Tagged: coming out, erased
- This topic has 24 replies, 21 voices, and was last updated 2 years ago by Terri Anne.
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- April 24, 2020 at 7:44 am #338199
Just came out to my wife after building up courage to tell her for about a year. She was so gracious and so cool and so supportive. I love her so much.
- April 24, 2020 at 8:11 am #338209
Hi Kym. Nice to meet you.
- April 24, 2020 at 8:20 am #338213
Hey Jayda, well done for being so brave; sounds like you can enjoy this ‘new’ hobby together! Enjoy your time at this wonderful place!
Seraphina x
- April 24, 2020 at 8:25 am #338214
Hi Jada,
I am so happy for you. The Greenville area is beautiful. The last time I was there I went out down town en femme for a walk along the main street. I sat at lemongrass and had a great dinner.
Enjoy the freedom that comes form sharing CD with your SO.
Hugs
Paula
- April 24, 2020 at 8:35 am #338215
Well done for taking such a big leap. I’m still trying to pluck up the courage and find the right moment. It would be interesting to chat with you to know how you approached it.
Katie x
- April 24, 2020 at 9:25 am #338230
Jayda
Congratulations on making the decision to tell her. A big relief not to hid it no longer. And to have her acceptance certainly will make your journey most fulfilling.
Now being here get all doll up and enjoy mixing right here. Girls here love to chat and make one feel very comfortable in themselves to enjoy moving with a dream looking forward. In time find others maybe close but always around and with some develope wonderful friendships. Happy to have you here and now enjoy all that we are. Stephanie 🌹
- April 24, 2020 at 9:32 am #338234
Please any ladies interested private messaging me about coming out to my partner please feel free to do so. I don’t mind talking and discussing my experience and how I approached it.
- April 24, 2020 at 9:53 am #338239
Hi Jayda, Teralynn here. Welcome to our merry band of crossdressing people! I am always delighted to welcome a new member especially one that has told their wife about their crossdressing and found out that there wife was not only accepting but also supportive. What an absolute blessing that is for a crossdressing person! I always advise that honesty is the best policy, but for a lot of crossdressing people the fear factor is just too strong to overcome! When I told my wife about Teralynn she looked at me with a “you are kidding, right?” look all over her face! But eventually she realized that I wasn’t kidding and that Teralynn was going to be around from now on. Now she thinks nothing of seeing Teralynn run around the house in a dress. Hope you like CDH and stay active on the site. It has many ways for its members to interact with each other and practically every day sees new members joining. So enjoy all the benefits of membership and make a few friends! If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help A post on my home profile page wall will get the fastest response. – Blessings
- April 24, 2020 at 11:43 am #338256Anonymous
Hi Jayda, I am also from Greenville SC and I’d love to talk to you. Please PM me if you want to talk. Also I will accept your friends request if you send me one. I am a senior CD in the closet and have been CD’ing since I was 5 or 6.
Kathleen
- April 24, 2020 at 11:44 am #338257Anonymous
Hi, Jayda
It’s wonderful that you not only found the courage to come out, but that your wife was so accepting!
You’re a lucky lady!
PM anytime
🙂
- April 24, 2020 at 12:46 pm #338269
Hi Jayda, that’s awesome. Welcome!
I told my wife a few months ago by suggesting she get me a Vicky Secret gift card for my birthday. I figured she could take it as a joke and I’d have an ‘out’ if she was unsupportive. But she took me on a shopping spree, Vicky’s Secret and elsewhere, shoes, dresses, sexy underthings. I love spending time with her en femme, and we’re dangerous shopping partners!
Tj
- April 24, 2020 at 3:51 pm #338330
Hi Jayda,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
- April 24, 2020 at 10:05 pm #338412
Hey there, welcome. Glad you told your wife. You shouldn’t have any secrets from her. My wife may be a don’t ask, don’t tell kinda gal, but we find the things that work for us. You will enjoy it her, everyone is very friendly.
-Steph
- April 25, 2020 at 8:24 am #338507
Great story. I’m glad it went so well with your wife.
- April 28, 2020 at 8:55 am #339277
Welcome Jayda!
- April 30, 2020 at 6:56 am #339723
Hi, hello, and welcome to Crossdresser Heaven! You have just arrived at the best and greatest CD site on the web! CDH has tons of very helpful crossdressing information, tips, and support from real people just like you! We highly encourage new CDH members to ask questions no matter how trivial you think they may be, as we are happy to answer to the best of our ability. We also love a well written profile, this helps everyone to get to know you better as the beautiful woman you are! We hope that you enjoy your stay here at CDH, as we are happy to have you as a part of our wonderful community.
Thank you, Samantha Roarke
- August 23, 2020 at 10:47 am #376940
After coming out to my brothers daughters, he threatened to out me at my father’s funeral. He begrudgingly allows me to speak to his 4 year old who adores me and has not told my mother. Ooo, give the man a medal.
My other brother now knows and has been surprisingly quiet considering he is the most fundamentalist of the family! He gets a real medal.
While having a heart to heart about her weight loss methods, I came out to my sister-in-law’s daughter. She suppportive about it, but I had made a serious error in judgement. I saw it as coming out, while she saw it as infidelity. She told her grandmother and mother, who immediately told my wife and the rest of their clan and their friends. As a result, I have now been completely erased from their family. Since I helped raise her and her brother for several years, that hurts deepest of all. When I wished her happy birthday on the phone along with my wife, she promptly texted me to never speak to her again.
As for friends, my only “true” friend invited me to lunch, ambushed me, and has not been seen since. His wife naturally texted my wife to stir the pot.
So far nobody has dared to tell my mother and as long that is the case, I will survive. I made her life a living hell in high school and refuse to make her last days miserable. She would never withhold her love from me, but it would cause her great disappointment.
There will come a day, when I will walk out the door, drive to each of their homes to give them all a nice, big, fat, finger and a hearty F@#K U! Their only reprieve will be if my mother lives to a hundred and my liver/kidneys get me first.
Sigh. Who am I kidding. If they called me today I’d forgive them and let them back in my life without a second thought. I have always believed in redemption. I’m too old to change now.
- August 23, 2020 at 5:27 pm #377050
That’s right Jemma. When you are hurt by close friends and family like you described it is all our first instincts to tell them to go to hell. But most of us soon realize we all would be happier if relationships would be at least partially restored.
Sandy
- August 24, 2020 at 6:07 am #377206
That is wonderful to hear. I wonder how many of us girls in Greenville there really are?
- August 25, 2020 at 2:09 pm #377656
I learned a long time ago I cannot control anyone’s action but I have full control over my reaction. The only person who can give up your integrity is you, stay true to who you are. Sometimes that is very hard.
Blessings
Bea
- March 16, 2022 at 8:42 pm #629425
my ex did not take it very well would have been nice to have some support but now that im single i can wear a dress every day and i do a bad relationship is worse than being single happy to hear your wife supports you being a cd
- March 17, 2022 at 7:06 am #629492
Hi Jayda, my wife and I lived in Greenville from 2007 to 2018. DM me and we can catch up!
- March 17, 2022 at 7:41 am #629508
You are one of the lucky ones!! Nothing like a supportive wife
- March 17, 2022 at 8:13 am #629521Anonymous
Congratulations Jayda, great to have a supportive wife. Welcome to CDH, nice to meet you.
- March 17, 2022 at 9:07 am #629545
Hello Jayda,
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