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      Grace Scarlett
      Registered On: July 26, 2020
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      Hi Erin….if it’s any help, I was the same… apprehension, fear, and I was literally shaking in my boots….but that was a few years ago and the only thing that hasn’t changed is the rush you get!!!!’s 99% confidence….go out once and you WILL want to go again….best wishes sister….Grace xx

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      Donna Stryfe
      Registered On: September 1, 2020
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      I’m right where you are. Super skittish about going out, but i really want to. I’ve come close a few times to just taking a drive. It’s hard to know where to go that’s safe being a transplant. Curious to see how it turns out for you.

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      patty williams
      Registered On: January 19, 2019
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      HI Erin I finally did it and ventured out this year a few times now.

      I must tell you it is wonderful girlfriend.

      Once you have yourself together to where you feel comfortable  find a place that you feel comfortable and safe for your first adventure.

      I promise you won’t be sorry it is wonderful and remember life is too short, so get out there and experience what life has to offer.



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      Diana W
      Registered On: July 9, 2020
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      Welcome!  You’ve definitely come to the right place.  We have so many ladies who have been where you want to be and can give you great advice on how to make your dream come true free of pain or drama.

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      Mary Ann Summers
      Registered On: April 29, 2020
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      It is a big great world out there… once you go out dressed, you will want more and more.

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      Registered On: March 2, 2020
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      Hey Erin 👋

      welcome to CDH! The first adventures are the best (just kidding, I think they get even better!)

      keep us updated xx

      Seren ⭐️🔥

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      Tabitha Tee
      Registered On: July 30, 2020
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      I never would have dreamed of going out as a woman. Now I do ( dream of it!) Funny, isn’t it?

      I’m planning an outfit and a destination. With the heat and the fires I might have to adjust. We’ll see how it goes!

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      Stephanie Flowers
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      sometimes the good things take time to happen. Reading many of our posts here and the wonderful information certainly help in motivating me in pursuing those dreams.  Dreams of venturing out in public is always on many of our ladies minds.  And with the advice through our forums confinance we do succeed . Its a wonderful experience to which many have found and a memory all will never to forget. I did it and never to think of it ever happening . So one never knows where our journeys may take us… Best to everyone who’s  Poundering the possibility…🌷

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      Alice Underwire
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Erin,

      Start with small steps.  Build up your confidence.  Walk out to your porch or patio.  Take a short drive.  You’ll find others are absorbed in their own affairs and rarely care or notice.  Try a shopping trip and look.  You needn’t buy anything.


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      Paula F
      Registered On: August 7, 2019
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      Welcome to our awesome site Erin.  I might suggest that you do a forum search for topics like ‘First Time Out’ or ‘First Steps ‘ etc,  Those threads, and I know there are dozens of them, will help you build your courage to go that first step for yourself.  It may just be out on the front porch, or use the back porch for practice, then the mail box is next, then the world hon.

      Remember that we have ALL been right where you are, and have survived to be here today.  Just start small and work for more each time.  Good luck and keep us informed.


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      Registered On: January 5, 2018
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      Hi Erin,

      Your first trip our will be the most exciting day of your life with a crazy mix of emotions. There is no way to really describe the experience. But be warned it is extremely addictive and you will want more and every time out will be just a little easier. Have fun and enjoy it.


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      Registered On: January 21, 2018
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      We surely wish you the best hon, it’s an exciting time! 😁

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      Sandy Jayson
      Registered On: September 29, 2019
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      Keep reading the posts from others, Erin, work up your courage from the successes of others.  I’m starting to get there myself.


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