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So, I may have “accidently” entered the online hookup scene without even realizing it..
I was told that Fetlife was a good site for meeting other crossdressers. I signed up recently, right around the time I joined this site. I listed the current city and I just recently uploaded some photos (and yes, some of them may be a bit racy). I knew the site was more adult/kink oriented, but I heard it was more like a social media site. I didn’t realize it was first, and foremost a hookup site.
I’ve been kinda unsuccessful at connecting with other crossdressers on there.. Instead, I’ve been receiving a lot of messages from local guys who want to get together with me.. For most of them I’m going to say no, but there have been one or two guys that are actually insanely good looking, and I feel like I’m going to kick myself later if pass up a good opportunity..
I’ve been with men before, as my male self, but never as my femme self.. I have NO IDEA what the etiquette is here. I don’t know what their expectations are. I don’t know if I have to use a fem voice (or if I even can). Some of these guys messaging me are starting to act impatient. I haven’t even mentioned that I have crazy social anxiety.. I haven’t even left my apartment dressed yet, and very few people have even seen me dressed. Am I kidding myself here thinking that I could go through with this?? I am in way over my head..
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