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    • #413038
      Registered On: February 20, 2020
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      Sweetie you are not the only one.I have found this place to be caring and supportive…and I’ll bet that’s just what you need. Reach out anytime if you want to chat.

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      Kitty Van Curen
      Registered On: November 3, 2020
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      Hi! Welcome and I hope you get something from this. I’m here for chat or questions if ever you like!

      Have a fun day!

      x KVC x

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      Michelle Newman
      Registered On: June 22, 2017
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      Welcome Blyth!

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      Samantha Roarke
      Registered On: April 17, 2019
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      Hi, hello, and welcome to Crossdresser Heaven! You have just arrived at the best and greatest CD site on the web! CDH has tons of very helpful crossdressing information, tips, and support from real people just like you! We highly encourage new CDH members to ask questions no matter how trivial you think they may be, as we are happy to answer to the best of our ability. We also love a well written profile, this helps everyone to get to know you better as the beautiful woman you are! We hope that you enjoy your stay here at CDH, as we are happy to have you as a part of our wonderful community.

      Thank you, Samantha Roarke

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      Shana Mac
      Registered On: November 4, 2020
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      There is no tyranny in the state of confusion lol.

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      Paula F
      Registered On: August 7, 2019
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      Hello Blyth and welcome to our home site.  Relax and don’t rush to figure it all out in one night or one week.  Take your time reading, ask questions, join the threads, and it just may work everything, or most everything, out for you to know what is happening with you.


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    • #408138
      Jamie Kane
      Registered On: November 9, 2020
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      Hi Blyth! This is the best place to be right now. Read the posts ask questions and soon you won’t feel so out of place.

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    • #408134
      Nancy Holly
      Registered On: September 1, 2019
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      It is okay to be confused.  I have been dressing up for over 50 years. Someday I a still confused. These wonderful ladies here can and will help you.  Love to chat anytime, Hugs Nancy

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      Alice Underwire
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Blyth,
      Welcome to CDH.


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      Rachel McFadden
      Registered On: November 13, 2020
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      Hi Blyth, welcome from someone else in the UK who hasn’t been here long.

      I don’t think I can add much on top of what the others have said but, honestly, I’ve found the simple act of joining this site, making a public admission (of sorts) and reading what others have said and have gone through is a great help in formulating my own thoughts and feelings.

      I sincerely hope you find what you are looking for.


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    • #407992
      Registered On: April 30, 2016
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      Hello and welcome Blyth! Don’t ever feel alone in the confused and befuddled mindset. We have all been there/ are there/ going to be there, at some point. This is a fantastic place to get your questions answered or share thoughts. Someone here will definitely have an answer for you. Feel free to reach out via PM if you’d like. We don’t bite (well most of us) 😇

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      Victoria Jones
      Registered On: November 2, 2020
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      Hello Blyth:

      You sound exactly as I did just a coupe of weeks ago when I first found CDH.  I am still trying to piece it all together but I can promise you that all of us are here to help support each other.  I too use fantasy as a way to cope and grow.  Have courage – it does get better;  not easy – never easy – but with the ladies here it is a bit better each time I engage.

      I am always available as another new member of the community if you would like to visit.


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    • #407946
      Robyn Devine
      Registered On: October 24, 2020
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      Hi Blyth!

      Welcome to CDH!  You’ve come to the right place.  We’ve all been a bit confused, and by coming here your definitely not alone.  Plenty of great girls to interact with.  Soon you’ll be able to start untangling all that confusion.  Best wishes!

      xo – Robyn

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      Cindy Lou
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      Registered On: November 18, 2020
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      Confused and befuddled? Who isn’t? Hopefully we can all help each other fill in the blanks be a little less confused. Welcome to the site from somebody who also joined today.

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    • #407935
      Registered On: December 21, 2017
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      Hi Blyth


      Always nice t welcome another UK girl. I think the best approach for you is to study this site ad read the articles, it will help get your mind working and perhaps start to open the door to understanding yourself. But be prepared for a long journey, as once you start to understand you will have to prepare your self to actually accept who you are, the whole you, sounds simple but as Rei says as soon as you answer one question another will appear! Good luck, you will find lots of help and support here, so don’t be afraid to ask any questions you may have……..

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      Rei Durden
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      Registered On: October 11, 2020
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      Hi Blyth.

      You’re surely here for some answers and you’ve arrived in a great place.

      However, each answer gives rise to another question so be prepared for some deep diving.

      Take the time and invest in yourself, we’ve all been confused in one way or another.


      Best wishes, Rei

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    • #407855
      Stephanie Roberts
      Registered On: May 20, 2020
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      Hi and welcome Blyth!!! I hope you find what you’re looking for.

      Stephanie ❤️

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    • #407852
      Teralynn Loving
      Registered On: October 17, 2019
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      Hi Blyth, Teralynn here. Welcome to our wonderful online. Your decision to join us here was a wise one for we are famous for un befuddling the befuddled crossdressing person. Stick around, stay active on the site, read some posts, read some articles, get to know some of our wonderful members and make some friends. Before you know it you will wonder where your befuddlement went. If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall or a private message will get the fastest response. – Blessings

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    • #407846
      Stevie Steiner
      Registered On: June 11, 2020
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      So…. hello back to you Blyth!  Welcome to CDH, you can pretty well start kissing that confusion good bye!   Prepare to be un-fuddled in the company of the ladies here.  I loved your sentence to be honest, I don’t know….  A great attitude to have.  There is so much here to help one in knowing and understanding, and when we are honest with ourselves understanding comes quicker and life is so much better.  Please settle in and know you are in sincere and safe place!

      Happy to meet you Blyth!!



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      Jessica James
      Registered On: July 10, 2019
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      Hi Blyth,

      Welcome, it is nice to see another girl from the U.K. on here.  I am sure a lot of people here have felt the same way as you, however there is lots of support and friendship here, and no one will judge you.

      I am happy to keep in touch, please feel free to message me and I will try and help if I can.


    • #407842
      Stephanie Flowers
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Blyth… well you certainly came to the right place. Confusions in understanding what this means is experience from many who first arrive here. Browse through our site, chat with some of our very helpful and friendly girls here and receive their advice and most of support  in what your feeling right now. Like our girls here have already  mentioned help and support is just a click  away. Ask your questions  and many will be willing to give their advice to help you understand more of what’s happening. In time things should start to become clearer and then enjoy your journey with us by your side. Happy to meet you and welcome….

      Stephanie 🌹

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