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Well, we did it. I was outed. My wife guessed I want to dress more. She knew only about my lingerie, not my other clothes or makeup. I had bought some hair bands as I’m growing my hair longer and it gets in my eyes, which I hate. I had it very long when I was young and have tried several times to grow it back since. I had put one on after a shower, went to show her hoping she wouldn’t be phased by it. She wasn’t at all bothered but something must have clicked.
That’s when she asked me if I was Trans? I said “no” because I’m not and have no intentions of it, I just like having the fantasy of femininity for a while. I love the feel of feminine clothes and lingerie, I don’t want to be a woman.
The conversation was a long one and lasted most of the day. It turns out that I had accidentally left my forms hanging about. She figured I used them to fill out my bra’s, complete my look but hadn’t said anything to me so I had no idea that when I showed her my head band it could lead to “the talk”. She doesn’t want any part in my dressing, which is a shame because I think we could have a laugh, lots of fun together with it but I can live with dressing by myself.
I’m so sorry that I hurt her, I never intended that, ever. She knows this and said I’ve not done anything wrong but I still feel like I’m going behind her back. Our path together is a little more uncertain now but I think she deserved to know about my dressing and I hated that aspect of it.
This was last weekend and we’ve not mentioned it since. Everything feels the same for me. Hopefully we will be able to endure this part of our lives and continue on our journey together.
Thanks for reading.
Take care, Bee.
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