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    Pamela Shock
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    Registered On: June 12, 2021
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    Greetings all!

    I’ve thought about joining the forum for quite some time. I guess my story is similar and a little bit different from everyone else’s.

    Long story short, I’m not just a closeted CD, but a closeted genderqueer and bisexual as well. I’ve had to hide my gender/sexual identity for years now, but it wasn’t until the COVID crisis hit that things really came to a head for me. Around this time last year I made myself a promise: life is too short to not be who you truly are, and as soon as life got back to normal (or, normal-ish), I was going to start living MY life.

    As for my own story, I’m in my mid-30s and in a committed relationship with a cisgender woman. She has no idea that I engage in crossdressing or have any sort of bisexual tendencies. So I’m walking a very tight line in remaining faithful to her yet still accepting my true sexuality and gender identity. On top of that, I’m in a VERY LGBT-unfriendly part of the United States and in a profession where genderqueer/nonbinary expression simply won’t fly.

    All of that to say I’m here for support and to lend support to anyone else going through a similar lifestyle change. That, and it never hurts to make some new friends!

    See you around the board. Mwah!

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      Stephanie Bass
      Princess - Annual
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
      Topics: 12
      Replies: 1967
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      Hi Pamela nice to meet you and so happy you found us girls here at the best CD site on the internet so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms here in to our home as well as yours now also .. As these other wonderful ladies have said to welcome you here add me to there list we all here are very supportive and accepting of all who come thru these doors so jump right in with some comments to there posts or forums .. Thanks for a wonderful intro it was fun reading and hits home on so many aspects of our femme life .. And again nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime ..

      Stephanie Bass

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      Alice Underwire
      Lady
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
      Topics: 45
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      Hi Pamela,

      Welcome to CDH.

      Alice

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      Leslie Berri
      Lady
      Registered On: March 9, 2021
      Topics: 1
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      Hello Pamela. You are not alone. I am also struggling with walking the “tight rope” and can relate to much, almost all, what you have written. I don’t know that I can offer answers but can offer understanding. I can say that I have made some friendships here that have helped me. Welcome.
      leslie❤️

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    • #504471
      Terri Anne
      Ambassador
      Registered On: February 7, 2018
      Topics: 32
      Replies: 427
      Has thanked: 993 times
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      Hi Pamela,

      Welcome to our amazing site. So glad you have joined us here.

      The warmth and hospitality of our community is just awesome.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on our site.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages.  You can find the link on each member’s Profile page.

      Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each.

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

      Regards,

      Terri Anne, Ambassador

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    • #504313
      Stephanie Roberts
      Princess
      Registered On: May 20, 2020
      Topics: 9
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      Warm welcome to CDH Pamela!!! 💐
      Really nice meeting you.
      Love and hugs, Stephanie 💖

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      Diana Morgan
      Lady
      Registered On: February 22, 2021
      Topics: 8
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      Hi Pamela, welcome, you will find everyone here to be friendly and supportive plus totally non-judgmental, so you can be yourself here without any fear.

      Hugs

      Diana

       

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    • #504254
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
      Topics: 31
      Replies: 5284
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      Pamela Welcome to Cdh.  Here you can enjoy the company of many like yourself expressing their femininity for all to see. Meet with,  talk with and with some devolope wonderful friendships. A place of support and understanding for all that passes. Nice meeting you and looking forward to seeing you here soon..

      Stephanie🌹

       

       

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      Effie Jayne
      Duchess
      Registered On: February 7, 2021
      Topics: 31
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      Pamela , welcome to the group! 🌸🦋

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      Fredrika Jones
      Lady
      Registered On: February 24, 2021
      Topics: 1
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      Hi, Pamela. Welcome, and all the best to you! Muah

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      Jennifer Ramirez
      Lady
      Registered On: December 13, 2020
      Topics: 1
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      Hi Pamela, welcome to CDH
      Am Jennifer Ramirez
      We have a wide variety of stories here also
      Hopefully you can find the right person connect with, if not am available.
      Again welcome
      Hugs Jennifer

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    • #504204
      Eva Kelly
      Lady
      Registered On: March 1, 2021
      Topics: 10
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      Has thanked: 4617 times
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      Hi Pamela,

      Warm welcomes to CDH.

      Eva

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    • #504201
      Abbie Normal
      Duchess
      Registered On: June 13, 2021
      Topics: 7
      Replies: 337
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      Welcome Pamela,

      I’m new here too but so far it seems like a good place to be.

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