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No matter how it happen it always hurts. No matter the reason it always hurts. No matter if it’s right or wrong it always hurts.
“How can you mend a broken heart – The Bee Gees”
Sitting in the booth with both hands wrapped around my caramel milkshake and occasionally glancing at my watch I was starting to get a sad sinking feeling inside. I thought maybe the ice cream parlor inside of the casino would be and inviting and safe place to meet. Sharing a little conversation and maybe even venturing out onto the casino floor for a couple of quick pictures together. An hour passed and I found myself still sitting alone. No one ever showed and the phone never rang. The heart ache and the tears came. I stood, walked away and went home.
I have heard the saying “Time heals all wounds”. But I don’t think a broken heart can be healed. The pain may fade but the ache and the memory are always going to be there.
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Registered On: January 2, 2023Topics: 0Replies: 208Has thanked: 358 timesBeen thanked: 763 timesSorry to chime in late, just got back. This may sound glib, but look on it as a good thing. That person is obviously not worth your time of day. They have now provided you with the opportunity to meet that “ RIGHT “ person to share your life. Believe me they are out there! Hugs. Lorraine
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Hi Wendie
Must of been a heart stopping experience, been there myself and no one can imagine the heartache that you feel. It’s one of those things that maybe we will get Over or maybe we won’t, why it happened who knows but it did, so as from experience we must move on. It wont be immediately but you will be able to cope with it effectuately, the safety net is that you have so many friends in CDH that they wont let you down and will always be there for you .
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- Registered On: November 5, 2019Topics: 14Replies: 744Has thanked: 2986 timesBeen thanked: 3645 times
Hi Wendie, I can feel your pain a little.
A long time ago, I was new in town and through a very popular outdoor activity club, had just met three people, two young women and a young man, (by being introduced by another young man I had just met) all around my age. The now just four of us were talking at a bar after a club meeting very casually as I barely knew them, and one suggested meeting the next Friday night at a popular restaurant. They then invited me to join them. (I was thrilled) It was a week later and I worked in a different nearby town and this was before cell phones, so I didn’t see or hear from them.
Showed up at the restaurant about 15 minutes early with sort of high hopes, sat there waiting until 15-20 minutes after the time with no one showing, and thought, well, they knew each other quite well, barely knew me, probably one or more had a change in plans, didn’t know exactly how to contact me. That’s the way it goes. I was hurt, but, it was an attempt. As I said, I had been transferred to this other state, barely knew anyone. I was sure at the next meeting at least one might apologize and then brush it off. I was getting ready to leave, and they showed up.
And one became my spouse later that year with the introducer as best man. I’m not saying you should have waited, just that life is sometimes luck of the draw. Next time may be that magical time. You just have to jump in again with hope. I also remember standing someone else up, sort of intentionally (its a long story) and I hated myself for it for years, but I suspected a certain outcome if I hadn’t and it wasn’t what I was ready for. But I never did it again. If plans or my feelings changed, I always contacted at least one other involved.
Have faith in yourself, and keep your hopes.
Hugs, ChloëC
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Thank you for sharing
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- Registered On: September 29, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 1373Has thanked: 30830 timesBeen thanked: 5129 times
Sorry to hear that you were stood up Wendie! Even if they chickened out, you deserved at least a text to let you know. That was just rude, and hurtful!
Sending you hugs 🤗
💕Lara
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I thought so also
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THE FIRST DAY IS THE DAY AFTER
MARCH 25 2023
“How do you mend a broken heart?”
Once again the girls of Crossdresser Heaven have proven why they are the best community of friends anyone can have on the world wide web.
Thank you girls
My heart can sing again !!
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- Registered On: August 8, 2018Topics: 2Replies: 296Has thanked: 238 timesBeen thanked: 1169 times
I’m so sorry this happened to you Wendie. It’s easy for me to say you’ll get over this, but I’m not the one feeling this, you are. But know that you’ve got many friends here who will listen to you if you need to talk. You will find that girlfriend in time and this will be long past history to you, So pull your big girl panties up and move on to the future, you don’t deserve to dwell on this anymore!
Sending you the biggest, warmest HUG that I can!
Sherri
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Thank you Sherri. I needed that.
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- Registered On: December 31, 2022Topics: 3Replies: 158Has thanked: 1082 timesBeen thanked: 664 times
So sorry Wendie,
hugs
AnnaBeth
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Thank you AnnaBeth. Sometimes it’s surprising how such a simple gesture as a hug can start to mend a broken heart.
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I can’t imagine anyone breaking the heart of a person as sincere, caring and fun as you. You’re the type of friend that every girl like me hopes to meet. It was the link on your FaceBook profile that brought me to “CDH”. I thank you for introducing me to such a great community. Wendie sweetie, if I’m ever given the opportunity to get to know you I would never break your heart. To answer your question, “how do you mend a broken heart?”, I don’t know. But I hope your heart finds what it is looking for.💕
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Thank you Barbie. I hope that your journey takes you to many happy places.
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- Registered On: October 19, 2022Topics: 8Replies: 615Has thanked: 1484 timesBeen thanked: 1846 times
Well, musically speaking: dump The Bee Gees for Peggy, Lucy, Barbara, and Frank
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Wanda,
They say that music can soothe a savage beast. It is also a great way to start mending a broken heart.4 users thanked author for this post.
- Registered On: August 23, 2015Topics: 3Replies: 301Has thanked: 10235 timesBeen thanked: 1318 times
Hi Wendie,Its Michelle.Dont stop being you.Since they stood you up,they are not worth your time.Keep living your life and things will change in your favor.Look ahead,be happy,please do not dwell in the past.Michelle.
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Thank you for sharing Michelle. Your advice is greatly appreciated.
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- Registered On: August 14, 2021Topics: 4Replies: 1935Has thanked: 3805 timesBeen thanked: 6465 times
Wendie, I wish I could give you a hug.
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Thank you Liara. I sure needed one.
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- Registered On: September 25, 2022Topics: 6Replies: 230Has thanked: 686 timesBeen thanked: 915 times
Hi Wendie
Your worth so much more than that girl, let that one go just a bad experience.
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Sarah,
Many friends and myself have said “don’t try so hard Wendie”. I can’t help myself. I have 100’s of pictures of myself being cute & flirty, sassy, playful, and even a few being naughty. But not one of those pictures is me with another girl like me. Thanks for the encouraging words girlfriend, but I’m starting to think the one thing my heart desires the most. a picture with a girlfriend, is never going to happen for me.3 users thanked author for this post.
- Registered On: August 1, 2020Topics: 10Replies: 1613Has thanked: 5733 timesBeen thanked: 7350 times
Realize that being let down means they didn’t respect you enough to care so they don’t deserve you,look at it as their loss. Inhale the future, exhale the past…
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BIG BREATH IN…(the future tastes good this morning), BIG BREATH OUT…(bye-bye past, don’t depress me no more). Thanks for sharing Angela.
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- Registered On: September 29, 2019Topics: 79Replies: 1275Has thanked: 2972 timesBeen thanked: 5961 times
Wendie, being stood up by anyone for anything can be so hard. No matter what or who is standing us up. It is specially hard for us cross dressers, we always blame ourselves and our Cross dressing, tha people can’t stand us because of it. I know it does’t fall in the same catagory but I had made an appointment with a local Mary Kay lady over 2 months ago and she has cancelled on me 3 times so far and I was beginning to think i disgusted her and was feeling pretty low. BUT right now we are set up for this Monday morning.
I just want to encourage anyone here who is down about anything share here, someone wil take the time to listen and care of your problems.
. Cassie
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You are so right Cassie. The first thing we tend to think “is there something wrong with me?”. Just being ourselves isn’t easy all the time.
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So sorry you were stood up. In our world its a common occurrence only too often. I hope you didn’t go to a lot of expense. Drop that person.
Only time will mend a broken heart by moving on, sometimes quicker than other times.
Hugs
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Thank you for sharing with me Michelle
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