Hello everybody! I'm Brandy…the NEW girl

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    Brandy Loveslace
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    I know it’s kind of cheesy but I’m just going to post my bio here… This is me πŸ™‚

    I’m married, mid 40’s…
    I’m kind of new to all this. One day, about 3 months ago, my wife and I were out of town and I ran out of underwear(men’s briefs) and I was kind of angry about it… not wanting to go without because I think it’s uncomfortable without underwear when wearing jeans, not to mention dangerous! So, I was just going to put on dirty ones….ewww!!!
    And my wife said here, wear mine. Even though, they were just regular cotton ladies briefs, I found them to be quite comfortable, not to mention colorful(I think they were a dark wine color).
    Anyways, I was hooked! I was a little reluctant about it but I told here I wanted some panties of my own. So, we went shopping for panties together at Victoria Secret, Soma, Torrid and Macy’s. At last count I have 57 pairs of panties and we’ve moved on to camisoles and women’s night gowns and pantyhose. I think it’s so nice to share this new “thing” with my wife. I don’t think I’ll ever be wearing makeup or wigs or ever be fully dressed but… I guess you could say I’m a regular guy with a secret under my clothes.
    And, now I’m here…

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  • #152160
     Moll Deee 
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    Hey ime also new excited to get started 😉

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      I’m just getting started too.
      You’re going to love this place πŸ™‚

      xxx
      Brandy

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     Jackie Smith 
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    Hi Brandy, I am also new here and something I realize is that as I sit here reading posts and forums, in my mind I’m thinking about the women writing the post and not a guy dressed as a women. It amazes me how many of us ladies have gone down the same path of dressing.

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  • #149943
     Dawn Jones 
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    That’s fantastic great support. I started out the same way but now I’m looking at wigs and makeup.

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    • #149981
       Brandy Loveslace 
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      I’ve been wondering about wigs and makeup too very recently…
      And women’s jeans!
      We shall see
      xxx
      Brandy

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         Olivia Livin 
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        Its a very slippery slope isn’t it sweetie? We start with just the oh so cute panties, then once the female(s) get their foot in our drawers we somehow start wanting more. Its exhilirating, awesome and scary as all get out lol. Best ride EVER!

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           Brandy Loveslace 
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          You’re right about that Olivia, it is the best ride ever πŸ™‚

          Next up is a pair of women’s jeans for me…& they’d better fit right & look good too!!!
          It is a slippery slope indeed

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     sandra louise saunders 
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    Hi Brandy, welcome to this lovely site everyone is very welcoming. I am sure your wife will let you progress to dresses and shoes and you will love that. Sandra Louise xx

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      Thank you Sandra!

      This site has been amazing so far πŸ™‚

      xxx
      Brandy

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     Christie Deville 
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    Welcome Brandy

    It is wonderful your SO supports you in your wardrobe change. That would be wonderful

    Enjoy

    Hugs

    Christie

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      Thanks Christie πŸ™‚
      Nice to meet you!
      I am very lucky that my wife is so supportive and that she participates in everything. She even critiques things too! Like, last night for example, she was asking me why I was wearing my panties overtop my pantyhose. I told her because I thought they looked better that way. & She was like…no…no…no lol
      xxx
      Brandy

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         Olivia Livin 
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        Silly newbie! Glad your wife was there lol. Practice makes perfect…ish, for all of us.

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           Brandy Loveslace 
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          Yeah, silly newbie! I kind of feel like a test guinea pig or something lol
          In life, in general, I always like to learn something new everyday & all of this crossdressing stuff has made that very easy and fun! πŸ™‚

          Brandy

          P.S.
          I still prefer panties over pantyhose because it makes the panties “pop” πŸ˜‰

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          You should try hold ups instead of pantyhose – best of both worlds – and easier to put on – and not hot or sweaty or uncomfortable.Β  If you do, also buy some “body and sock glue” from amazon for when the silicon bands lose their grip. I shave my thighs down to half way to the knee so they stay up better (and i can still wear shorts in the summer outdoors).

          stephanie

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           Brandy Loveslace 
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          Thanks Stephanie πŸ™‚

          Holdups??? I don’t even know what those are. I’ll have to google it.
          I feel like a virgin lol
          xxx
          Brandy

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     Brandy Loveslace 
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    All you girls just seem soooo nice! It really warms my heart.
    Thank you all who have welcomed me and good luck to everyone on here.
    Find who you are…
    Be who you are…
    And, most importantly LOVE who you are!
    xxx

    Brandy

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  • #146288
     Stephanie Flowers 
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    Brandy

    It’s wonderful to have you here with us in this wonderful community . Enjoy browsing through many of our well written forums, read about stories of others learn more on as they journey through their experiences. As many dress in different levels I too started with just panties . In time it became the norm and began wearingΒ  them 24/7 for over a year and loving them . Then like you mentioned camisoles and nightgowns are becoming increasingly popular too . At home be comfortableΒ  and if your wife’s OK with it enjoy your favorite moments. In time though I’m sure you’ll startΒ  Β looking at moreΒ  in dressing and yourΒ  Β interests will start . For me the biggest thrill was putting on my first dress. After that I was hooked and now have assembled a wordrobe thatΒ  even my wife is envious with.Β  One never knows .Β  Many here to meet , talk with and for some develop wonderful friendships. A caring place I hope you enjoy being part of. Very nice meeting you

    Stephanie 🌹

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      Thanks Stephanie πŸ™‚

      It’s nice to meet you too. I appreciate the kind and thoughtful words.

      xxx

      Brandy

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    Hi Brandy. Thankyou for joining our community. I hope you enjoy yourself here on CDH. We have lots to offer you, such as excellent forums, a chat room, very helpful and supportive members to help you along the way, to name but a few. Please feel free to get involved in the forums! Nice to meet you πŸ™‚

    Fiona xxx

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      Thanks Fiona
      Nice to meet you too! And, I do plan on being involved in the forums and meeting people. It’s hard to keep up with you girls. It’s a very friendly, welcoming group πŸ™‚

      xxx

      Brandy

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    Kudos to your wife, for getting on board with you!
    Sounds like you already know many of our “go to places” for girly duds.
    Strap yourself in, & enjoy the ride! It’s gonna be a long one! πŸ™‚

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      Thanks Bobbi!
      I like this ride so far.
      Torrid is my favorite store so far btw….everything from there fits just right :)… I’m a plus sized girl(who knew!?!?)

      Brandy

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        Lane Bryant is also a good resource for clothing.
        (although, they’re kind of expensive).

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           Brandy Loveslace 
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          Lane Bryant huh…I’m going to have to check it out! I don’t think I’ve ever been in there before, not for me or anybody else…lol
          I’ll try not to spend too much…I really do need a budget πŸ˜‰

          xxx
          Brandy

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     Michelle Newman 
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    Welcome Brandy!

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      thanks Michelle!

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    Welcome Brandy your post made me think of a song,

    Sharing horizons that are new to us
    Watching the signs along the way
    Talkin’ it over, just the two of us
    Workin’ together day to day

    Have fun in you new found endeavor .

    Lisa πŸ™‚

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      Hi Lisa!

      I just finally looked up the song. Yeah, my mind wanders and forgets things… And yes, I remember hearing it a million times when I was a kid. The Carpenters were one of my Mother’s favorite bands. I just never really knew what the words were except for “we’ve only just begun”. That is just too much!!! It does kind of fit though πŸ˜‰
      And, yeah, I just listened to the whole thing on youtube.
      Thank you πŸ™‚

      xxx

      Brandy

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        Glad you liked it Brandy, hope your weekend is full of joy.

        Lisa

        πŸ™‚

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      Thanks Lisa πŸ™‚

      I don’t know the song but I will look it up

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        Hi, Brandy! Another from West Virginia. And that song is by the Carpenters. LOL

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           Brandy Loveslace 
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          Hi Donni πŸ™‚

          Oh, the Carpenters… I like the Carpenters…
          Hello West Virginia!

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    Hi Brandy and welcome. I’m glad for you that your wife wants to be included. The feelings are wonderful aren’t they. As things continue to move forward, as they likely will, you can learn and share with the friends you make here. Its comforting to be able to chat with those others that are going through and have gone through similar experiences. Enjoy the beauty we all can be, with openness and honesty you and your wife can have alot of fun together. I hope to see more from you.

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      Thanks Olivia and yes the feelings are wonderful. I’m liking the feminine side of me, more and more everyday πŸ™‚

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        Did you even imagine you would find a place that was so immediately inclusive, isn’t it great? The feelings are awesome and can be addictive, along with the shopping lol. Have alot of fun with the SO

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           Brandy Loveslace 
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          Olivia, I never imagined that I would find such a group. When I was first looked at the sight, I was a little skeptical. But, once I joined, I was welcomed almost immediately and then I knew that I belonged here. It is such a nice group of ladies! And, I really like reading everybody’s stories.
          I hope that every lady in this group feels as good about it as I do.

          xxx

          Brandy

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    Welcome to the slippery slope

    Lacey

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       Brandy Loveslace 
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      Thanks Lacey! πŸ™‚

      What do you mean by slippery slope?

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        panties look and feel great, wonder what nighties feel like, then camisoles, then pantyhose, oh I wonder what hold up stockings feel like, hold ups hold up much better with shaved legs, wonder what stockings feel like under a dress, LBD, bodycon,summer dress,long gown,miniskirt,pencil skirt,pleated skirt,leather skirt,maxi skirt, etc, wonder what a bra feels like, under a silk blouse, or a tee shirt bra under a fitted top, sports bras look great with leggings, wonder what that feels like, or a corset under a cocktail dress and heels, wonder what heels feel like to walk in, or heeled boots, ankle boots or knee high, leather or suede, open toed heels, wonder what my toes would look like painted in open toed heels ? etc etc etcΒ 

        SLIPPERY SLOPE LOL

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           Brandy Loveslace 
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          yeah, it is kind of a slippery slope…lol
          first panties then…
          p.s. I just started wearing camisoles this week
          I think they’re lovely πŸ˜‰

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           Melissa Penning 
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          What a fun thread!Β  Not to belabor Bianca’s point too much longer, but then it will be what will I look like with makeup on, what would it be like to take a walk in the park dressed up, what would it be like to go to the mall as Brandy, and my dream, what would it be like to have girl time shopping or going to a chick flick with my lovely wife.

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           Brandy Loveslace 
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          Yes Melissa!
          I have A LOT of “wondering” going on in my head & I mean A LOT!!!
          Next up, for me, I think is women’s jeans. I am so tired of baggy guys jeans & tired of constantly pulling them up…
          I’m betting that women’s jeans will fit better and look better too πŸ™‚
          xxx
          Brandy

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          Post some pictures when you are ready to. We wiuld all love to see them.

          Love,

          Melissa

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       Bianca Everdene 
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      Welcome Brandy

      Spot on Lacey, it can be so addictive, all that silk,satin,lace, lycra(spandex),cotton, Β in so many beautiful colours.

      Love

      Bianca

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         Brandy Loveslace 
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        Thanks Bianca! πŸ™‚
        It is addicting, that’s fore sure. I have so many pretty things already, we had to order a panty drawer organizer because I can’t find anything…too many choices of what to wear lol

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