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    Alluera Belle
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    Registered On: September 22, 2022
    Topics: 1
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    Hello all,

    Alluera here.  Im not new to crossdressing, I’ve been crossdressing since I was young.  Starting out trying on my mom’s clothes then on to my sister’s.  I’ve always wanted and have been trying, through therapy, to find how I was wired this way.  Initially therapy was to solve our marital issues,  my ex felt I needed to fix myself.  Long story short we divorced and I kept on with therapy.  That’s when I realized  this was apart of me and there was nothing wrong with my lifestyle providing that I’m not hurting another. So I went in full throttle.  It was funny that one of my good friends who was a couples friend with his wife, they divorced too and I got him in the divorce lol, had known about me due to my wife when divorced told just about everyone that we knew when they asked why we divorced.  Well it didn’t even bother him as well as all his brothers.  I should write a comedy about the event of going through life thinking no one knows but all the while everyone does lol.  Well throughout this journey I began to divulge my “secret” to other close friends and family who would have thought, no one cared, as a matter fact they even supported me.  So far I have not lost a friend but I do keep my story to close people that I feel I can trust, and don’t just blurt it out. Still trying to be safe I guess.  Well that’s where my journey brings me here.  I am now to the point where I would like to explore my new self publicly and not just in private, as well as make new friends where we can share experiences and maybe even go out.

    Thanks!!!

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    • #679471
      Jess Secret
      Lady
      Registered On: February 18, 2021
      Topics: 15
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      A big warm welcome to CDH Alluera!!

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    • #679460
      Ophelia DaFynn
      Lady
      Registered On: September 27, 2022
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      Hi Alluera,

      I enjoyed your post.  Great story of your travels to expressing your enfemme self.  I’m proud of you.  🥰

      Ophelia

      • This reply was modified 2 months ago by Ophelia DaFynn. Reason: Spelling
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      • #679473
        Alluera Belle
        Duchess
        Registered On: September 22, 2022
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        Thank you Ophelia, its great to be in good company

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    • #679456
      Stephanie Bass
      Hostess
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
      Topics: 27
      Replies: 4210
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      Hi Alluera Nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here..  Well as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also..  Girlfriend with so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies telling there stories about there journeys down there femme path in life..  So girl when you get comfortable with us please jpoin in with a story or two about the life and times of Alluera as she travels down her own girly path in life..  Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and girlfriend best of all we all are just a simple click away.. Again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat some time soon..

      Stephanie Bass

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      • #679485
        Alluera Belle
        Duchess
        Registered On: September 22, 2022
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        Thank you Stephanie, it is great to be welcomed. I will be posting alot.

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    • #679422
      Zenn
      Lady
      Registered On: April 4, 2022
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      Alluera welcome to CDH, lots of good info here!
      From Denver too.

      Zenn

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      • #679488
        Alluera Belle
        Duchess
        Registered On: September 22, 2022
        Topics: 1
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        Thank you Zenn!!!

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    • #679407
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
      Topics: 35
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      Alluera welcome to Cdh.

      Stephanie 🌷

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    • #679384
      Christina Isme
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      Registered On: April 8, 2022
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      I have been full time since I was 9 till now at 62 and I have been enjoying it. It is a interesting life. This is a nice site. We are glad to have you welcome to the site

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    • #679382
      Lara Tucker
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      Registered On: September 29, 2021
      Topics: 2
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      Hi Alluera,

      Welcome to this lovely accepting community!
      It’s very nice meeting you,

      💕Lara

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    • #679299
      Alice Underwire
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      Registered On: September 16, 2019
      Topics: 97
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      Hi Alluera

      Welcome to CDH.

      Alice

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    • #679267
      Rozalyn Richards
      Lady
      Registered On: July 27, 2022
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      Has thanked: 489 times
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      Hi Alluera welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, thanks for sharing your story with us it’s great that you haven’t lost any of your friends with coming out, I’m still in the closet to my wife and family, I’ve been dressing since i was about 8 or 9 years old i started dressing in my older sister’s lingerie, if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you,

      Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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      • #679307
        Alluera Belle
        Duchess
        Registered On: September 22, 2022
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        Thank you Rozalyn,

        After work today I would like to post my wife finding out experience to you. Maybe even might have some advise should you want to come out to her.

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        • #679372
          Rozalyn Richards
          Lady
          Registered On: July 27, 2022
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          Hi Alluera I’m not sure that I’m going to come out to my wife, we have been married for a long time and I’m sure she may feel betrayed that i didn’t tell her before we started going out together, she might feel that I’m not the person she fell in love with X

          Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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    • #679261
      Greta La Folle
      Lady
      Registered On: August 6, 2022
      Topics: 6
      Replies: 311
      Has thanked: 619 times
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      Hi Alluera

      Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family.
      Here you can exchange opinions and information and find support to move forward in your enfemme adventure.
      Have fun participating in the forums and questionnaires.
      Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm embrace.

      XOXOX from Italy
      Greta ❤️

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      • #679492
        Alluera Belle
        Duchess
        Registered On: September 22, 2022
        Topics: 1
        Replies: 9
        Has thanked: 22 times
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        Thank you Greta!!!

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