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I am tired of seeing my Trans/CD sisters constantly go through heartbreak from trying to date guys who are simply just not ready for us. Whether it be posts on here or social media platforms, the stories are increasing substantially. Life is to short to not be with someone who can possibly understand you the best. That is why I have sworn off dating men and will only date a Trans/CD or cis woman. Period. Men are not comfortable with us and probably will not be for a long time. They are a waste of time relationship speaking. Flings and rebound sex, ok maybe. But they have over and over again shown they are not mentally and emotionally ready/prepared to be in a relationship with us. Maybe if more of us start doing what I do it will be the wake up call that men need to get their minds right before stepping to us. By the way, what better person could there be than someone who is going or has gone through the part of the journey we are in? And as for cis women, they have been more supportive of us for such a long time. The first cross-dressing academy in the USA was started by a woman…am I wrong? If we seriously want more healthy and fruitful relationships, we got to do our part too. We have to be open to changing who we go after if need be. Stop expecting our “dream date” of a guy to be able to be emotionally and mentally supportive.
Who is with me?
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