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I’ve always been quite jealous of any CDH member who has a supportive SO and does not have to “hide” anything to do with their femme lives and self. But in doing so, I also wish them the very best of luck and may it always stay that way.
But if some of us (and I dare say the majority), are in relationships where its either “firmly in the closet and she does not know”, or “knows but DADT”, our CD lives are a lot more complicated.
This is especially true when it comes to maintaining our cd lifestyle, with being able to do our femme washing, ironing and storage in secret as just about the “numero uno” in this field. Not to mention some of the other aspects which I’ll cover below.
This came home to me yesterday. “me darlin” was out almost all day, “ah ha” says Caty to herself a day or two earlier,.. Caty time.
But… It was a hot early autumn day here in Victoria and Caty not only needed to do some washing and ironing, but also the “old bod”, (chest and abdomen,) was in need of a shave and clean up. I also a/. have a long black nightie where the adjustable straps are not long enough and therefore with it on, I’m not being very “modest” in front. So I had to re attach the straps. (I would not claim to have “sewed” them…LOL …) Plus b/. My “go to” breast forms needed a wash.
So given the hot day and the “number of tasks” ahead of me, I knew by the time I’d got all the above sorted, it would be very close to my SO’s “home time” .(Dressing at home rule number 1. Think of the time she will be home and knock an hour off that for a “safety margin”)
Thus, in the end, with the exception of putting on a bra, plus panties and another set of (smaller) forms, I just could not be bothered..
I guess it’s common for women world wide not to wear much on hot days, but I just felt like a bloke in a t shirt and shorts, not very femme at all
Anyone else in the same situation? Any further comments???
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