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A big part of me as a crossdresser is fantasies. I’m curious if other girls fantasize while dressed. I have found it enhances my experience. I envision being complimented and called a beautiful woman. Curious to hear from other ladies.
Hi Amber. I crossdress in a world of fantasy. It helps me cheer up. But I do not lose contact with reality and I know that I will go out to face a cruel world. I think that fantasy is partt of this life that has chosen us. Mainly because for the time being I crossdress in private.
When I was a child, I found myself one day seeing myself in the position of a superheroine in a comic book that I was reading. It felt so vivid. At that moment and since then I began to identify with female characters of tales, short stories and novels and even TV series and movies. I still do it.
Cinnamon kisses,
Gisela
Thanks Gisela. I can totally relate.
hi amber, like yourself, I dream of being complimented as a very attractive girl. I think its more low self esteem and confidence in my case, plus years of people at school, as a boy, them telling me I was ‘ugly’. things like that stick in your mind all your adult life. I try really hard to maintain a good look, I train at the gym to improve my body, buy very pretty clothes, nice long wigs etc. to be honest even if someone did complement me, I would wonder if they are saying that just to make me feel better. of course not everyone is like that, its just my stupid mind.
fiona xxx
Hi Amber, for the longest time, I had the same fantasy. I don’t want any trace of s male look in me at all. I’m a woman and I wish to be treated as such.
When I recently went down to the big city dressed, that fantasy came true. I swear, I almost cried. A handsome guy about my age rushed ahead of me to open the door and gave me a smile. That left me on cloud nine. While I was seeing my therapist I asked if I passed. She said not only do I pass but I am naturally stunning. She couldn’t believe how feminine my features are and how I really am a “beautiful girl.” Cue the water works I literally almost cried right there lol
WOW! My fantasy too.
Hello Amber, Yes I like fantasies when dressing up. I like to think i am still a schoolgirl, & have no worries . That’s why I like to dress in my school uniforms, & imagine still being at school. Putting my school uniform on & making out I am going to school, then coming home again & getting changed out of uniform & into a pretty dress is so great.
love, Helenmarie
I haven’t even gotten dressed or put make-up on my face yet, but since I’ve started down this road, the vivid fantasies have been ruling my mind the last few weeks.
HI amber
i have always fantasized when I get dolled up ! the whole process of putting on makeup and getting I just right, picking out my lingerie, and putting on my clothes and looking just right, I think about getting ready for a date or a party. Or putting on some sexiest lingerie and heels and showing off for someone, I feel so feminine and sexy and I am in a total feminine and female state of mind .
Hello ladies:)
Yes I love To see myself as a women. Fiona made a good point about low self esteem and confidence. As a woman there are several options open for me to change my look. No mater what I did in my younger years I could do enough to change my outward appearance so when I am in femme I fantasize about starting all over again as a female. Hope that doesn’t sound weird. 🙃
Amber to some extent we all have a fantasy, I believe. There is nothing like watching a woman glow with confidence. We are no different. We still strive to show our allure through confience as well have emulating our version of the women we choose to be. Not to mention that there isn’t a woman alove that does want to hear that she is beautiful.
[quote quote=129145]I think its more low self esteem and confidence in my case, plus years of people at school, as a boy, them telling me I was ‘ugly’. things like that stick in your mind all your adult life.
[/quote]I know exactly how this feels Fiona. All through Jr and Sr high, I was the awkward ‘guy’. The ugly one. The piece that never fit. Maybe it was because I never knew how to be a guy. While my brothers ran around with girls and played sports, I watched fashion week and went shopping with my girlfriends at the mall. It’s stucj though my whole life until now. I’ve decided I needed to work out my past and be able to accept me for me. Kids are cruel. We do t have to let the cruel kids of our past define our present
Hi all,
I suppose that as I adore period gowns and own a Civil War and a “Marie Antoinette” ballgown, complete with appropriate wigs and accessories, that my fantasy would be to be taken back in time be taken to a ball by a handsome young man, conveyed in his horse and carriage and be attended as I alight by his footmen.
Then have a lovely night at the ball dancing the night away with my “Beau” then fall into his arms at the end of the night for some passionate… well you can guess the rest.
Two problems. The male me cant dance to save himself, much less do it in heels backwards
Secondly, Didn’t poor old “MA” end up losing her head???
Not much good fantasy in that lot.
Caty
As a teen, my first intimate relationship was with a guy friend of mine. We were best friends that hung out, talked about girls, talked about wanting to be girls, played football, went fishing, you name it we did it. There were times where one or the other even had a girlfriend, but we always kept our secret special relationship until he moved away. My fantasy is to have that again with a cd/Tg. It would be an intimate relationship with my best friend while we were in femme or during every other activity.
Love❤️
Jenny
My fantasy is about having a BFF…another girl like me who I could get together with, in person or online as circumstances allow, for completely feminine girl chat over a glass of wine, mutual modelling of clothes and even lingerie, some photography, maybe an evening out, etc. The intrigue for me is the prospect of spending time with someone who is wired just like me and understands the pure pleasure of surrendering to their feminine side and feeling pretty and sexy. Does that make any sense?
My fantasy is to tell all my friends and family that I’m part woman and come out for our holiday party in a short sparkly holiday dress!! Z
My fantasy is and has always been to be a corporate ball buster sleazy attorney. One who would use her knowledge and outfits to get what she wants. Maybe an Armani suit with a short pin stripe skirt, glossy nylons and heels. Wowza!!!! Z
I definitely fantasize about being a gorgeous woman walking down the street and holding that proud and beautiful confidence. Scared I can’t pass though, thank-you my enormous male frame. Baby steps? Just random acts within that feeling. Like standing in line getting coffee and causing a little stir with a young cashier or something like that, catching someone checking me out. Smile, nod, and walk away feeling beautiful.
I would actually love to have a girlfriend help me put on makeup and walk around in heels though.
My favorite fantasy starts with a dimly lit boudoir with a comfortable daybed draped from the ceiling with velvet drapes held in the middle with gold ropes – large fluffy pillows strewn on top: from the side door I walk out slowly and seductively, glide across the room in front of the daybed and then out the door on the other side of the room. As the soft Jazz music plays in the background I reenter the room, now wearing a crimson sheer baby doll and lacy high waist panties. Sliding across the room, exiting through the original door, only to return wearing a matching teal chemise and pantie set… back and forth with a different outfit from my collection every time. Time after time after time. With each pass, the woman on the day bed gets more and more excited, breathing harder and harder squirming and undulating under her wide brimmed black hat. As she moves, the opening in her lushes red dressing gown parts and just a hint of white cleavage shows through. The sight of my wife’s lusciousness, just the hint of what is to come, finally ends the private showing of my collection of intimate apparel – and starts a new fantasy that is not appropriate for these pages!
Can I have another turn? Be one of the women on the General Chat “Life as it Goes On” image. They are sooo sexy!! Z
Fantasies! OMG, that is very hugh. Waking up in my frilliest negligee, with a hang over that would be common for a $2 hooker. Yep I have had them. It usually involves me, of course, as a pet to a beautiful woman who like to dress me up as she likes. Maybe as a little girl, or her sissy, or her maid. I must to do as she says or get spanked. Oh she is so mean and then so nice. She makes me walk and talk as a girl, I must always smile, My stocking and panties must be perfect and the dresses she makes me wear are just so cute. Yes I have had them before. I hear her calling, I have to go put on another petticoat, I have a feeling it will be a long day. I will try to sneak some more aspirin.
Ouch!, byeee
I have quite a few.Probably top of the list is for me and my wife to go out dressed up to the nines in beautiful clothes with immaculate hair and makeup.Another recurring fantasy is to wear a bridal gown with white stockings underneath.Yet another favourite is to hang out with genetic women with me dressed en femme,chatting about clothes and makeup and being generally girly.I would also love to be a drag performer and dress as my fashion idol,Kate Middleton. Musn’t forget wanting to be dressed as an air hostess with nude pantyhose.
I have a rather odd dream. I guess you could call it a fantasy. It will have a low probability of ever occurring.
I am a married gentleman, heterosexual, and CD. My wife is heterosexual and not necessarily a CD. She tolerates my CD as long as I limit it..she wants a husband…not a girlfriend. We have been happily married 18 years.
My dream is that I am at my wedding. I am wearing a white dress. My wife is wearing the tuxedo/suit. We are the only two at our wedding that are ‘reversed’. Everyone else is traditional per the gender roles.
That is the fantasy
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I think the entire CD universe is based on fantasy isn’t it? We all want to transform into versions of females.
My fantasy is to be an actual sexy curvy female with all the right attributes and have the knowledge I do as a male. Men are putty in the hands of a beautiful female who despite the male ego in reality holds all the power.
Hi all, I don’t think I saw what I thought was every CDs dream – being made to dress as a Playboy bunny and work in a PB club or casino. Thinking about your boobs caressed by the outfit, and knowing every guy in the room is looking at you, the dark, shiny pantyhose, how it would feel when they zipped up the outfit and you are “trapped” in it until they unzip you. Ooohhhh… (blush)
Brielle 💋
To be my most beautiful female self (tight red summery dress) in a cd friendly club (Ibiza – Spain), dancing and drinking until 4am, and going home with a special lady; basically a fantasy of living a more fun life with no regrets.
I fantasize all the time, I play around doing a bit of writing, mainly real short stories for my grandkids but have sent a couple of pieces into Litoretica, crossdresser erotic literature Under the name Heather J. I’ve always had a very vivid imagination and this is my way of getting it out. I’ve done quite a bit this last year plus with a lot of excess time on my hands. I think I get it from my mom, she wrote children’s books and had several published.
I’ve always had the fantasy of going to bed and waking up a woman, I think that just goes with the CD territory.
Fantasy – as someone said in one of the previous replies; the whole CD experience is a fsntasy. I concur.
Mine: A woman 24/7/365. Traditionally feminine, living in a traditionally conservative feminine roll. Girlfriend – to a man, being his girl, fiancee, wife, carry and giving birth to his children, breast feeding and mothering my children, and at my age being a grandma. I would love to be able to seamlessly and without impunity be involved in the various lady’s ministries in my church, perhaps able to teach a class of teen girls, work in the nursery etc.
I am wise enough to see that many cis-woman have their share of both physical and emotional pain. Ah, so all is not happily ever after is it? There is not always a prince to swoon, nor a knight in shining armor to charm and rescue. However as I have thought it through, I will accept the pain if I could do so as a female.
I am not sure that these thoughts are fantasy or the evidence that because of their depth and realness to me that indeed I am more than a CDer; I truly am a woman who is ordained to carry the label trans. Or as I like to express it, a woman who is tasked with male responsibilities.
Fantasy or reality or a mixture of both?
This is something, I’m sure others have had some fantasies themselves and still do.
For me, honestly my one fantasy I like seeing myself as when dressed (aside from being the woman I feel inside) is being pregnant. I know it’s not something for a lot of other crossdressers, but for me it’s something I do fantasize about. I know it’s not possible for me, but it’s fun to dream.
Though just being the best version of the woman I am inside is fantasy enough.
I to have. No had fantasies for a long time. Then one day I thought I’m not getting any younger if I don’t do it now I never will. My fantasy was to be taken sexually by a man ( I would love it to be a night in shining armer) but no i could not find one. So the next best thing wos go to a meeting place where any thing go’s ( gays lesbians dog in voyeurs and yes crossdresers ). So here I am in a tight top mini skirt suspenders panties stockings and five inch high heels. In this place not knowing what to do next ? So I get out my car and walk up and down this line of cars then get back into my car. With in 5 minutes there’s a knock on my window I open it and this man asked me if I would like company. I told him yes so he got in my front seat with me. He told me his name I told him mine. He asked what I would like I told him what ever he likes is all right with me. I won’t go into details just to say two of my fantasies are not fantasies any more and I lost my female Virginity. The moral is don’t wait to long with your fantasies act on them now before it’s too late you won’t be sorry Amanda xxx
An old thread…and before even my time!
But to answer the question – well, yes, of course!
Like Heather Jameson below, I also write (and publish, once on Amazon and many on fictionmania) stories, so, almost for every one of them, I tend to fantasize as the hero-ine. Imagining being that person and looking for motivations and normal human reactions to what’s going on around that person as they navigate through life. Like Doyle might have done with Sherlock or Jane Austin with Elizabeth Bennet, except being tg, I can release that need to explore a little of the opposite sex, and put myself in vastly different situations. Except for 1 story, my stories are, of course, fictional but with no magick nor s/f or unknown chemicals being involved.
Since I’ll never transition, these characters help me deal with my desires and dreams.
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