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    • #777593

      I’m a new member here after having followed the site for several years.

      I’m married and with kids and as such, very much in the closets. Seeing myself as a crossdresser but do wonder every so often if I’m more than so.

      As wife is gone for 1.5 weeks and kids have left the house I have some time to be Vicky. I have not touched male clothes for quite a few days and it feels good. Tucking is good and the girls are glued on. Two piercings in left and one in the right has been done. These will heal up in 2-3 days, time before wife is back. Painted nails and simple make up. In other words, the full package.

      The first days when doing this I’m all speeded up and keep changing clothes etc every so often but after third or fourth day there’s a calm entering. Clothes stays casual but very feminine. Earrings are smaller but still so I can feel them swaying. It just feels right and as it should be. Tucking and boobs being there is just the way it should be.

      Sitting and working (from home) is going just fine and again, it’s this peace that comes when seeing my painted nails clicking the keyboard.

      Could be a pink fog but I’m not sure it is. There’s more to it.

      I’m at ease and I like it!

      Thanks for listening.

    • #777595

      Hi Vicky

      Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family.
      It’s a pleasure to meet you here.
      You are in a place where it is really difficult to feel alone and abandoned, you will be able to find all the “sisterhood” you need.
      Here you can exchange good opinions and information and find support to move forward in your female adventure.
      Here you can have fun participating in forums, polls and questionnaires.
      Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm hug.

      I’m Greta, I’m a 57 year old CD/TG person who is living with extreme happiness the choice to undergo hormone replacement therapy; my life has been complicated for too long by having to hide my gender identity… not that it’s easier now, but at least I’ve happily taken possession of my way of being.
      When I’m alone at home or at work or I know I don’t have LGBTQ+phobic guests, I’m Greta and I live my femininity freely, but if I’m elsewhere in places where I know I’m surrounded by dull and ignorant people I’m dressed in unisex clothes but of course I’m wearing my women’s underwear.

      XOXO from Italy 🇮🇹
      Greta ❤️💙❤️

    • #777596
      Ellie Davis
      Managing Ambassador

      Hey Vicky

      It sounds like you’re having a whale of a time while your wife’s away 🙂

      Pink fog or something more? Time will tell. Whatever it is, it sounds like fun!

      A proper welcome to CDH seems to be in order. So … hello! You’ll already have picked up that this is a wonderful, supportive community. Now that you’ve ‘formally’ joined you’ll get the opportunity to experience that first hand.

      I’ve been a member for a few months now. I think it’s a fabulous place.

      I hope you love it here as much as I do.

      Hugs

      Ellie x

    • #777613

      Hi Vicky,

      Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy Vicky time for the next 1.5 weeks.

      Alice

    • #777616
      Lizzie
      Lady

      Hi Vicky
      Very well written. Like probably 90% of the girls here I appreciate and relate to every feeling you described. Having a block of time to transform and relax enough to enjoy those feelings is so much better than rushing through it with a stolen hour or two. Enjoy your freedom while you can. Good luck wherever it leads.
      Lizzie

    • #777617

      Thanks for the nice welcoming and comments.

      It was fun this morning. It took more than an hour to get ready. It was shaving (just face), shower with all the different soaps, lotions, do make up, get dressed, change earrings etc. It was non-stop but fun, relaxing and so natural.

    • #777625
      Anonymous

      Welcome to CDH Vicky. You have joined a wonderful community of like mined girls. I am so glad you are embracing your feminine side. Sounds like you really enjoyed your feminine time. This is a wonderful supportive place. You will make many friends, take advantage to all the wonderful things at the site.

      Hugs Julie.

    • #777691

      Hello Vicky welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are. Having found us you have made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or levels of closeted dressing or underdressing or public expression and or personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression from differing levels of crossdressing to those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of self acceptance and expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or space were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are that you are not alone and this is a place where you can feel safe to express and share part of yourself as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, a man who dresses as a woman, if it makes you a better complete human being expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. For some it means remaining private for some telling a select few ultimately you have to do whats best for your own situation and you ultimately know best. I appreciate you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. Being here helps not only yourself but helps others gain acceptance and confidence in themselves. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!

      Hugs April

    • #777710

      Hi Vicky welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family,

      I’m a mature crossdresser I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on I’m still in the closet to my wife and family,

      I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee I’m in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I’m sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X

      Hugs Rozalyn X

    • #777729

      Welcome, Vicky…you’re going to LOVE it here….new friends to make, all supportive and helpful, if and when you need it. We’ve all been where you are now, I for sure, know I have….doesn’t even have to be so many days (I’m so jealous, by the way…!!!)…I’ll take ONE day, a weekend….a few hours, even, as long as I have the privacy to make my transformation to “Tiny”, then back “to a pumpkin”…this makes me happy and I’ll take whatever I can get…!!! Enjoy your time here as you navigate and explore all there is to offer…I find that Forums and Polls are just 2 ways to get started with interacting in the group…!!!

    • #777768

      Hi Vicky,

      Welcome to CDH!  Enjoy!

    • #777995
      Terri Anne
      Duchess

      Hello Vicky,

      Hello Amelia,

      Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

      The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM).  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

      Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.

      ****** https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

    • #778295

      Hi Vicki nice meeting you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Ok Vicky please forgive me for the late welcome as was out of town doing the doctor thing but home now so please look around and read some of the forums and posts from so many wonderful ladies here .. As you get comfortable with us join in with a story or two about the life and times of Vicki as she travels down her own girly path in life .. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better.. Thanks again girlfriend and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

      Stephanie Bass

    • #778366
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador

      Vicky

      welcome. This is a beautiful place to be if your new to  this wonderful world. Meet many of our ladies who are always willing to offer their help and advice to help you be better understand this amazing feelings . Just ask your questions and many are happy to offer their help. To dress is such an exhilarating  experience and so much fun when you can share it with others . Enjoy your time here and know your among friends who really do care about each other and who we are.  Hugs

       

      Stephanie..

       

       

       

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