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My husband and I are bisexual.
He just recently came to me confessing he likes to wear panties. I’ve know for awhile. I’ve never been a girlie girl, so my fancy panties are limited. I could tell they were being worn and put back(our adult children are out of the house). Hey, at least someone is getting use of them.
We have been married for almost 29yrs. Have two beautiful daughters and three grandchildren.
Been though a lot of shit!! Hubby had a daughter from old GF prior to us getting married. He left it up to me if we would have her in our family. I said yes, of course. Not the child’s fault. There was no discussion of child support, she was his – he supported her. Fast forward 5-6 years. He gets full custody w/o child service help. A year later she asked me to adopt her. I never tried or will replace her mom. So I’m Mum. Wait a year and I get diagnosed with MS. It has attacked me cognitive wise. Doing anything with numbers…. NOT anymore. There went my F/T job at the bank w/family medical. Applied, got denied, appealed and won my SSD. If I could I’d be off of it in a NY minute and work again. He was working F/T and I became that PTO Mom. It was nice to be so involved with my girls. They were 7 & 9, respectively when I stopped working. Then with parents dying and grandchildren coming…. things have settled.
Like I said I have no problem with what he wears to bed or under his pants. He does his own laundry. He’s still my husband.
Welcome to the both of you. Life certainly isn’t fair and you have had your share. Wonderful that you have joined us and many here will be happy to make you feel most comfortable. Understanding your husband and his feelings is special and I hope he relizies it . With many years of marriage and a very complicated life you deserve a moment of ease and here I hope you will. Yes he’s still your husband and you are still his spouse, a strong relationship does make a difference . Enjoy your time here and the best to you both .
Stephanie 🌹
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Hi My Kate,
Welcome to the site! I’m glad to see bisexual folks here. My partner Joan and I are pansexual. They’re always raiding my closet and sometimes I raid theirs too, ha ha! I didn’t flinch or waver my love when they came out as a non-binary person last year. Made sense really. Their gender has little to do with my love for them. It was the same they gave me four years ago when I transitioned. Marriage can be a wonderfully steadfast experience. I’m happy you and your hubby found ways to keep the love going!
How have you both handled your MS diagnosis? You said you lost your work health insurance and job. I’m sure that’s super tough! Joan has fibromyalgia and is barely able to work from home. She spends much of her time at home in the bathtub trying to lessen their pain. Chronic illness is a bitch! If you ever need someone to talk to drop me a line.
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