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Any other girls find that when you dress that you don’t want to change out of your femme clothes? Or even when you have a great day dressed that you want to start the next day just the same. I do stay within the boundaries of what my wife and I have discussed but find I constantly need more time dressed as a woman.
ThanksAshley❤️
I know what you mean, honey. Sometimes when I’m dressed, I wish I never had to take the stuff off!
Fredrika xox
yes, very much so. I still think of it as the pink fog (I don’t know who coined the term), though the more I get into this the less fog there seems to be but I still feel the pull and it does get worse when I’m already dressed. Out of sight out of mind, at some level perhaps.
— Abbie 🥰
Natural was the right word, thanks. It’s feeling more natural by the day.
— Abbie 🥰
waking up and slipping on my silk robe then going into to use bathroom then notice Donna staring at herself in the bathroom mirror still as girly as the day before.
Donna
Love dressing and staying dress all day long and half way through the night. Then undress and slide on something more girly feeling while relaxing or going to bed. Like a cami or babydoll or teddy.
Donna
Absolutely, Ashley! I have had the hardest time shutting it down. Days when I have to dress, I don’t want to go to bed b/c I need to take off my makeup and all the rest. If my wife were agreeable, I’d be in gurl-mode way more than not. Most mornings when I get up and see myself in the mirror, I already start the day a little depressed.
Omg, Once Dressed It makes me want to be Dressed…All the Time.. It’s intoxicating being who you want to be…
I call this the pandora paradox … once you let her out of the box you have a hard job putting her away again .. it’s a big come down ‘de-princessing’ after an extended time en-fem ..
I manage to control it by planing the next time out and what I will wear and what I will do – it cushions the blow a bit to have something to look forward to.
Hugs
Dawn
Good morning Ashley,
I was going to send you a PM, but I want this out in the open.
OMG! Ashley, you described my emotions perfectly!
When I’m dressed I feel emotions I have never felt as a man. I feel complete, I feel fulfilled, I feel whole, I feel this is who I want to be.
Being a woman gives comfort to my soul. The frustrated alpha male has finally found a home.
Is dressing something to do for 45 minutes a day? Is that enough for me? The answer terrifies me. Maybe I know the answer. Maybe that is what terrifies me.
Ladies, I am not looking to change the world. I will confront the world as a man.
I want to have a life in private as a woman. Does that life mean 45 minutes, or is it 24/7/365?
When will I stop pretending and when will I just be who I have become in my heart.
Diane
Ashley…
Is putting her ” away ” the saddest thing ever????…..
but then is getting her out again the best thing????….
for those who cannot be the girl 24/7…….it really is the greatest example of chalk and cheese!!!
Huggs, grace xx
In resent months I have had a lot of free time to dress. With nothing else to distract me I can’t help but want to play dress-up.
Another reason for this is, because I decided to let my hair grow because I couldn’t get a hair cut during COVIT. I’m really enjoying being able to wear it in a ponytail which is something I have always dreamed about growing up.
Now having long hair is constantly reminding me of my feminine side even when doing masculine things like just going to the hardware store. I put my hair in a ponytail and tie it back with a pink hair tie. I find it exciting that in a small way I am exposing my feminine side yet I really don’t think anyone notices.
For years now I have been wearing panties daily and that has become quite normal. It’s only when I’m in the mood to go shopping for women’s clothes that I will often wear a bra, slip and stockings along with my panties to add to my feeling of femininity.
What I’m getting the greatest pleasure from now is I feel like I am openly showing my feminine side at all times if only in a small way by having my hair in a ponytail and wearing a pink hair tie.
The thought of dressing is now on my mind all the time and I feel I can’t get enough of it.
Lacy, thoughts and feelings like you describe is the reason I took the first 4 days of September to ‘Find Cassie’. 2 and half days there were 100% in fem. I did throw drab jeans, shirt and shoes in the trunk on my trip, but never touched them. The only problem was I was all by myself most of the time.
still trying to find myself though.. . .Cassie
Hi Ashley
I absolutely agree it is difficult when you have to undress especially when your feeling so good.
The last item I remove is my bra, I love to look in the mirror and see all the marks on my body.
Love Sarah
xx
Here is a little different reply. When I am dressed, it thrills me beyond belief. Even when alone, I am so immersed into my femininity that all I can think about is what I want to wear or shop for the next opportunity. One of the things I love CDH for is the inspiration I get from seeing what my sisters are wearing. Several times, I write to them to find out where they purchased one of more items.
I am getting very excited as the pandemic wanes and there are more opportunities to shop in person and, of course, meet my lady friends in this area.
Hugs
Mary Priscilla
Not only longer but more completely. Simply donning a pair of panties is no longer enough. I simply must be completely dressed with breast forms and wig. I feel so normal when dressed as Jillian that I forget that I have to change so I delay until the last possible minute to “de-girl”.
Jillian
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