- April 24, 2022 at 12:23 pm #640960Anna DivaParticipantRegistered On: April 20, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 8Has thanked: 17 timesBeen thanked: 39 times
Hello everyone, I really need help i am not sure i know what’s going on with me i am married 53 years old, I love women cloth and I do wear them whenever I have chance while i am alone.
i do shave my body often i love feeling my skin soft and smooth whenever i can get away with it.
i feel a women trapped in me most of the time, i am all alone with it, i am looking for advice and friends.
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- April 26, 2022 at 10:50 am #641455Terri AnneAmbassadorRegistered On: February 7, 2018Topics: 32Replies: 1287Has thanked: 1907 timesBeen thanked: 2788 times
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- April 25, 2022 at 1:46 pm #641245
- April 25, 2022 at 6:51 am #641118Stephanie FlowersAmbassadorRegistered On: June 26, 2017Topics: 35Replies: 6372Has thanked: 12802 timesBeen thanked: 13226 times
Anna Welcome to Cdh. Here you can enjoy the company of many like yourself expressing their femininity for all to see. Meet with, talk with and with some devolope wonderful friendships. A place of support and understanding for all that passes. Nice meeting you and looking forward to seeing you here soon..
- April 25, 2022 at 10:23 am #641193
- April 25, 2022 at 3:54 am #641082Chrissy SimpsonDuchess - AnnualRegistered On: January 14, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 287Has thanked: 1670 timesBeen thanked: 874 times
Hello Anna and welcome. First off there is nothing wrong with you. Rest assured around 2% of the population of men are in this category. So welcome to being part of the 2%. LOL
To quote something I read recently “Men who crossdress get many different satisfactions from dressing in women’s clothing. Their motivation also varies. Some crossdress because they feel their female side is beautiful and want to express it. Others do so because it brings them pleasure or relaxation. The reasons vary, but there are many similarities between the men who dress up as women. Crossdressing is a way for men to release their emotions and express themselves. They get satisfaction from the look, feel and smell of women’s clothes. Many enjoy feeling beautiful, while others are aroused by it.”
I am sure this is not all inclusive of every reason but may help you explain some of the things you are feeling.
Read the forums and you will find there is a lot to take in. Make some friends and enjoy the site.
- April 25, 2022 at 10:25 am #641194
- April 25, 2022 at 4:06 am #641090Jane MansfieldLadyRegistered On: December 27, 2020Topics: 4Replies: 320Has thanked: 644 timesBeen thanked: 1104 times
Hi Chrissy, certainly your comments are relevant to me. When a young boy I was astounded how beautiful My mum looked. She wad an airline stewardess. So I wanted to see what that looked like.
For some it is a sexual thing, others it is their whole being.
The makeup, clothing, which drives them. Sometimes it is about becoming a woman totally, and in between.
When you find your place, be assured you will feel comfort and be at ease.
It is a difficult journey.
- April 25, 2022 at 4:13 am #641093Chrissy SimpsonDuchess - AnnualRegistered On: January 14, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 287Has thanked: 1670 timesBeen thanked: 874 times
- April 25, 2022 at 4:20 am #641096Jane MansfieldLadyRegistered On: December 27, 2020Topics: 4Replies: 320Has thanked: 644 timesBeen thanked: 1104 times
Hi Chrissy, yes, so true, and when you embark on your travels enfemme, with a supportive wife ,SO, this becomes a shared experience. More fulfilling.
Cooler weather in tasmania now, winter, about 5 weeks away.
Enjiy your life Chrissy
- April 24, 2022 at 9:34 pm #641035Lara TuckerLadyRegistered On: September 29, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 1075Has thanked: 23739 timesBeen thanked: 3818 times
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- April 24, 2022 at 7:59 pm #641016Julie (Jules) AndersonDuchessRegistered On: February 9, 2021Topics: 3Replies: 134Has thanked: 210 timesBeen thanked: 626 times
Hi Anna, we humans come in many variations of complexity, so you are not unique.
First, please know that hundreds of thousands, if not millions living and past who walked this earth before you have your same feeling and desires. I’ve read where 1 in 300 men CD. So you are not alone. Nor do you need fixing.
You just need to find your authentic self. Then you need to love that authentic part of you, and hopefully learn to love ALL of you.
Read, meditate, seek a counselor based in spirituality and sexuality.
And May I suggest goggling “Vanished Twins”?
Remember, in this life everyone is where they should be. God, however defined, makes no mistakes. Bless you, ALL of you!
- April 24, 2022 at 7:20 pm #641009Evan NineDuchessRegistered On: March 19, 2022Topics: 2Replies: 22Has thanked: 280 timesBeen thanked: 92 times
Hi Anna, your story is exactly like mine currently. I have reached out and just started therapy, I too am struggling to understand it all.
The girls here are great, reach out you will get support. Therapy is a must for me so you might want to consider that if you think it is needed.
Wishing you the best.
- April 24, 2022 at 6:51 pm #641004AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
Welcome, Anna. You’ve certainly come to the right place for advice and friends. The ladies here are very supportive. Whatever you’re experiencing, there are probably girls here who have gone through something similar. Post about specific questions or concerns in the forum and wait for replies.
- April 24, 2022 at 4:38 pm #640987Alice UnderwireLadyRegistered On: September 16, 2019Topics: 95Replies: 5400Has thanked: 7469 timesBeen thanked: 13900 times
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- April 24, 2022 at 3:40 pm #640984LadyRegistered On: December 27, 2020Topics: 4Replies: 320Has thanked: 644 timesBeen thanked: 1104 times
Welcome Anna, being alone for us is usual, although in CdH, we are with you in this format.
A beautiful feelinf to dres enfemme smooth skin, favourite attire.
Perhaps in time you will meet people close by who you can have coffee or dinner with.
In the meantime, read the forums, tell us what you are doing. Live life.
- April 24, 2022 at 4:56 pm #640995
- April 24, 2022 at 3:02 pm #640982Stephanie BassHostessRegistered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 25Replies: 3915Has thanked: 56087 timesBeen thanked: 13851 times
Hi Anna nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. Well girlfriend as a new sister and family member here you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in the forums with some comments to these ladies here telling there stories about there travels down there femme road in life.. Then Anna your turn ha ha just a story or two about the life and times of Anna as she embarks on her girly travels as the woman she is in her heart .. There is a wealth of knowledge here to tap into so go ahead girl tap away .. As for making friends here there are so many ladies here from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with.. Again nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime..
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- April 24, 2022 at 1:10 pm #640968Christina IsmeLadyRegistered On: April 8, 2022Topics: 0Replies: 404Has thanked: 416 timesBeen thanked: 1194 times
Yes it can be hard to understand the question do your wife know because it can be difficult to be you if she doesn’t know. My wife met me while I was dressed so she always knew she passed away a few years ago I still think of her and thank her for her understanding. I understand it can be difficult for some people. Talk with the people in site and they can fill you in on things that may help welcome to the site
- April 24, 2022 at 1:04 pm #640966Tara RyanLadyRegistered On: April 20, 2021Topics: 4Replies: 524Has thanked: 1787 timesBeen thanked: 1954 times
Welcome, it is nice to meet you. Try not to worry, there is a lot of help and support here and I hope you make lots of friends.
I am always happy to chat and help and support if I can, please feel free to message me anytime.
- April 24, 2022 at 1:10 pm #640967
- April 24, 2022 at 12:37 pm #640961Paulette ParfoisDuchessRegistered On: November 17, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 555Has thanked: 1879 timesBeen thanked: 2115 times
Hi Anna, I understand the dilemma you are in trying to understand your feelings. The only advice I have is dont take anyone’s advice on who you are and where you are going. Only you can decide that. However, if you feel that you might be trans it might be good to get some professional consuling to help you sort through things. There are so many reasons why we enjoy dressing, from merely the erotic to wanting to truly become a woman, I doubt if there is such a thing as a ‘one-size-fits-all solution. All I can say is enjoy the journey and be who you really feel you are! Hugs, Paulette
- April 24, 2022 at 12:40 pm #640963
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