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    Elvira McKenna
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    Registered On: April 18, 2022
    Topics: 1
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    My (other) name is Elvira, I am happily married and my wife knows. I did not have a dedicated “coming out”, it was more like stay ups that i had in my drawer in plain sight, I have been wearing string leotards for 20 years or so, sometimes more often, sometimes less. So she found out over time and we talked recently about it. I am 53 years old. I think she accepts me wearing stay ups/garters, sometimes a corset underneath, but she would probably not want to see me in girls clothes, which is fine for me. I have no urge/intention to do go out in public. My wife joined CDH but apparently had not a lot of discussions. Actually that drove me to check it out, too and now I am here.

     

    Have a great day,

    Elvira

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    • #640067
      Christina Isme
      Lady
      Registered On: April 8, 2022
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      My wife passed away so I am full time girl 👧 now I really liked her will miss her but I am quite happy 😊 now and will remain girl. Just join in on the chats and get to know everyone welcome

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      Chrissy Simpson
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: January 14, 2022
      Topics: 1
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      Hello Elvira and welcome.  I hope you find your time here fun and educational in all aspects.  There are plenty of like kind ladies to have discussions with here.  Lots of forums to read as well.  Have fun, interact and enjoy yourself.

      Chrissy

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    • #639908
      Alice Underwire
      Lady
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
      Topics: 95
      Replies: 5400
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      Hi Elvira,

      Welcome to you and your SO to CDH.

      Alice

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    • #639851
      Terri Anne
      Ambassador
      Registered On: February 7, 2018
      Topics: 32
      Replies: 1287
      Has thanked: 1907 times
      Been thanked: 2788 times

      Hello Elvira,

      Welcome to our amazing CrossDresserHeaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

      The Warmth, Compaasion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrosDresser Heaven.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages.  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

      Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat, Groups, etc.

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

       

      Regards,

      Terri Anne, Ambassador

       

      =========== Link to our public Chat room   ==============

       

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/chat/

       

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    • #639822
      Paulette Parfois
      Duchess
      Registered On: November 17, 2021
      Topics: 2
      Replies: 555
      Has thanked: 1879 times
      Been thanked: 2115 times

      Hi Elvira, and welcome. The fact your wife is accepting (if not completely so) puts you in the minority. I too am lucky to have a wife who, while uncomfortable spending too much time with Paulette, does not object to her coming around from time to time. I don’t know much about SO support from CDH, but I am disappointed to hear your wife felt she did not have much interaction. I do know the friends I have made here are very encouraging and supportive. Hugs, Paulette

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        Elvira McKenna
        Lady
        Registered On: April 18, 2022
        Topics: 1
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        Hi Paulette, thanks for your kind words. Well, maybe there are some wifes here who can consult mine. I guess I am a pretty “mild case”. I do not wear wigs or stuff my breasts, but still, I understand  that a wife does not like to see her guy in women’s underwear. Mine knows it, but she would not want to see me as Elvira and I have no desire to cross that line. I only did it once, as Elvira Mistress of the Dark for Halloween. She helped with the make up back then. On the other side, they have been cross-dressing for a century….

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          Paulette Parfois
          Duchess
          Registered On: November 17, 2021
          Topics: 2
          Replies: 555
          Has thanked: 1879 times
          Been thanked: 2115 times

          My dream is to get an Elvira costume and then try to look good in it!

    • #639785
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
      Topics: 35
      Replies: 6372
      Has thanked: 12802 times
      Been thanked: 13226 times

      Elvira welcome to Cdh

      Stephanie 🌷

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      Anonymous
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      Hi Elvira
      Welcome . There’s a great bunch of Ladies on this site and will help you in your journey

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    • #639775
      Charlotte Walker
      Duchess
      Registered On: April 18, 2021
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 598
      Has thanked: 2735 times
      Been thanked: 1999 times

      Hi Elvira
      Welcome to CDH can chat almost all time
      Hugs Charlotte

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    • #639772
      Robyn Drake
      Managing Ambassador
      Registered On: March 19, 2019
      Topics: 55
      Replies: 754
      Has thanked: 1310 times
      Been thanked: 2331 times

      Hi Elvira,

      Welcome to CDH!

      – Robyn

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