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- October 4, 2022 at 6:53 pm #681272
Hi everyone.
My name is Ellie from Australia.
I am 61 years old and married to a beautiful lady and we have a son.
My wife is perffetly fine with my crossdressing and we regularly shop for clothes with her allowing me to try them on in store.
Recently my wife has been telling me to come out to my son who is a gym junkie tradie with a shaved head so I was a bit worried to say the least. Anyway I neednt have bothered as he was brilliant. He said “You can wear what you like dad I dont care you are a really nice person so I dont care what you wear”. I nearly cried with relief.
To put htis in context though – he has seen me wearing sarongs and plain skirts for many years but not anything other than that but in the last 2 weeks since I told him I have been wearing feminine skirts/dresses and high heeled sandals and painted toe nails. He hasnt commented either way. Which is fine by me. At least he isnt hiding in his room when I dress like that.
After telling my son I told the rest of my family who are overseas and on a recent whatsapp call everything was fine. I was wearing a skirt/blouse with high heels (No wig) and I mught as well have been wearing jeans and a T shirt as no one mentioned anything.
Finally – I told a couple of my neighbours and they were also fine with it and one couple want Ellie to come over for dinner.
So now – if your still with me – Life is great, I can dress as Ellie when I like or tone it down during the day without wig/boobs.
I can sit out the front of my house or on the balcony dressed as Ellie and my wife is perfectly fine with it and even joins me for a glass of wine or a G&T.
She has also mentioned she is open to going shopping as two girls and even mentioned that she might invite me to the next girls movie night with the girls from her work. That would be cool.
Anyway – Thats Ellie
Hugs from Australia
- October 4, 2022 at 7:08 pm #681275
Hi Ellie,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
- October 4, 2022 at 7:17 pm #681276
God bless you and your family – you are really blessed with all that support, and the support continues on CDH!
Hugs and Kisses,
Fredrika Jones - October 4, 2022 at 7:40 pm #681278
Hi Ellie nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. Well girlfriend as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. There is so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies telling there stories about there journeys down there femme path in life.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Ellie as she travels down her own girly path in life .. So as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all is we all are just a simple click away.. Please do us a small favor girlfriend return to your profile page and fill in some more as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. And again nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
- October 4, 2022 at 8:27 pm #681291
Hi Stephanie. I have updated my profile as requested. Looks like its going to be fun on here.
Ive just come over from Crossdressers.com but this seems a much livlier place.
- October 5, 2022 at 6:18 pm #681447
Ellie thank you and girl it was just a suggestion not a request im sorry if it sounded that way hope all is well and having fun so far big hugs ..
Stephanie
- October 4, 2022 at 8:24 pm #681288
Hi Ellie
welcome to this amazing place
Paula From Melbourne
- October 4, 2022 at 8:26 pm #681290
Hey, Another Aussie girl…..Hi from Perth.
- October 4, 2022 at 8:26 pm #681289
Hi Ellie, welcome to our site, and like you I have this freedom. A blessing as you have probably purged as well. A weekend trip with the love of your life really lights up your day.
Best Wishes
Jane- October 4, 2022 at 8:30 pm #681293
Not much purging – Our walk in wardrobe is overflowing with clothes. My wife and I are shopper junkies. We love our trips out.
- October 4, 2022 at 8:44 pm #681294
Hi Ellie, and welcome. It sounds as if you have a very understanding family, which is the best of all worlds for those of us who wish to explore and enjoy our femmine side. When I resumed crossdressing about five years ago I told my wife right up front. She was concerned about what our three grown sons would think so I told them. And in a way similar to your son’s reaction they really weren’t concerned. It vwas best expressed by one son who said, “If the old man wants to wear a dress at his age who are we to say he can’t”! I look forward to hearing more about your adventures. Hugs, Paulette
- October 5, 2022 at 12:27 am #681302
- October 5, 2022 at 1:43 am #681310
Hi Ellie welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, wow it must be great to be accepted by so many people, I’m a mature crossdresser too but I’m a bit older than you, I’m still in the closet to my wife and family, I’m not sure what their reaction would be if i came out to them, I’m sorry i can’t meet up and go for a coffee ☕ with all the girls I’m on the other side of the world in the UK,
Hugs Rozalyn X 💋
- October 5, 2022 at 4:18 am #681326
Hi Ellie! What a relief you must have felt. That is so wonderful that you can be who you authentically are, without needing to hade any of it. I’m envious!
Take care girl
Tara
- October 5, 2022 at 5:57 am #681339
G’day Ellie, and welcome to CDH!
So great to see another Aussie girl join this wonderful community.
It’s really great to see you have such great support from your family and friends.
I really hope you enjoy your time here on CDH.
Love and hugs from Stephanie from Adelaide, South Australia ❤️ - October 5, 2022 at 9:40 am #681380
Hi Ellie,
What a fascinating story! I recently came out to my wife and though at first she was somewhat shocked, over time she has become quite accepting, curioys, and sometimes impressed by my taste in fashion.You are so pretty. Yoh Aussie girls are all so foxy!
Hugs,
Cindy - October 5, 2022 at 12:16 pm #681396
Welcome Ellie, to this Heavenly address of wonderful friendly and supportive people, from another Oz CDer.
- October 5, 2022 at 1:22 pm #681406
Hello Ellie
It’s nice to meet you and welcome to CDH looking forward to chatting sometime.
Sarah xx - October 5, 2022 at 2:01 pm #681409Anonymous
Hi Ellie,
It looks like you have a totally supportive wife and family. I am so happy for you. Please enjoy the pleasures of your femme life and tell us about it now and then.
Kerri
- October 5, 2022 at 3:29 pm #681421Anonymous
I am full girl 👧 since I was 9 till now at 62 and I have been enjoying it. Well congratulations sounds like you are doing good and can be who you are. We are glad to have you welcome to the site
- October 5, 2022 at 5:03 pm #681444
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Hi Tara, yes its very uplifting to know you can be who you always wanted to be but there is always a downside. I am now 61 and can see the years in my face. I am having trouble coming to terms with the vanity of females as in male mode I wasnt bothered with wrinkles but as Ellie its devastating.I could look back and say I wished Id done this earlier but youve got to look forwards not back and dream of all the shopping days and outings in the future. Most of which will be posted here.
Take care and stay safe
Hugs
Ellie
- October 6, 2022 at 4:15 am #681495
Hi Ellie,
Welcome to CDH!
What a delight to have all that support from your family. So glad to hear it!
Now you have even more from the girls here.Hugs,
💕Lara
- October 6, 2022 at 6:30 am #681505
Hi Ellie
Sounds like you are living your best life with love and support from those around you and it’s good to see someone else from Perth on here I hope we can chat soon
Ruby
- October 6, 2022 at 1:09 pm #681569
Welcome to CDH Ellie. I am glad to hear about all the great support you have received from everyone and your wife sounds like a special lady – go buy her a dozen roses immediately, she deserves it!
- October 5, 2022 at 7:47 pm #681461
Ha Ha your welcome Sam..
Stephanie
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