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    Heather Here
    Registered On: September 24, 2021
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    I found this page after quite a search for folks that want to chat and share, seems most pages arent geared that way. Hopfully this is as advertized.

    Ive been a panty man for a long time now. I havent worn mens underwear for 5 years and for 10 years b4 that I had mens bikini and thongs. I’d wear my wifes panties whenever I could snake a pair. When i was between wives I bought my first pair of my own. I had to pitch them when she moved in so she wouldn’t think they were someone elses. I was not upfront until one night I took her panties off and put them on me. It was the hottest sex to that date. I explained how I liked it and she then knew why I wore bikinis and things. I started buying more feminine undies. Eventually pouch panties. One day we were shopping around at the mall and went by a table at Pennies that had Ambreille satin and lace, high leg, full back…OMG …I had to have them! Once I touched them, I couldnt put them down. She said, “for me? I dont really like that kind.” I said I knew that and that I wanted to put a pouch in them. They were B1G1 half off. From there on her and I have been shopping together in stores and online quite a bit.

    I usually spend the late evening and night in anything from garters to nightgowns and dresses.  I have 29 pairs of heels! 2 closets full of lingerie and clothing, a dresser packed with panties and bras. Stockings, corsets, breast forms.

    During the day, depending on the weather I wear various lingerie under my cloths. Jacket or hoodie weather is my favorite because I can get by with small breasts or bras with cups.

    Sometimes we go out of town to shop. We wont see people we know then so I can wear larger breasts and butt/hips in my girl jeans. Talk about exhilerating! Whew! Last time we went I even wore some black chunky heel boots the whole time! Once in a while I’ll wear heels in the vehicle and change b4 going in anywhere. Sometimes we just drive around so I can wear my things out of the house.

    She”s still a little offput by me wanting to go out dressed in womens cloths so I have to take it slow. I feel like I have it made already.

    On the issue of “passing”…not me. I have a beard and am a fairly harry fella. I do have long curly hair and am kinna slim. 6′,145lbs. With my boots, jeans, hipa, butt, waspie, bra straps and hair….maybe passable from the back…maybe lol. I’m not trying to pass. I’m trying to be myself and feel good. I simply love the feeling! I love it under my work clothes, in bed, at breakfast, during sex and in public. Ive never tried makup, nails or jewelry, but I wouldn’t be opposed to it at all.

    Thats enough about me, lets see what ya’ll have to say.

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    • #548225
      Alice Underwire
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Heather,

      Welcome to CDH!


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    • #548202
      Terri Anne
      Registered On: February 7, 2018
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      Hi Heather,

      Welcome to our amazing site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

      The Warmth, Compaasion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages.  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

      Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat, Groups, etc.



      Terri Anne, Ambassador

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      Bobbisue Jones
      Registered On: May 24, 2021
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      Hi Heather, so happy you stumbled on to CDH, the best and safest site on the Internet. You have opened the door to a worldwide Sisterhood of which you are now one, welcome Sister Heather, you are now inCD Heaven, love and hugs Bobbisue Jones

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    • #548109
      Stephanie Flowers
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
      Topics: 31
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      Heather happy you found us. Browse our site and start enjoying all that we are about. The ladies here are wonderful and love to talk and offer help and advice if needed and always here just to listen if one wishes. In time make lasting friendships and know we’re always here to share each other’s experiences in our love for dressing. Very nice meeting and love to chat anytime.


      Stephanie 🌹



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    • #548086
      Raquel Smith
      Registered On: August 26, 2021
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      Hi Heather.

      I never searched around other CD/TG sites, just stumbled upon CDH, first time. I guess I’m the lucky one. Being faithfully married, but in the closet about some of my innermost secrets, I was definitely not looking to hookup.

      CDH turned out to be a place, where I could be Raquel, without question, and share and converse, even make friends, with people of like minds. Even those who weren’t exactly like me.

      There are straight, gay, bi, transitioning, happy-but-not-wanting-to transition transgender, you name it, members. But the general feeling is one of inclusion, not separation or one-size-fits-all attitudes.

      Here, I continue a journey of self-discovery and comraderie with what I have come to consider some true friends. I wouldn’t presume to speak for anyone else here, but I hope they feel the same way.

      I hope your experience is like mine.

      Much love,

      Ps. I hope you share CDH with your wife, if you can. We always (there I go, speaking for others) love to meet and learn from SOs who support fully, or somewhat, their crossdressing partners.

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    • #548073
      Registered On: January 31, 2021
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      Welcome to CDH.

      Let’s face it once you have worn nice panties there’s no comparison.


      Lisa xxx

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    • #548061
      Fredrika Jones
      Registered On: February 24, 2021
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      “I’m not trying to pass. I’m tryimg to be myself and feel good.”
      Amen, brother – I share that attitude!

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    • #548018
      Charlotte Walker
      Registered On: April 18, 2021
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      Hi Heather
      Welcome to CDH it’s brillisnt here so friendly and informative.
      Love to chat with you
      Hugs Charlotte

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    • #548000
      Baroness - Annual
      Registered On: February 5, 2019
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      Welcome Heather,

      This is indeed a friendly and safe place to be. See for yourself. Have a look around the forums and articles, and get settled in. Join in just as soon as you feel comfortable.

      Marti xxx

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    • #547999
      Stephanie Roberts
      Registered On: May 20, 2020
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      Hi Heather,
      A warm welcome to CDH!
      Love and hugs, Stephanie 💖

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