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    • #725763

      So about me…

      Well I’m 57, I’m married but I’ve been actively bisexual for over 30 years. Apart from the occasional thought over the years that it might be fun to wear a skirt sometimes, I’d never cross-dressed until late last year (with one exception – when I was 20 my girlfriend dressed me for a fancy dress party, and I certainly felt good but it never caused me to act on that or take it any further).

      Late last year, on an impulse, I began to wear women’s underwear. That quickly led me to buying a couple of skirts, and the night I was brave enough to venture out in one I was in a hotel and I wore it down to the bar. Emboldened, I ventured out to a pub that same night, and this immediately gave me the confidence that it was OK to do this, and more importantly that it felt fantastic!

      I signed up for a full makeover , I loved the results and I quickly learn how I like to look, and I now have a full wardrobe and last night went out in central London in fully dressed mode with breastplate, wig, low cut blouse and short skirt and it felt wonderful. To be honest I’ve surprised myself with how confident I have become so quickly, but loving the journey…

    • #725766

      Hi Claire, and welcome. There is a very diverse community here at CDH where I have been able to make many new friends and share my experiences with. I am happy to hear you are very comfortable being ‘out and about’. Many of my friends are not, which is why I am working on a program to help them (and others) gain the confidence to go out in public and enjoy themselves. I live in Arizona, but had offices in London (Knightsbridge and Haymarket) for several years. I only wish I had actively been crossdressing then, since I have learned what a vibrant community exists there. I look forward to seeing some photos and hearing more about your ‘adventure’. Hugs, Paulette

    • #725797
      Terri Anne

      Hello Claire,

      Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

      The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM).  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

      Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.



      Terri Anne, Ambassador

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    • #725804

      Hi Claire welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, I’m a mature crossdresser too I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on, I’m a UK girl too I’m up in Shropshire, there are lots of girls on here from beginner’s to full time girls who dress 👗 24/7 we don’t judge anyone on here it’s a safe place for everyone, I’m Bi too X 🎀

      Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

    • #725837

      Hi Claire,

      Welcome to CDH.


    • #725862

      Hello Claire welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are in your background and found us and made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or public expression and or level of personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression or those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of acceptance and self expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or world were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are; as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, or expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. Being here helps not only yourself but helps others gain acceptance and confidence I am happy you have made the step to be here. Sounds like you have had positive time being out in public already thats great!

      Hugs April

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      Stephanie Flowers

      Claire welcome. Explore this wonderful place and when ready come out and meet many of our beautiful ladies and know your among friends. Hope to see you around here soon .


      Stephanie  🌷


    • #726245

      Woo-hoo! CDs of London! Woo-hooooo! (apologies to Warren Zevon…or should I apologize? You know, there might be a market for a “Alice Yankovic —- or Alice Sherman to my generation —- doing CD oriented song parodies…something to think about…now, where was I? Oh, yes.)

      Welcome, Claire.
      Hugs & kisses,

    • #729206

      Hi Claire nice to meet you and sorry i have been away for a bit and missed when you joined so i will give you my welcome now . So happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. You know girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. With such a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here as they tell there stories abour there journeys down the femme road they are on..  Then girl when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Claire as she travels down her own girly path in  life.. Now girlfriend as for making friends here there are so many ladies here from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girl we are just a simple click away ..  Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

      Stephanie Bass

    • #729256

      Hi Claire
      Welcome to CdH from another UK girl living in the South West.
      Mature secret crossdresser who has been crossdressing on and off since my teens, purged many times.
      Enjoy the site.

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