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    • #710666

      I am 57 year young Bi male that likes to crossdress. I started like many when I was young. In my early teens my Mom and Dad got divorced.

      I went with my Mom, younger brother and little sister. It was not a pretty divorce. But I digress.

      I spent a lot of time with my Mom and liked the way she dressed for work in her heels and skirts. Somewhere along the lines I tried on her stockings a skirt and her heels and I felt feelings I had not experienced before and knew I wanted to wear those clothes. I hid it for sometime. Eventually I was caught as I didn’t put her stockings back. My Mom thought I was going through a faze and wanted me to experience being a girl.
      So she dressed me in her stockings, underwear including a bra, let me pick out a nice black dress and heels. Than sat me down to do my makeup saying a little girl has to be pretty. And to my surprise she had me stay dressed the entire day, and I was allowed to wear a night gown to bed.the next morning, I was instructed to remove my nightgown and makeup and told I would never wear her clothes again. Of course I was hooked so I wore her clothes until I feared I would be caught and went out and purchased my own and never looked back. I joined CDH to be around like minded people and to connect with others.

    • #710669

      Hello LesLee welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are and found us and made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or public expression and or level of personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression or those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of acceptance and self expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or world were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are; as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, or expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!

      Hugs April

      • #710702

        April Sinclair

        Thank you for a warm welcome to CDH
        Feels like a very understanding and compassionate place as you mentioned

    • #710673

      Hi, LesLee, and welcome to a place where I know you will make new friends and be able to share your experiences in confidence. I know I have! I was very interested in your story. It sounds like your Mom was practicing ‘aversion therapy’ way before its time, hoping by allowing you to be dressed for the entire day it would somehow reduce your desire. Not necessarily a bad tactic (especially considering the time), but if that desire is deep-seated it is probably not that effective. You will be surprised how many older (make that ‘mature’) crossdressers there are here at CDH. I think one reason many of us are actively exploring our feminine side this time of our lives, is we have the time, and many times the resources (I am thinking of my Amazon purchases) to do it, where in previous years it was job, family and other commitments. Of course, I am like many of the girls here in that my “Paulette Time” is limited by work and other obligations. If I could just reduce the number of Zoom calls I have every day I could spend more time as Paulette! But then, when it the opportunity presents itself it makes it worth it. I have started taking Paulette with me on my business trips. She is a much more social at the hotel bar in the evening than this old nerdy engineer ever was! I look forward to hearing more from you. Hugs, Paulette

      • #710701

        Paulette Parfois:
        Hello and thank you for a warm welcome to CDH. I think my Mom was practicing some form of aversion t he therapy at that time. I think I was to far into dressing for it to be effective. Might even have pushed it further ahead in my opinion.

        Yes I have put other obligations ahead of Leslee time as many of us do. I do feel welcome here and I’m slowly learning the CDH site.

    • #710681
      Erika Henderson
      Duchess - Annual

      Hi, LesLee! Welcome to CDH! We are so glad you found us!

      Erika

    • #710688

      welcome

    • #710714

      Hi Leslee welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, I’m a mature crossdresser I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on I’m still in the closet to my wife and family, I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I’m on the other side of the pond in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, I’m sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X 🎀

      Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

    • #710723

      Hi LESLEE,

      Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy looking around the site reading the posts.

      Alice

    • #710749

      Welcome Leslee,
      Glad you took the leap to reach out. You won’t be disappointed. Can’t wait to hear more of your beautiful journey from here on

      Kari

    • #710761
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador

      LesLee

      This is certainly a special place full of beautiful ladies all enjoying this wonderful world. Get all doll up and enjoy mixing right here. Girls here love to chat and make one feel very comfortable in themselves to enjoy moving with a dream looking forward. In time find others maybe close but always around and with some develope wonderful friendships. Happy to have you here and now enjoy all that we are. Welcome…

      Stephanie 🌹

       

       

       

    • #710770
      Anonymous

      Well sounds like you got a good start. I have been full time girl 👧 since I was 9 till now at 62. When my parents caught me I was required to wear my dress 👗 in front of my friends so I did best thing I could have done. I found other that were also wearing dresses 👗. I had to work the farms so I could buy my own dresses 👗 and materials to make my own dresses 👗. Relatives help me. Dad would not buy me dresses 👗 or dolls. My friend was the first one to wear a dress 👗 to school so I had to. I had my prom dress 👗 for a long time. My friend put into being the prom queen I put in my vote. Well we are glad to have you welcome to the site

      • #710854

        Tank you Christina
        Sounds like you had a rough time growing up as well. I think it’s makes us stronger as we mature. Thank you for the warm welcome. I already feel like I fit in here at CDH.

        Leslee

    • #710790
      Lara Muir
      Baroness - Annual

      Hi LesLee,

      Welcome to this friendly accepting community of sisters!

      I’m happy to meet you,

      💕Lara

      • #710856

        Hi Lara and thank you been a real eye opening experience already. I’m happy to meet you as well.

        Leslee

    • #710992

      Hi Leslee nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here..  You know girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Girl there is a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on .. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Leslee as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now girl as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Congrats girlfriend for the wonderful support you have at home as many ladies here myself included here its a pleasure to have the support and acceptingness of a wife at home ..So once again girl nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

      Stephanie Bass

    • #711269

      Hi LesLee

      Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family. It’s a pleasure to meet you here.
      Here you will be able to exchange opinions and information and find support to go forward in your enfemme adventure.
      Have fun participating in the forums, polls and questionnaires.
      Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm embrace.

      I’m Greta, a 56-year-old CD/TG person (I’m taking my first steps in HRT); with a life a little complicated by having to hide my gender identity for too long ….. when I’m alone at home and I know I have no guests I’m Greta, if I’m at work or I have guests at home I’m Greta dressed in unisex clothing outwardly like Mr. Antonio but wearing my women’s underwear of course.

      XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
      Greta ❤️

    • #723010
      Terri Anne
      Ambassador

      Hello Leslee,

      ** Please Excuse the lateness  of this response to your post **

      Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

      The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM).  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

      Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.

      ****** https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

      Regards,

      ******

      Terri Anne, Ambassador

      ======= Link to our Public Chat Room   =========

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/chat/

    • #723108
      Liara Wolfe
      Duchess

      Welcome to CDH.

      Hugs, Liara

    • #723134

      Welcome Leslee it’s nice having you at CDH!!

       

      PS just love that Amish country in Pennsylvania the food is sinful and deadly for these hips lol

       

      Kandace

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