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Hello everyone I’m a heterosexual male who has crossdressed during private intimate moments. I am very torn because I’ve hidden it from everyone, I want to be open with my wife but I’m afraid she will think I’m homosexual and leave. I really am heterosexual I like the feeling of doing something taboo and to be honest I like the feminine feeling I feel sexy. I would love advice and help from people who know what I’m going through
Hi CJ welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, I’m a mature crossdresser I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on I’m still in the closet too, I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I’m on the other side of the pond in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I’m sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X 🎀
Hugs Rozalyn X 💋
Hi Cj
Same basic boat here. Hang in there. I bought a woman’s top as light sweater and when it was finally washed and pointed out my wife pulled out 4 or 5 similar things that she never wore and gave them to me. I wore them as much as possible. I did at one point specifically say I like girly clothes.
Same with pants. I showed her a pair of skinny jeans I bought that were women’s. They are the perfect length which I can’t ever get in men’s. She pulled out several pairs of women’s jeans and pants for me that she never wore or were too tight. They fit me perfectly. She joked about us sharing clothes ….but not her underwear.
I missed my chance to say i already have my own. The moral of the story is I would probably be ok if I blurt it out. Or I think I’ve become careless enough that I could be caught. If any of this helps feel free to copy.
LizzieHi CJ!
You have friends right here in Georgia, as well as all over the U.S. and around the world!
Welcome to CDH!
I am Peggy Sue, and I live in Marietta, Georgia. Let me know if I can answer any questions for you? We have a local support group that meets weekly in Cobb county, but I realize that would be a long drive for you from Braselton.
I am sending you a friend request and would be honored if you would accept it.
Hugs…Peggy Sue
Hi CJ nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girlfriend there is a wealth of knowledge her to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of CJ as she travels down her own girly path in life.. As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are just a simple click away from you.. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better .. Once again girlfriend nice to mee you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Hello Cj … welcome to CDH from another new member (in the UK) … there are some useful articles by SOs on the site which may help you reflect on what might go through your wife’s head if she knew … it took me 16 years before I could tell me wife … and mainly happened because I was traumatised by the serious illness and subsequent passing of my mother … personally I could not keep it a secret any longer (this was in 1995) and she was supportive but quite surprised at first … I suggest taking small steps in your CD and there is plenty of good advice on CDH to help you …
Adrienne xx.Hello CJ,
I know exactly what you are talking about. All I can tell you is that talking with my wife was the best thing for us. Yes, she did ask those questions about my sexuality, but as long as you are upfront and honest, things should work out.
Jessica
CJ
welcome , it’s wonderful that you have joined our family. We’re always happy to help our new girls and offer our advice and tips and were here to chat about anything you have on your mind. Sharing experiences is so helpful and fun to explore more as you get comfortable with being here. Very nice meeting you and look forward to seeing you here soon.
Stephanie 🌹
Hi CJ,
The more you research, the more you will see that most crossdressers are not homosexual. We usually come in “straight” or “bi” flavours, and there’s also the eventual trans girl among us. Soon you will feel welcome here like I have. Most importantly, trust your instincts! There is more misinformation than information these days, so my main tip is: hang out here, not on Reddit lol
Peace, love, and empathy,
-G.
I am a hetero CD and my wife is my biggest supporter, in my crossdressing and every other aspect of my life. I feel like the you have to be honest with the most important person in your life. If she is not accepting then you have a decision to make. What’s more important, being with someone who is not accepting, or being yourself. That’s just my opinion, don’t gamble your marriage or your life on my thoughts.
Hello CJ,
Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.
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