s heads!!

      Just get into the character of it – you’re going to look like someone who doesn’t mind/care what people think, so own that mindset.

      Your rules, your party and everyone is welcome!

      Love Laura

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    • #591331
      Michelle McQueen
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      Hi Bonnie. I understand you making a joke about dressing, but to me, face hair just doesn’t work when enfem but I know everyone is different too.

      I suggest you shave and go as girly as possible as best you can. Go over the top with your outfit or blend in, you know your audience best, either way you’re going to have a fun memorable time. I’m sure you’ll get lots of compliments. What a great way to bring in the New Year!

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    • #589920
      Sandy Chase
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      Hi Bonnie I see you’re going to venture out onto the world! That’s awesome! Yes you’ll be nervous but the pleasure and femme feeling is definitely worth the price.
      I wear a beard myself sometimes and go to a great drag/gay/tourist bar and restaurant and still have no problems there (Atlanta) in fact the shows host sports a beard as does one of the performers.
      I digress, the point is dress up put your makeup on and don’t worry about what people might think. Have a Bonny time and enjoy yourself. Hugs Sandy.

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    • #589507
      Dawn Judson
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      Bonnie, if those are really your pictures on your profile page, why would you want to hide that beauty with a beard? You are much too pretty to do that.

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    • #589501
      Sara Todd
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      Bonnie. If I were to go out dressed on New Years Eve I would have to go all out with a good shave make up and nails. Its not that it would be dishonest but you would miss out on the  chance to be truly feminine in public. I have only be out en femme  in public on Halloween and decided  to be fully en femme and it was exhilarating.  Although wearing a beard would be less nerve wracking you lessen your joy. If you want to have the option of making light of it anyway, you can try being a bit over the top. Good luck, Sara

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    • #589921
      Sandy Chase
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      Sara, great reply to Bonnie wish I had said it! Sandy

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    • #589734
      April Flowers
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      Agree completely Sara.

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      Dawn Judson
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      Aww. Aren’t you sweet! If you were here, I’d give you a great big hug.

       

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    • #589307
      April Flowers
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      Hi Bonnie. Yes, we have all been through the nerve racking “first time in public”. In my case, the nervousness ended after 3 times out in public. It was really , really worth the absolute freedom once you go out in public. The world opens up to you.

      -April

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    • #589304
      Sandy Chase
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      Hey it’s Sandy!
      Wonderful you’ve been thinking about venturing out en femme. It’s a trying experience the first time but don’t be afraid or embarrassed I went through it myself and felt the same way. Trust me… the trepidation is well worth it. Have you thought what you’re going to wear?
      Good luck and have a fabulous time.
      Hugs Sandy.

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