• Creator
    Topic
  • #566838
    Lara Tucker
    Participant
    Registered On: September 29, 2021
    Topics: 1
    Replies: 314
    Has thanked: 7629 times
    Been thanked: 1399 times

    Hello Everyone,
    Sorry it has taken me a month to get to put my introduction out here.
    I’m kind of new to cross dressing. A couple of years ago I just decided I had to have a dress I saw on Amazon. That opened the shopping flood gates. Then it was on to EnFemme, and the Breastform Store! I love the way I feel in heels, skirts, dresses, and a bra, and forms! It brings such an amazing calming feeling.
    My wife, family, and friends do not know about this obsession. I don’t want to risk making any one uncomfortable. I also don’t want to chance being rejected by some dear long-time friends. This could change in the future, but for now I’m happy this way. I love my male life, and this new side of me too. I don’t feel that I need to be dressed full time. I have nothing but love for those who do, or those that are going on to transition. It’s just not right for me, at this time in my life.
    This site is just awesome! I just love the support here. Everyone has been so kind, and helpful!
    Love & Hugs,
    Lara

Viewing 18 reply threads
  • Author
    Replies
    • #567280
      Abbie Normal
      Duchess
      Registered On: June 13, 2021
      Topics: 13
      Replies: 661
      Has thanked: 1347 times
      Been thanked: 2756 times

      Welcome Lara,

      no pressure here. I too like to be a little fluid in how I’m presenting from day to day or hour to hour as the case may be. Depends on who is around…

      — Abbie 🥰

      1 user thanked author for this post.
    • #567254
      Olivia Livin
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: October 22, 2018
      Topics: 56
      Replies: 1702
      Has thanked: 9316 times
      Been thanked: 4885 times

      Hello and welcome Lara.

      Do what feels right for you, while I am lucky enough to have the freedom, given by myself and those around me to dress feminine the majority of the time, it is important to me to also retain some of my male traits.

      Enjoy being here with us

      Olivia

      2 users thanked author for this post.
    • #567225
      Becky Shaw
      Lady
      Registered On: October 29, 2021
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 9
      Has thanked: 16 times
      Been thanked: 47 times

      Thank you, Lara. I wish I had your confidence and calm. But reading your message has helped to reassure me that it’s OK to try and maintain the two aspects side by side. I find that every time I read something here it helps to make me feel better about what I feel. That is what makes this such a special place x

      1 user thanked author for this post.
      • #567235
        Lara Tucker
        Lady
        Registered On: September 29, 2021
        Topics: 1
        Replies: 314
        Has thanked: 7629 times
        Been thanked: 1399 times

        Hi Becky,

        This sure is a special place!

        It has helped me  feel better about my feelings in such a short time.

        I’m glad my post helped you!

        Love,

        Lara

        1 user thanked author for this post.
    • #567195
      Alice Underwire
      Lady
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
      Topics: 90
      Replies: 4650
      Has thanked: 6915 times
      Been thanked: 11718 times

      Hi Lara,

      Welcome to CDH.

      Alice

      2 users thanked author for this post.
    • #567078
      Terri Anne Knoan
      Ambassador
      Registered On: February 7, 2018
      Topics: 32
      Replies: 861
      Has thanked: 1462 times
      Been thanked: 1906 times

      Hi Lara,

      Welcome to our amazing site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

      The Warmth, Compaasion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages.  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

      Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat, Groups, etc.

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

      Regards,

      Terri Anne, Ambassador

      1 user thanked author for this post.
    • #567050
      Liara Wolfe
      Duchess
      Registered On: August 14, 2021
      Topics: 3
      Replies: 969
      Has thanked: 1858 times
      Been thanked: 3780 times

      Welcome to CDH Lara.

      Hugs, Liara

      2 users thanked author for this post.
    • #566950
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
      Topics: 32
      Replies: 5793
      Has thanked: 10965 times
      Been thanked: 11386 times

      Lara This is certainly a special place full of beautiful ladies all enjoying this wonderful world. Get all doll up and enjoy mixing right here. Girls here love to chat and make one feel very comfortable in themselves to enjoy moving with a dream looking forward. As you said I’m not looking to further my journeys but at times do enjoy dressing in my feminine things but also enjoy my male side too. A mix of two worlds as one deals with the every day struggles life can put on us  my fem side compliments my softer and easy side and certainly helps in reducing the stress put on us. Happy to have you here and now enjoy all that we are. Welcome…

      Stephanie 🌹

       

      4 users thanked author for this post.
      • #567227
        Lara Tucker
        Lady
        Registered On: September 29, 2021
        Topics: 1
        Replies: 314
        Has thanked: 7629 times
        Been thanked: 1399 times

        Thanks Stephanie,

        It’s so good to be here, and meet others with similar feelings.

        Hugs,

        Lara

        1 user thanked author for this post.
    • #566935
      Charlotte Walker
      Duchess
      Registered On: April 18, 2021
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 574
      Has thanked: 2569 times
      Been thanked: 1907 times

      Hi Welcome to CDH.

      Hugs Charlotte

      2 users thanked author for this post.
    • #566896
      Connie Twirl
      Lady
      Registered On: August 18, 2021
      Topics: 16
      Replies: 591
      Has thanked: 1062 times
      Been thanked: 2712 times

      Hi Lara

      I’m with you all the way on the calming feeling – it’s wonderful, isn’t it?

      Welcome in

      Connie

      xxx

      3 users thanked author for this post.
      • #567220
        Lara Tucker
        Lady
        Registered On: September 29, 2021
        Topics: 1
        Replies: 314
        Has thanked: 7629 times
        Been thanked: 1399 times

        Oh, it sure is Connie!

        Hugs,

        Lara

        2 users thanked author for this post.
    • #566894
      Diane Rakers
      Lady
      Registered On: August 18, 2019
      Topics: 4
      Replies: 871
      Has thanked: 1494 times
      Been thanked: 3056 times

      A “calming feeling”.

      I could have written that.

      Lara, for this is experiencing things that I don’t have or feel in my life as a man.

      Diane

      2 users thanked author for this post.
    • #566892
      Elizabeth
      Lady
      Registered On: October 7, 2021
      Topics: 32
      Replies: 400
      Has thanked: 2605 times
      Been thanked: 1849 times

      Hi Laura, you look great in those heels girl. Great legs.

      2 users thanked author for this post.
      • #567224
        Lara Tucker
        Lady
        Registered On: September 29, 2021
        Topics: 1
        Replies: 314
        Has thanked: 7629 times
        Been thanked: 1399 times

        Thanks so much Elizabeth!

        XXX

    • #566887
      Fredrika Jones
      Lady
      Registered On: February 24, 2021
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 268
      Has thanked: 343 times
      Been thanked: 913 times

      Hat’s off to you – sounds like you’ve really got it together! You go, girl! 😄

      2 users thanked author for this post.
    • #566884
      Marcy Chick
      Lady
      Registered On: August 7, 2021
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 13
      Has thanked: 32 times
      Been thanked: 69 times

      Hi Lara Welcome!! I just joined a few months ago. I am in the closet also but I have been dressing since I was 10 and I am Now 53. I understand about friends and family most of them would dis own me if they found out about Marcy..My wife passed away almost 17 months ago and was thinking of being Marcy full time but I still have family and friends that would not get it..I have made some friends here and feel safe. So enjoy!!

      2 users thanked author for this post.
      • #567241
        Lara Tucker
        Lady
        Registered On: September 29, 2021
        Topics: 1
        Replies: 314
        Has thanked: 7629 times
        Been thanked: 1399 times

        Hi Marcy

        Wow, I have been in my closet for a lot less time! I’m 61, but haven’t really fully realized, or maybe admitted to myself that I had these feelings until a few years ago. I have a lot of respect for your dealing with these on your own for that long.  Sorry to here about your loss.

        I feel safe here too!

        Thank you so much for the warm welcome!

        love and hugs,

        Lara

        1 user thanked author for this post.
    • #566873
      Raquel
      Lady
      Registered On: January 8, 2021
      Topics: 0
      Replies: 22
      Has thanked: 3 times
      Been thanked: 45 times

      welcome and its hard to find your way and you will get there one step at a time

      3 users thanked author for this post.
    • #566862
      Stephanie Roberts
      Princess
      Registered On: May 20, 2020
      Topics: 23
      Replies: 1167
      Has thanked: 10402 times
      Been thanked: 4810 times

      Hi Lara,
      Welcome to CDH!
      It’s so nice to meet you.
      Love and hugs, Stephanie 💖

      4 users thanked author for this post.
    • #566854
      Ginger Green
      Lady
      Registered On: June 16, 2021
      Topics: 3
      Replies: 61
      Has thanked: 68 times
      Been thanked: 314 times

      Lara you and I are in the exact same boat. I have been doing this for about the same amount of time and have also become obsessed. I love the feeling of stockings, heels, silk and satin fabrics, and everything else enfemme.  And no one knows about me either.  I agree this is the most amazing place.  I look forward to batting with you in the future.  Welcome to CDH see ya soon Ginny.

      5 users thanked author for this post.
      • #567222
        Lara Tucker
        Lady
        Registered On: September 29, 2021
        Topics: 1
        Replies: 314
        Has thanked: 7629 times
        Been thanked: 1399 times

        Thanks Ginny!

        It is so great to know that there are others out there that feel like this!

        Lara

    • #566853
      Jessica Maddison
      Registered On: August 31, 2021
      Topics: 0
      Replies: 92
      Has thanked: 4015 times
      Been thanked: 233 times

      Hello Lara  Welcome to CDH..

      This is a Safe Place to Be Your True Self…  if there’s anything I can do to help… or you just would like to talk…Please send Me a Message..

      With Much Love Jessica 💕

      4 users thanked author for this post.
    • #566850
      Carole Corbett
      Ambassador
      Registered On: September 5, 2016
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 61
      Has thanked: 77 times
      Been thanked: 234 times

      Hey gf

      OmgI can so relate to how you explained it. I just told my wife a few weeks ago and she has been nothing but the best partner, soulmate and love of my like.  That being we still have a lot to go through to figure out our new normal which is good for both of us. I don’t feel the need to tell others but do want to get out once in a while which will be out of town.

      Going to a therapist helped me a lot in understanding myself which in turn helped me in talking with my wife.  It’s all about finding the right therapist that you can connect with for sure.

      please reach out if you ever want to chat.

       

      hugs

       

      carole

      5 users thanked author for this post.
      • #567246
        Lara Tucker
        Lady
        Registered On: September 29, 2021
        Topics: 1
        Replies: 314
        Has thanked: 7629 times
        Been thanked: 1399 times

        Hi Carole

        I bet it is a relief to be out to your wife! Especially when the reaction is so supportive.

        Best of luck finding your new normal together! I hope it makes you even closer!

        Thanks for the warm welcome,

        Love,

        Lara

    • #566848
      Stephanie Green
      Lady
      Registered On: October 30, 2021
      Topics: 3
      Replies: 72
      Has thanked: 90 times
      Been thanked: 366 times

      Welcome to CDH, Lara.  It’s nice to meet you.

      4 users thanked author for this post.
    • #567226
      Lara Tucker
      Lady
      Registered On: September 29, 2021
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 314
      Has thanked: 7629 times
      Been thanked: 1399 times

      Thanks Bobbiesue!

      Love, and hugs right back to you!

      Lara

      1 user thanked author for this post.
Viewing 18 reply threads
  • You must be logged in to reply to this topic.
Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Join our mailing list to receive the latest news and updates from Crossdresser Heaven.

You have Successfully Subscribed!

Log in with your credentials

or    

Forgot your details?

Create Account