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- November 4, 2020 at 8:01 pm #403015
Rei Durden
ParticipantRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesI have been quite inspired from the stories and victories you ladies have shared.
Also, Last night I watched The Danish Girl last night for the first time and was deeply moved.
My wife this afternoon decided she was doing up my make up, which turned into an impromptu photo session. My usual clothing of choice are long sleeve tops with skinny jeans or tights but tonight I was dragged upstairs, stripped and stuffed into a dress. LOL
Another session of photos followed and before we knew it hours had passed. Afterwards As I prepared to clean up, and put everything away, my wife says, let’s go out for a drive (and pick our daughter from work)!
Was not prepared for that AT ALL! But I am all for it.
As we step out onto the stairs my neighbours (who are never ever never out) are out in their backyard. I dropped almost to my knees and began scurrying until our fence hid my enough so I could stand and sprint to the garage, no easy feat considering the 5” heels I was wearing!
Backing out of the garage I realize I forgot my drivers license and I practically beg my wife to run back in the house for that. Finally on our way!
It’s only a 10 minute drive to pick up my daughter but the whole way my wife is taking pictures (flash photography in a moving car while it’s pitch dark out, nah, no one could possibly notice that!)
Half blind and heart racing, we arrive at our destination, shut off the car and kill the lights. Some more flash photos and soon I’m laughing myself silly at the thought of the two of us fooling around in a parked car. Finally my daughters walking towards us and literally stops dead in her tracks, eyes popped out of her head, both hands to her face in surprise! She’s seen Rei at home quite a bit but none of us were really prepared for her going out and about.
An uneventful return home until again, the neighbors are not just outside they are standing 5 feet away in the alley staring right at us! At this point there’s no hiding Rei, so head held high, I emerge as graceful as possible (with zero experience getting out of a car in a dress with 5” heels and that is an art form let me tell you!) and strut from the car, through the yard and up the back steps into the house.
If you’re still with me after this scatter brained unedited ramble I appreciate your patience in sharing my first adventure out as Rei, 100% enfemme.
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- November 30, 2020 at 7:46 pm #412779
Robyn Devine
DuchessRegistered On: October 24, 2020Topics: 13Replies: 517Has thanked: 1618 timesBeen thanked: 2228 timesRei
Still love reading this being it inspired me!
How many Girls are starting to notice that as the stories come out, the positive energy bounces to the next person and so on.
Its becoming quite wonderful how its all working! The more stories, the more inspiration…then new stories, new inspiration, etc.
The energy flow is fun to watch. Its coming back to you soon too! 😁🤗
Robyn ❤️
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- November 30, 2020 at 7:52 pm #412785
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesQueue up Elton John’s “Circle of Life!”
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- November 30, 2020 at 7:30 pm #412770
Mika Malone
Duchess - AnnualRegistered On: November 11, 2020Topics: 26Replies: 557Has thanked: 1683 timesBeen thanked: 2197 timesWow, Rei! I love it. I’ve gone through my plan for my first time out and that one variable that enters my mind the most is the neighbors. Well done
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- November 30, 2020 at 6:49 pm #412753
Stephanie Roberts
PrincessRegistered On: May 20, 2020Topics: 3Replies: 426Has thanked: 3443 timesBeen thanked: 1421 timesThanks Rei for sharing this wonderful story. May you have many more experiences like this. You go girl!!!
Love and hugs, Stephanie 💖
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- November 30, 2020 at 6:06 pm #412734
Alisha Alex
LadyRegistered On: November 28, 2020Topics: 1Replies: 36Has thanked: 97 timesBeen thanked: 150 timesI’m really happy for you. And a bit jealous lol. You’re one brave sis. And it helps pretty much to have such a supportive fam. Keep shining, girl.
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- November 30, 2020 at 8:02 am #412554
Kitty Van Curen
LadyRegistered On: November 3, 2020Topics: 0Replies: 151Has thanked: 135 timesBeen thanked: 518 timesHahaha! Awesome! It sounds like it was a lot of fun!
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- November 29, 2020 at 11:57 pm #412473
Paula F
DuchessRegistered On: August 7, 2019Topics: 12Replies: 820Has thanked: 6378 timesBeen thanked: 3184 timesAvery awesome outing indeed. The ones that are unplanned by us and that we laugh and have a good time experiencing are the best. And you have a wonderful support group by your side the whole time too. At least no one saw the camera flashes and mistook them for gunfire and called the police. Now that would have been pretty fun to laugh about after the fact.
Glad you had a good time and enjoyed it from start to finish. Makes for some wonderful memories.
PaulaF
PS. I hope the pics turned out good. Maybe share a few?
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- November 30, 2020 at 7:53 am #412551
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesHi Paula, I am slowly putting up pictures on my page. Hard to chose the right one sometimes when I love seeing Rei looking so pretty! lol
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- November 21, 2020 at 12:56 am #408993
Cindy Lou
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: November 18, 2020Topics: 10Replies: 433Has thanked: 1840 timesBeen thanked: 1998 timesWay to own it getting out of the car Rei!
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- November 10, 2020 at 1:04 pm #405112
Araminta Purdy
LadyRegistered On: January 23, 2020Topics: 2Replies: 253Has thanked: 343 timesBeen thanked: 858 timesI thought I heard someone command, “Release the Kraken!” It’s sort of like that. A genie and a bottle thing.
Araminta.
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- November 10, 2020 at 4:08 pm #405170
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesAhhhh, Araminta, if only I possessed the power to grant those wishes!
Thank you for the ego boost.
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- November 10, 2020 at 10:18 am #405050
Emily
LadyRegistered On: April 30, 2016Topics: 19Replies: 726Has thanked: 3924 timesBeen thanked: 2264 timesCongratulations on a grand first time out! It sounds divine. Hopefully it is just the first of many.
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- November 10, 2020 at 11:31 am #405081
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesThat is an absolute certainty Emily, just don’t hold me to a time or date!
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- November 9, 2020 at 7:28 pm #404787
Philma Bierstein
DuchessRegistered On: May 28, 2020Topics: 48Replies: 168Has thanked: 1517 timesBeen thanked: 1017 timesLady when you step out for the first time you STEP. OUT!!! Wow! Way to go. Own it, honey!
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- November 9, 2020 at 7:33 pm #404790
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesLol, Philma your enthusiasm is contagious! Thank you!!
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- November 7, 2020 at 5:07 pm #404062
Bianca Everdene
LadyRegistered On: April 11, 2017Topics: 19Replies: 645Has thanked: 2411 timesBeen thanked: 2425 timesThanks for sharing Rei.
In always so interested in how we are received/perceived by both those nearest to us, and strangers.
And also the thoughts and feelings that go through our heads when we do go out en femme.
Mai happy you had such a positive experience.
❤️B
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- November 7, 2020 at 7:52 am #403932
Candace Baci
LadyRegistered On: October 19, 2020Topics: 32Replies: 57Has thanked: 204 timesBeen thanked: 531 timesCongrats Rei!,
There is just something about that exciting feeling of going out dressed….Love It!,,
Hugs and Kisses always,👄👄
Candace
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- November 7, 2020 at 5:51 am #403915
Josie Quinn
LadyRegistered On: October 31, 2020Topics: 0Replies: 9Has thanked: 13 timesBeen thanked: 33 timesMy biggest fear is a neighbor seeing Josie. It’s where you live. Kinda hard to change it if you are not accepted. Proud of you rei! 💖
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- November 7, 2020 at 5:43 am #403912
Grace Scarlett
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: July 26, 2020Topics: 51Replies: 1444Has thanked: 6703 timesBeen thanked: 8028 timesRei
Just wanted to add my love, your story wasn’t rambling..it was wonderful…..and if you could post a picture of ” Rei exiting the car”….
it would be greatly appreciated!!?
Huggs, grace ❤️
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- November 7, 2020 at 5:40 pm #404068
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesIt’s time for Rei to upgrade her account so I can flood my page with pictures! Turns out I LOVE having my picture taken enfemme……….never saw that coming. I’ll see if I can arrange a retake this next few days 😉
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- November 7, 2020 at 5:33 am #403909
Regine Rich
PrincessRegistered On: October 9, 2020Topics: 20Replies: 544Has thanked: 5716 timesBeen thanked: 2346 timesThat was wonderful Rei, Im so happy for you, and you are soo lucky with the support you have.
I must tell you, since joining here, you are one of my biggest inspirations,(along with a few others, lol).
Congrats girl:-)
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- November 7, 2020 at 5:44 pm #404069
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesRegine, I hope I didn’t get any brains on you, your compliment just blew my mind! Gross image I know, but I am flattered beyond words and I hope that the boost I’ve gotten from such esteemed company here at CDH can be paid forward ten fold. Take care, Rei
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- November 7, 2020 at 5:26 am #403907
Vanessa Vanreed
BaronessRegistered On: May 7, 2020Topics: 2Replies: 49Has thanked: 38 timesBeen thanked: 251 timesWhat a amazing story you are lucky to be able to express yourself
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- November 7, 2020 at 2:09 am #403887
ANDREA RAVEN
LadyRegistered On: December 21, 2017Topics: 6Replies: 304Has thanked: 29 timesBeen thanked: 650 timesFabulous story Rei, you must have felt on top of the world when you got back into the house! It is a great feeling being out in the world and I suspect this will not be the last time Rei escapes the confines of your house! Have a lovely weekend………….
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- November 7, 2020 at 4:32 am #403895
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesThank you Andrea, I sure hope this is the beginning of something magical!
You have a great weekend as well.2 users thanked author for this post.
- November 6, 2020 at 6:38 am #403589
Stephanie Flowers
AmbassadorRegistered On: June 26, 2017Topics: 25Replies: 4664Has thanked: 7859 timesBeen thanked: 7908 timesBeautiful experience and a outting that went well. With your heels 👠 you were certainly dressed for that special time. Congrats and look forward to hearing about your next adventure.
Stephanie 🌹
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- November 6, 2020 at 6:37 pm #403801
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesThank you Stephanie, I wish I could express just how happy I am to have such a wonderful group of ladies to share this with. I feel honoured. You are all the BEST!!
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- November 6, 2020 at 6:06 am #403584
Bianca Everdene
LadyRegistered On: April 11, 2017Topics: 19Replies: 645Has thanked: 2411 timesBeen thanked: 2425 timesThanks for sharing your wonderful evening Rei.
So happy for you, such a buzz isn’t it!
How did you feel?
what was the reaction of your daughter? Did you all talk about your attire? Was the atmosphere on the way home fun and accepting, or a bit tense?
How did the neighbours react? Did they know it was you?
Sorry lots of questions, just so interested in others reactions.
Hope you are well and staying safe.
❤️B
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- November 6, 2020 at 6:35 pm #403799
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesHi Bianca, thanks for the interest, I’ll answer best as I can.
I felt completely outside myself, I could barely focus one coherent thought to the next I was so excited and nervous and absolutely thrilled. My heart still flutters at the thought.
My daughter was awesome as usual! Laughing and joking and very happy for me. It was a pretty normal ride home conversation wise, honestly just a typical conversation, like nothing out of the ordinary.No tension whatsoever.
As for the neighbors, they were chatting when we pulled up, but other than a moment or 2 of silence we didn’t interact, not unusual as we aren’t really close as far as neighbours go. I didn’t stick around and walked as fast as the heels would let me! Lol I don’t know if they know it was me, part of me wishes they did, another part is terrified they recognized me, but time will tell…….
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- November 6, 2020 at 5:05 am #403572
Sandy Jayson
DuchessRegistered On: September 29, 2019Topics: 16Replies: 347Has thanked: 752 timesBeen thanked: 1521 timesCongrats Rei!!!!!!!!
Sandy
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- November 5, 2020 at 9:09 pm #403460
Anonymous
Registered On:Topics: 4Replies: 101Has thanked: 110 timesBeen thanked: 464 timesWay to go, Rei. That must have been exciting.
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- November 5, 2020 at 6:51 pm #403387
Alice Underwire
LadyRegistered On: September 16, 2019Topics: 19Replies: 2456Has thanked: 1350 timesBeen thanked: 4864 timesHi Rei,
A great story. Happily you made it back home without stumbling in your heels. Just the other day I was headed out and my neighbor was in her car headed to work.
If she hadn’t seen me in full dress before she did that day. We chatted a few minutes and no mention of my attire. Now there is no reason not to venture out enfemme.
Alice
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- November 6, 2020 at 4:37 am #403567
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesThanks Alice! It’s so great that you found acceptance from your neighbor and courage from that meeting.
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- November 5, 2020 at 5:03 am #403137
Seren
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thanks Rei for sharing your wonderful adventure!! I imagine you’re still buzzing with the thought of it?!
here’s to more of this 🥂 and to more wives coming on board xx
Seren
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- November 6, 2020 at 4:40 am #403569
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesHi Seren, thanks for taking some time to read it!
Two days later and yes, I’m still buzzing with the thought of it, already hoping for a repeat in the next couple of days off.
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- November 5, 2020 at 3:53 am #403121
Terri
DuchessRegistered On: May 17, 2016Topics: 0Replies: 165Has thanked: 169 timesBeen thanked: 509 timesGreat story !
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- November 5, 2020 at 12:10 am #403080
Mandy Wife
BaronessRegistered On: September 12, 2019Topics: 5Replies: 178Has thanked: 87 timesBeen thanked: 665 timesSounds like a fun impromptu day – well done and I love that your family are so supportive as well xx
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- November 4, 2020 at 11:20 pm #403065
Genevïéve
LadyRegistered On: July 28, 2020Topics: 13Replies: 560Has thanked: 5267 timesBeen thanked: 2339 timesThat’s Awesome Rei… Congrats.
You’re lucky to have such a supportive family.
Gen… 💋
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- November 4, 2020 at 10:59 pm #403057
Jo Jo Sweet
LadyRegistered On: September 22, 2019Topics: 1Replies: 15Has thanked: 9 timesBeen thanked: 74 timesWell done Rei. It reminds me of my first time out. The excitement is addictive.
Congrats and i hope you get to do it many more times.
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- November 4, 2020 at 9:28 pm #403044
Shana Mac
BaronessRegistered On: November 4, 2020Topics: 2Replies: 52Has thanked: 213 timesBeen thanked: 183 timesCongratulations! Sounds like a fun and exciting adventure. I covet.
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- November 4, 2020 at 9:12 pm #403037
Anonymous
Registered On:Topics: 0Replies: 910Has thanked: 2885 timesBeen thanked: 2364 timesFantastic Rei , a great experience for you all plus some heart racing moments too 😄😄😄.
Another step forward & something now to laugh about 👠👠
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- November 5, 2020 at 4:40 am #403130
Rei Durden
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3194 timesThank you Tiff, I couldn’t have done it without all the great support and friends here!
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- November 4, 2020 at 8:12 pm #403019
Robyn Devine
DuchessRegistered On: October 24, 2020Topics: 13Replies: 517Has thanked: 1618 timesBeen thanked: 2228 timesBRAVO REI!!
In a good-hearted and friendly, Im jealous as $#!t of you!! LOL!! 😀
That is absolutely wonderful!! Thank you so much for sharing that! And yes getting out of a car like a lady is an art. Especially with high heels, and in my case a car thats low to the ground too!
XOXO – Robyn
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