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      Caroline OBrien
      Registered On: April 18, 2020
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      I got my ears pierced a couple months ago. I work in mining, NOBODY at work mentioned the piercings. The self centered fears which prevented me from getting piercings for decades were unwarranted.

      Go get em!!!


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      Connie Twirl
      Registered On: August 18, 2021
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      It’s not like you’re going to be wandering around site with a pair of chandeliers. I think your idea is cool. If anyone gives you grief, offer to do theirs – with a nail gun.



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      Samantha Jo
      Registered On: April 3, 2021
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      Hi Trisha

      What a lovely way to remember your friends.


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      Fredrika Jones
      Registered On: February 24, 2021
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      Very lovely idea – thanks for sharing!

      Big Kiss,

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      Cassie Jayson
      Registered On: September 29, 2019
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      Trisha, that’s a terrific Idea to have your friends initials on your earrings,to remember them. I am going to guess that you will have smaller earrings first latter you might get larger ones, again with their initials. That is a super way to remember and honor your friends and let your girl side peek around the corner too.
      Similar is how I came up with justifying having my nails done. I have had longer acrilic nails for over 2 months now. I got them done in my collage colors with the collage initials on them.

      . . . Cassie

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      Registered On: September 13, 2018
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      You get it done, & forget about the needling. If someone starts, you look them right in the face & say “What are you, a 12 year old???!!” Pierced ears are widely accepted for males.
      It’s not just for us girls anymore. Tip: Get sterling silver studs (they’re not as expensive as gold), & they look great! Oh, & LEAVE them in for a few months! Don’t be tempted to take them out & use regular earrings. One final thing: Don’t use cheap base metal earrings, as they will irritate your piercings & hurt like hell! Use ONLY sterling silver or gold!
      This girl knows from personal experience. Good luck darling.

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        Trisha Smith
        Registered On: August 24, 2020
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        I am definitely using that line. 😃

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      Stephanie Bass
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      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi Trisha sorry about your friends hugs for them .. But yes on getting ears done with daughter what a great bonding thing to do . And a tribute to friends another great idea as when i had mine done wife did one many years ago it was the cool thing to do  then a boss at work i also worked in construction was a jerk and bitched about it and i knew he could do nothing about it  so the next week i pierced the other one to piss him off more and he he it worked and i looked great ha ha .. good luck girl ..

      Stephanie Bass

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      Lara Tucker
      Registered On: September 29, 2021
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      Hi Trisha,

      This sounds like a great opportunity to honor your friends! What a great idea!

      I used to work on construction sites in NYC in the mid 1990’s. It was kind of trendy back then for guys to have both ears pierced. No one would have said much. You got more flack for having long hair back then.

      Hugs, Lara

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      Regine Kelly
      Registered On: October 9, 2020
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      I think it is a wonderful opportunity, and a great way to honour your friends, Trisha.
      I need to be a total man at work, unfortunately, but when I got mine done exactly 8 weeks ago, I just puffed out my chest,(with my bra on), and said, yeah, so? no further comments, lol.

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      Robyn Drake
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      Registered On: March 19, 2019
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      Great idea Trisha!

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      Baroness - Annual
      Registered On: February 5, 2019
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      Hi Trisha,

      I’ve only just had mine done, still healing and have studs in, and really, they are so inoffensive, I can’t imagine even in construction, that men could make any deal out of it without themselves looking silly. And the idea of ‘significant’ earrings, makes it even more so.

      And don’t forget, if you get second thoughts later on, you can just leave them to heal up and the holes go.

      Marti xxx

      (and commiserations about your friends early exits. Life isn’t fair sometimes.)

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