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    • #688630
      Nikki Dahl
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      Registered On: July 20, 2018
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      I wear flats most of the time.Heels for special occasions. All of my heels are 5″ and higher. Love wearing them!!:)

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      Max Garcia
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      Registered On: August 11, 2018
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      I am 6′ and heels or wedges are my choice. I have a pair of Mary Jane’s with a 3″ chunky heel and a pair of stilleto’s with a 4 1/2 or 5″ heel. I wear a size 14 or 15 (women) so it’s hard to find at a decent price. I have been looking for a pair of wedges but no lock so far.

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      Jamie Taal
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      Registered On: June 14, 2019
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      I’m 6’-2” and 11 1/2 shoe. I’m not willing to give up on heels just yet. I have a pair of 3” strappy heels with a stiletto heel that I wear rarely due to difficulty walking. I have a pair of miles with. 2 1/2 block heel which I love. They are more casual and is my go-to shoe. My other shoe is a very sensible 1 1/2”  high pump. I have been looking for a D’Orsay type but not too high. As I’m get older I may be destined for flats or small heels. Ugh

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    • #687019
      Sandy Craig
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      Registered On: March 18, 2018
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      What are Flats? Joking aside I’m a heels girl and don’t have any flats. Only exception to heels is if I wear sneakers. I’m about 5’9″ so I don’t get too tall but I do try to avoid Platform style heels if possible however some are 2 cute to not wear.

      Sandy

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      Meredith
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      Registered On: November 27, 2017
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      How high of a heel? I last wore a 3 inch stilleto 10 years ago and it killed my knees. Height and weight and effect on joints should be considered as that will affect walk and comfort. Chunk heels and wedge heels are far easier to manage and more comfortable. I never go more than a 2 inch chunk heel or a 3 inch wedge. All the best dear friend.

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      Liara Wolfe
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      Registered On: August 14, 2021
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      Daisy, I am not a tall girl (5’8″) So you may not want to take my advise but here it is….. Wear heels….

      Hugs, Liara

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      Michelle Isgurly
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      Registered On: October 12, 2021
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      I love heels 3″ or less due to the fact a 3″ heel makes me just over 6′ by about 1/2″ but Im a 12ww or 13w and if I find any that size they are very expensive. I adore flats though, especially the ones that are cut low and show a sexy hint of toe cleavage lol but also hard to find in my size. Heels are great for making my legs and ass look sexy as long as I’m not on my feet for long periods of time and can be hard to walk in, where flats can be worn without issue.

      Best of luck with you quest honey

      Michelle 💋💋

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      • #686864
        Jasmine Andrews
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        Registered On: February 24, 2019
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        Michelle, I also wear a 13, depending on the shoe, usually wide. I have had some luck with the website shoeshowmega.com, they have some selection in that size, and many of their shoes are in the $20 – $30 range. They do have brick and mortar stores under the names Shoe Show and Shoe Dept. I don’t shop at the local one in person because Jay (my drab self) has a professional relationship with the store.

         

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      Kimberly Ann Victoria
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      Flats for me, I can’t walk in heels lol

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      Chloe Morgan
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      Registered On: October 10, 2022
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      I stand 6’3 so my only option is flats, and I love them. ASOS have some killer options. I wear heels indoors for the feel, but being 6’7 in the great outdoors is too much for me.

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      April Flowers
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      Registered On: September 7, 2021
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      Heels only which includes wedges in the summer. Heel heights are 3.5 to 4 inches. Platforms I have tried with out success. I wear heels with jeans, shorts and dresses.

      What are flats? (Just kidding)

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    • #682128
      Lauren Mugnaia
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      Registered On: November 1, 2021
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      Well, it appears that I am one of the shorter girls on here, I’m only two inches taller than the average height for women which is 5’4″. Eileen Bach said she’s been told that cross dressers wear heels, TG’s wear flats, well, I’m a trans woman and I wear lots of flats, everyday as a matter of fact. Before I transitioned I was having lunch with my sister at one of the local malls talking about clothes and shoes.
      She said to look around, nobody is wearing dresses or heels, they’re wearing tops with jeans or yoga pants, and flats or sneakers. So I’ve followed her advice and I blend in very nicely, mostly passing as a woman with the odd exception, then I can show them my ID which has Lauren’s photo and female designation.

      Hugs girls,

      Ms. Lauren M

      • #687531
        Meredith
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        Registered On: November 27, 2017
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        Really good point. I mostly see sport sandals and flip-flops in summer and  athleisure and in winter ugg boots. I hate flip-flops.

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    • #682089
      Fiona Black
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      Unfortunately due to a painful neuroma in one of my feet which has resisted treatment, I am limited to heels no higher than 1.5 inches. If I could wear higher heels it would have to be block heels because wearing anything like a thin, stiletto-type heel would only result in me breaking my ankle:)

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    • #682059
      Ashlee Santos
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      Registered On: October 1, 2022
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      I like to wear heels and wedges . But , no more than 4 inches . I have worn flat’s but heels give my calves and legs more definition .

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        Jima Smith
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        I’m with you Ashlee I wear nothing but heels or wedges. They are so sexy ! I even wear heels with my hot pants this may be a little tacky but makes me feel so sexy

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    • #680758
      Caty Ryan
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      Flats and 2″ heels maximum. Otherwise it throws out my creaky old back and gives me pain in my knees.

      Caty.

       

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    • #680607
      Becky Davis
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      I’m in the same boat as some of us older dresser’s heels hurt my feet and ankles, I do wear heels around the house from time to time, but mostly flat’s, in fact I just bought a cute of dark blue ballet flat’s and can’t wait to wear them out. Would like to find some cute kitten heels I’m hoping they will a bit more comfortable to walk around in.

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    • #680600
      Michelle McQueen
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      I suggest you get flats or low heels like kitten heels. As someone said, you don’t want to keep bumping your head on doorjambs. High heels are fun in the bedroom though.

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    • #680590
      Lea
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      The truth is that there are times our crossdressing just blends in and no one notices, and then there are times when a few people do. I frequently wear flats, with women’s jeans, and a nice top, but definite male from the neck up. Sometimes low wedges or heels.

      I can go shopping at Target, full of people, and no one would notice. I went to my local library, nervously walked past a group of teens, and not one noticed.

      Store security usually notices. Bored customers standing in line notice.

      It’s not the heels or your height that will cause others to notice. It will be something else. People are often out and about, too busy to notice.  So, go for it, and confidence and attitude will take care of the rest.

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    • #680369
      Deborah Sullivan
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      I wear mostly 3 inch heels and being 5’7″ I can blend in. I love the sensation of gliding across a room in heels and they look and feel so sexy. I do have a few pairs of flats which I do wear if a lot of walking is involved and love them depending on the outfit.

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    • #680366
      Becka
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      I love flats!!!! have several pair, and they can be so sexy!

      Used to love heels when I was younger, but now love flats!

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    • #680363
      Eileen Bach
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      Registered On: February 27, 2021
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      I’ve been told that cross dressers wear heels, TG’s wear flats.

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      • #680364
        Daisy Dandelion
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        Registered On: September 21, 2022
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        I shall bare that in mind as a rule of thumb…although we know what they say about rules 🤣

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    • #680190
      Michelle S
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      Registered On: August 11, 2022
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      I am 6 feet tall and absolutely love my 4 and 5 inch stilettos. Like Robyn Drake I am not trying to pass. Plus, I tend to dress at or around my home or at friendly events so I don’t worry about sticking out as much. That said, if I was brave enough to try and pass in public I would not feel comfortable in heels unless I was really convincing.  If I could easily pass I would embrace my stilettos because they make my legs and ass look great!

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      Chrissy Perry
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      Registered On: August 28, 2022
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      Unfortunately flats maybe a wedge. I wish my feet didn’t hurt in stiletto’s. If I could six inch steletto’s would be my daily wear.

    • #679844
      Lisa Leigh
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      I’m 6’3” and I can wear only heels under 2.5 inches. I have a nice pair of ballet slippers that I picked up off Amazon and a standard pair of 2” pumps. Looking at buying a pair of 2.5 inch high MaryJanes for as Christmas present to myself!
      Why do I only want heels under 2.5? Easy, any higher I would hit my head walking thru doorways. Most only have an opening of 6’6”!

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    • #679843
      Alexis Spring
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      I’m 5’8″, so with my tall wedges I can hit 6’0″.  I do have a couple shorter block heels at about 3″ to 3 1/2″.  I don’t expect to blend in so no flats for me except my two pair of winter boots.  I just want to be me & enjoy life.  Of course I get odd looks when I am out but it is what it is.  I am a CD’er.

    • #679835
      Lauren Mugnaia
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      Allow me to have a slightly different take on the topic. LOL.
      I’m a slightly older gal now, and the old ankles just aren’t what they used to be. I used to be able to walk in anything six inches and under, but not anymore or the old ankles start complaining pretty fast.
      So I have a wonderful collection of very pretty flats and kitten pumps, nothing over two and a half inches.

      Hugs girls,

      Ms. Lauren M

      • #680017
        Daisy Dandelion
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        Registered On: September 21, 2022
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        I have an issue that a few years ago I broke my foot quite badly (5months off my feet and 2 operations)

        my feet get sore if I wear flat flat shoes, even my mens shoes have heels, so I think I need to find shoes with a low to medium heel

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    • #679797
      April Sinclair
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      Registered On: April 29, 2022
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      Daisy I am tall like you and when in public I will where a 2 to 3.5 inch heel, I save taller ones for home. I might wear taller ones to a little Halloween Party that didn’t entail a lot of walking or a photo shoot of some kind. Otherwise to be out as an every day woman I wear the 2 inch to 3.5 inch with a block or wider heel no spike or stilettos. If there will be a ton of walking or feet are a little sore from wearing heels the day before which happens when going to events for multiple days then a flat or 1 inch or less for me.

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    • #679751
      Robyn Drake
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      Registered On: March 19, 2019
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      Hi Daisy,

      I’m 6′-4″. I wear 3-4 inch heels. I do expect to stand out like a sore thumb and I never hope to pass. My goal is just to be my wonderful self.

      – Robyn

    • #679747
      Michelle Skylar
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      Registered On: March 18, 2021
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      Hi Daisy,

      I’m a few inches taller than you are and in heels would be pushing 7 feet. I wear mostly women’s jeans and canvas flats trying not to stand out. I have two pairs of heels, but I don’t wear them in public.

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    • #679739
      MacKenzie Alexandra
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      Daisy,

      I am over 6 feet tall myself, though not as much as you.  I love to wear heels as I believe the accentuate my legs which is clearly my best assest.  As I also describe myself as a plus plus girl, I am careful about the style and height of heel for health and safety reasons.  That being said, I usually limit myself to no more than a 3 inch pump, but generally prefer a more chunky heel.  Wedges are also a favorite of mine.  I am not sure of your size, but I have had success finding heels and wedges that fit at affordable prices at Torrid.

      MacKenzie Alexandra

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