What are your favorite things to do at home when you’re dressed

What do you like to do when you dressed at home.

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  • General housework, dishes, laundry, vacuuming, etc
  • Cooking or baking.
  • Reading
  • Listening to music
  • Watching TV
  • Playing video games.
  • Sitting outside
  • Exercising
  • Other, please explain
  • All of the above
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    • #405598
      Jill Sweet
      Registered On: November 2, 2020
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      Closing my eyes and imagining the possibilities.

      Sweet pink kisses


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    • #405584
      Rachel Cross
      Registered On: October 13, 2020
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      if im dressing at home its because im getting ready to go out. i dont like sitting around the house dressed. i need to be outside and showing off my nice clothes, shoes and nails. i need to be seen and have fun. i need excitement and complements. i need to meet new people and go to new places. i need to be free. dont keep me penned up.

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      Ginger Johnson
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      Because I cannot dress a often as I want, when I am I love to pose for pictures so I can remember


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    • #396005
      karley delaware
      Registered On: October 23, 2017
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      Hi Emily…….all the above!!  Then when taking a break from say housework, I imagine having a snack with the girls here…………talking and laughing…………….exchanging  stories about guys……..or girls (?!!).  Fashion……………getting into silly, funny arguments about stuff but ALWAYS kiss , hug and make up before going back to work……..giggling like  little girls……………………karely

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      Dee Bouhaire
      Registered On: October 10, 2020
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      Had this option been included, the results would have been very different 😉

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      Cheri Loves
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      I like that myself. Mmmmmm

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      Patty Phose
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      I like to meet up with other girls, exchange stories, get makeovers and go out together.

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      Rei Durden
      Registered On: October 11, 2020
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      I am currently putting a new toilet in our basement bathroom in my 4” pumps!

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      Sarah Lacy
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      I find it really strange that if I have the house to myself and a chance for Sarah time I like to dress en-femme fairly conservatively clothing wise and do the housework, cleaning etc that I would never dream of doing unless asked in male mode.

      Once all the chores are done it is time for a shower and a change into more sexier clothes and a complete relax listening to classical music in the bedroom. It seems that to indulge myself in a relaxing Sarah time I have to subconsciously earn the right to do it by being  a good housewife and carrying out the cleaning and tidying chores beforehand. Weird I know but it is something that has developed into a dressing ritual over the years and I know that whilst doing the more menial tasks I am buying myself a more pleasurable time later on. Either way I always look forward to those days and  in a perverse way my other half benefits too.


    • #392548
      Caty Ryan
      Registered On: August 27, 2017
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      1/. On the net, escpecially on CDH, not to mention all the lovely lingerie blogs and websites.. eg Her Room and The Lingerie Addict

      2/. Out in public shopping, but the “bug” has ruined that for 2020

      3/ Cooking, (usually a big casserole), then break it down into “dinners for two” and freeze it

      4/ Wash all my lovely Caty lingerie, iron it and then carefully fold it all and put it in my secreted dresser drawers.

      5/. When I can be dressed and have girly phone chats with my CD friends here in OZ.

      6/. If and when circum stances permit, dinner and a glass or two of Good Aussie wine

      All of the above would easily use up my available Caty time.


      Happy dressing




    • #392537
      Camryn Occasionnel
      Registered On: December 10, 2018
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      One of my favorite things to do while dressed is to hang out on CDH — PMing girlfriends, scanning the Forum topics, reading an article or two, keeping up with my Local Chapter, things like that. In fact, it is a rare instance when I’m not en femme when I’m on CDH.

      There’s a lot of other stuff listed here that I do at home when I’m dressed, but they’re certainly NOT my favorite things to do. Like cooking, dishes, laundry, paperwork. Oh, but eating (at home, of course) en femme is quite enjoyable – but then, I like eating in drab, too.

      Most all GGs are “en femme” almost all of the time, and I’ll bet some of the stuff on the list of choices is not their favorite things to do, either. I’m sort of like a GG in that way.

      I rarely have time in my day to just sit down to read, listen to music, or watch TV. But I suspect that if I had the time, these occupations would be much more enjoyable while dressed. There I differ from GGs. CDing would add another level of enjoyment of these activities that only a CDer would understand (unless said GG is a FtM CDer who enjoys that as much as I do MtF CDing).

      As to playing video games – I never do it; sitting outside – I’m ultra-closeted and never go outside en femme, not even on my fenced-in patio; exercising – I’d never do it in full femme.

      One last thing: just BEING en femme is one of my favorite things!

    • #392481
      Bettylou Cox
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      When dressed in full-Bettylou mode (with forms, padding and makeup), I just have to go out and go shopping or to the movies Mins those enhancements, I like to watch TV or chat on CDH

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      Alexis Tresse
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      The surprise wonderful sensations while cleaning and cooking in my wife’s clothes were my first clue that I might be trans.

      Exercising while CD is fun.

      “Other” CD fun is chatting by phone and audio-only (for me) videoconferencing with colleagues and even my relatives who don’t know about this part of me and who would not believe their eyes if I went video.

      I’m contemplating joining a particular videoconference shortly before Halloween in full femme guise.


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      Christina Roberts
      Registered On: October 9, 2020
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      Love to relax in silk and lace lingerie and lace gown watching a chic flick with a small glass of wine

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      Heather Jameson
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      I really enjoy cutting the lawn and washing the cars while dressed, don’t ask me why maybe because it’s nice out and I just love being outside but doing things like this in a cute pair of shorts and halter top or a romper just makes it even better.

    • #392318
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      When fully en femme, I am in my erotic fantasy world, When I first started dressing, I was quite young and my fantasies mostly involved going to the doctor’s and having to undress for a physical, or otherwise being caught an “forced” to undress. These fantasies derived from my earliest experiences “playing doctor” with a neighbor girl (discussed more fully elsewhere on CDG). As I became older and sexually aware, my fantasies became more sexually focused.

      For a host of reasons, gender role stereotypes were not modeled by my parents and so the connection between being dressed and doing “female” activities never really formed.

    • #392273
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      I love to watch movies, look at CDH, and do some shopping for my favorite clothes online.

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    • #392190
      Paula F
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      I picked all of the above since I live femme except for very little time each day before and after work.  Relaxing with a nice glass of sangria and a good male friend, or even a CD girlfriend.  Of course, getting ready to go out is a lot of fun too.


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    • #392107
      PY Marshall
      Registered On: July 21, 2018
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      When we built our wee house the fashion at the time was mirror doors, we have them throughout the cottage. I pass the hall mirrors in drab and just look,  shower ,shave  head to the bedroom and when i exit and walk back up the hall, I look back into the mirror , smile and say who was that old guy that past an hour ago. For example , a guy called Compo from last of the summer wine going one way and one hour later Selena Gomez going the other way. Wine for us both, a cosy fire and a good film .Well , one can dream.!!!!!. Pyxx.

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    • #392097
      Registered On: October 1, 2020
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      I voted ‘other’ as my favourite activity when dressed is taking pictures of myself. It’s not really a vanity thing but as I don’t get to fully dress up as much as I would like, I’m always desperate to save a memento (or 200) from the occasion. I also just like to compare with other sessions I’ve had to see if my makeup has improved, my style matching less cringy, my posture more feminine, what accessories have worked or not, etc.


      I would love to think that one day I might venture outside en-femme, and I imagine that would probably become my new favourite, but I’m not sure if and when that would happen, at least in the present time.

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        Phoebe Smyth
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        Considering how cute you are in the photo’s you shared you definitely should consider going out sweetie.
        really it’s more about accepting yourself but if you need a confidence booster I’d be proud to be seen with you in public. As I’m sure would many others.

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      Alicen Thairms
      Registered On: July 15, 2019
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      My favourite activity when dressed is going out. Usually I go to a nice park, a local green space or down by the sea; if I’m short on time I go out into the garden.

      Mostly my dressing time is in shortish sessions of 1 to 3 hours at a time, I feel I want to be out seeing lovely places rather than be cooped up in the house or rushing into town for shopping.

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    • #392079
      Jamie Taal
      Registered On: June 14, 2019
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      Since I enjoy wearing women’s professional work styles and skirt/blouse separates  with stockings and heels I enjoy working at my desk at home. Since I have been remotely working-from-home for the past 7 months during the pandemic it has been wonderful. I can sit at my desk for 8 hours a day without being disturbed by my family. I even participate in remote team video-conference meetings (Zoom/MS Teams/GoTo Meetings) without my video on so I can stay dressed. I tell them it is because I am in my basement with a lot of other junk and boxes around so they understand. The funny thing is that I can see them but they cannot see me. So, in effect I am dressed around other people and it feels so liberating. There are times I feel so comfortable that I question if I should tell one or two of my female coworkers that I am closest to. Oh to dream.

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      Carolyn Kay
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      I marked down a few on the list but I wanted to add one: talking with my wife. Usually when I get femme dressed she is present and we just go about the day like two girlfriends. She has her rules, one being I can’t leave the house. But I know she is trying to let me be me without losing her comfort level.

    • #392072
      Registered On: September 16, 2016
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      I sometimes play my guitar when dressed. I like to see myself as Susannah Hoffs.

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      Hi Emily

      When in dressed en feminine I like relaxing with a couple of glasses of wine and keeping up todate with CDH and chatting with the Amazing girls and ladies here




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      Grace Scarlett
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      Great question Emily

      When I am en femme, I just relax into girly mode and go about my daily routine… apart from chores, I love to make cakes, listen to music or jump on the laptop….( not literally)…problem is, if my doorbell rings, I could easily just go and answer it without thinking….ooops

      Smiles, grace xx


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      Falecia McGuire
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      Your question caused me to self examine a bit.  For periods of up to 8 years during the last 20, I’ve been able to dress most of or as much of the day as I chose – due to our varied work schedules.  During those periods, I’ve been in the best physical condition and correspondingly best shape for feminine image and dress.  My examination helps me realize that, although sometimes I’m lazy, generally not while I’m dressed.  How about that?


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    • #392018
      Jennifer Lynn
      Registered On: August 15, 2020
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      Shopping and meeting men

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        Dee Bouhaire
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        Sounds perfect 😉

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      T.J. Byron
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      My wife is giving a Tea next week for all my girlfriends, and Their Wives!!

      We love to entertain.


    • #392014
      Deborah Sullivan
      Registered On: February 27, 2020
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      Did it all and why not enjoy the full experience of living as a woman.

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