Feel Feminine

[harley julep]

How to feel feminine to the next level ? I want to experience this and love my self the feminine way. I want to discuss and get help from my cdh friends. I do continue to dress regularly, but want to feel very feminine so looking for help.

hugs

harley

[Anonymous]

Removal of body hair (I use an epilator) and moisturizing every morning. My skin is very soft and smooth. I also use polish on my toenails. When I go to work, I put a little light pink lipstick on. For me, this makes me feel very feminine.

Kay

[Millicent Teasedale]

There are so many little physical things I do…

Shaving my legs and armpits, using Secret deodorant instead of Right Guard, wearing a pantyliner in my boxer-briefs, tucking, buying pink clothes, getting facials and manicures and pedicures and using bright red polish on my nails when I’m on vacation…

And being subtly subversive – checking the other box on forms that ask my gender, using Mx instead of Mr. or Ms., using all the pronouns – her, their, him – whatever I feel at the moment.

And the most important are the emotional ones. Like just looking in the mirror and affirming to myself that I am me and that me is not just a man or just a woman, but a joyous combination of both.

 

Millie

[Anonymous]

Hi Harley,

That’s a simple, straightforward question, but the answer (I think) is a bit more subtle; you are talking about attitude, and that’s mostly internal.  In order to feel like a woman, look, act and think like a woman.  The “look” part may be limited in daily life, but underdressing is a boost.  A bralette, panties and ladies’ hosiery is a big boost.  I’ve been wearing only ladies’ jeans and tees for over a year, and nobody knows the difference, except me.  You can work on your brows and use a little mascara on your lashes, and a pale pink lipstick (Revlon 600 series) is “passable”.  Clear fingernail polish, and paint your toes; when you bathe, use body wash and Secret deodorant.  When all of this becomes routine, you are well on your way.

Hugs,

Bettylou

 

[Stephanie Flowers]

Absolutely the settle things is always good. Add them up and  Vala a lady about to come out… eventually it will blossom 🌸 into very much more. Looks aren’t everything,  confinance is queen…  what feels right inside our hearts is whats important…  🌷

[Philma Bierstein]

Hello Harley,

I am also having trouble getting into my feminine side.  LOVE the clothes and shoes.  Wanting to get a makeover and go out for coffee/lunch/drinks too, and hoping that will help nudge me in the right direction.  My fear is I will get all that done and still feel like a guy.  I need to work on my voice, which I imagine will help too.  Let us know how your journey goes and what you figure out to help!

~Philma

[Janice Fadden]

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I’m in the wrong voice boat as well. I try but I’m not in a position where I can practice enough to pull it off.

[Janice Fadden]

Having a Brazilian really helps me. If I get up the nerve I want pierced nipples.

[Philma Bierstein]

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Janice – I am thinking of practicing in the car, if I ever get alone in the car again.  Current situation keeps us at home mostly.

[Stephanie Bass]

Hi Harley Reading all the posts to your question and the answer is all of the above just whats in your heart and sole also helps

Hugs girlfriend

Stephanie Bass

[Gloria Renee]

I feel it when I just get the chance to put something on.  I am not working right now, however the SO is working from home. So, getting to be the housewife during the day is out of the question. Right now, I am wearing a skirt with a t-shirt, SO is away, however the kids are home.  Trying to squeeze every minute I can.

-Gloria

[Anonymous]

For me it is the little things I do that make me feel feminine and special. I keep my legs shaved, love having my toe nails painted. When I dress as Carla and go out shopping I wear matching bra and panties. I enjoy walking through a shopping center just like the other girls, stopping and touching the beautiful garments.  Trying a spray of wonderful perfume.  I love wearing sandals to show off my toes. If the weather is real nice I will take the top off my Corvette, put on my denim skirt, blouse, sandals and all the other things that make me Carla and go for a long drive.

Carla

[Stevie Steiner]

For myself there is one thing.  Wearing a long silky gown with freshly shaved legs.  The feeling of the soft fabric caressing your bare skinned legs as it slides across it.  I love that feeling.  Shaved arms with a long sleeve gown  is even better.

Stevie

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