- July 29, 2021 at 4:38 pm #524705Samara WilsonParticipantRegistered On: July 29, 2021Topics: 12Replies: 344Has thanked: 1132 timesBeen thanked: 1092 times
Just wanted to say hi to everybody. I have been reading the forums recently and decided to become a member. I haven’t been dressing long, but the urge has come over me a lot more in the last couple of months. Everybody on this site seems very nice and welcoming.
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- July 31, 2021 at 7:43 am #525376Vickie SteelLadyRegistered On: July 31, 2021Topics: 0Replies: 1Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 4 times
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I see from your profile that our experiences began in very similar ways. (And that probably goes for a great many of us here.) The cycle of buying/wearing/guilt/purging is one I have gone through so many times I lost count. But we are getting there. Better late than never!
- July 31, 2021 at 7:43 am #525375Samara WilsonBaronessRegistered On: July 29, 2021Topics: 12Replies: 344Has thanked: 1132 timesBeen thanked: 1092 times
Yes, better late than never descibes it perfectly. So many of us have purged. It is better to just put the clothes away for a while, then when we want to go back it it, they will be there. I know I have wasted plenty of money in the past, haha.
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- July 30, 2021 at 10:21 am #524993Terri AnneAmbassadorRegistered On: February 7, 2018Topics: 32Replies: 529Has thanked: 1089 timesBeen thanked: 975 times
Hi Samara ,
Welcome to our amazing site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore to your heart’s content.
The warmth and hospitality of our community is just awesome.
Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on our site.
At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages. You can find the link on each member’s Profile page.
Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.
Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each.
Terri Anne, Ambassador
- July 30, 2021 at 9:50 am #524984Jessica CharmsLadyRegistered On: May 6, 2021Topics: 18Replies: 106Has thanked: 229 timesBeen thanked: 476 times
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- July 30, 2021 at 9:29 am #524975Michelle McQueenLadyRegistered On: June 14, 2021Topics: 12Replies: 404Has thanked: 1511 timesBeen thanked: 1963 times
Welcome Samara to the hen party. We are all sisters here and understand what it takes to be who we are so we sympathize and support each other. It seems most of the world is against us but this site is correctly named CROSSDRESSER HEAVEN.
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Welcome Samara, hope you enjoy cdh as much as I do, being able to talk to such kind and considerate people is priceless, I joined cdh 3 months ago. I wish I had found cdh years ago and not have to have kept my crossdressing a secret for over 60 years,
- July 30, 2021 at 4:27 am #524891BaronessRegistered On: July 29, 2021Topics: 12Replies: 344Has thanked: 1132 timesBeen thanked: 1092 times
Thank you very much, Alana! I am really enjoying it, also. I wish I would have started earlier too. I dabbled a tiny bit several years ago, but have gotten a lot more into it lately. This site is fantastic! Hugs!
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- July 29, 2021 at 7:14 pm #524804Valerie FisherDuchessRegistered On: July 6, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 81Has thanked: 260 timesBeen thanked: 278 times
My sisters here have already said what a safe an open-armed kind of place this is, and it’s so true! There’s NOTHING you or I can discuss here that will make you feel like you’re being judged. This is a place of care and kindness, and understanding!
We’ve ALL arrived here from different situations and different perspectives. And everyone has a different story! The NICE part is, you can finally express what you FEEL. ALL of us will relate in some way or another, so just be YOU!
I’m so glad you chose to be among us!
Hope to hear more from you!
- July 29, 2021 at 7:19 pm #524808BaronessRegistered On: July 29, 2021Topics: 12Replies: 344Has thanked: 1132 timesBeen thanked: 1092 times
Thank you so much, Valerie! That is really sweet! I am so happy to have found this site. Everyone has been so nice and helpful! I can tell I am going to have a great time interacting with everyone and getting to know everyone better! Take care!
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- July 29, 2021 at 6:43 pm #524772Jill QuinnLadyRegistered On: July 24, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 64Has thanked: 275 timesBeen thanked: 258 times
Hello Samara, that’s a beautiful name you have. Like you, I’m just starting to cross dress and I’m new to this site. Both have been wonderful! One fulfills a desire and the other gives me encouragement, support, and the help I need. I hope you enjoy your journey as much as I’m enjoying mine. If I can be of any help please just ask.
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- July 29, 2021 at 7:04 pm #524800Jill QuinnLadyRegistered On: July 24, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 64Has thanked: 275 timesBeen thanked: 258 times
I feel the same way. Truth is, I started cross dressing with bras and panties nearly twenty years ago. But I’d feel ashamed of myself and throw away everything within a a week or two. It was a vicious cycle of highs and lows that I’ll never repeat because I know that I’m not doing anything wrong. I hope you find the same peace and joy from cross dressing that I do.
- July 29, 2021 at 7:11 pm #524803BaronessRegistered On: July 29, 2021Topics: 12Replies: 344Has thanked: 1132 timesBeen thanked: 1092 times
I totally understand, Jill. When I started, I did the same thing. I felt guilty like I was doing something wrong and had a couple of purges. I am becoming a lot more comfortable, though and feel like if I am enjoying it and it isn’t hurting anybody, then it is completely fine! Hugs!
- July 29, 2021 at 7:22 pm #524809Jill QuinnLadyRegistered On: July 24, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 64Has thanked: 275 timesBeen thanked: 258 times
I’m glad we’re both becoming comfortable with it and that we both realize that it’s not harming anyone so it’s not wrong. And other than a SO, it no one’s business unless we decide to tell them. Hugs again.
- July 29, 2021 at 7:38 pm #524813BaronessRegistered On: July 29, 2021Topics: 12Replies: 344Has thanked: 1132 timesBeen thanked: 1092 times
I totally agree, Jill! None of my friends or family members knows about me. That is probably why I am so nervous, but it’s something we all have to go through. I applaud the ones who come out to friends and family. I know how difficult it will be if I ever do.
- July 29, 2021 at 8:05 pm #524824LadyRegistered On: July 24, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 64Has thanked: 275 timesBeen thanked: 258 times
I would never tell you what you should do in that situation because your family/friends are different than mine. I’ve only told my wife an daughter. My wife has been great. She bought me my first panties since I’ve come to accept that I want to wear women’s clothing, and my daughter, who was supportive but not excited. I don’t feel like I can tell my son at this point because of his right wing stance on things. I hope that if and when you share your feeling that things will go just as well for you.
- July 29, 2021 at 8:17 pm #524829BaronessRegistered On: July 29, 2021Topics: 12Replies: 344Has thanked: 1132 timesBeen thanked: 1092 times
Thank you, Jill. I hope if and when I tell someone they will accept me for who I am. That is great that your wife and daughter have been accepting. I have heard so many stories about how crossdressing has lead to big problems and divorce. I really like to hear when the SO is so accepting. I have a few family members who probably wouldn’t accept it, but if they end up finding out, I hope I am wrong. Hugs!
- July 29, 2021 at 6:28 pm #524764Stephanie BassPrincess - AnnualRegistered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 13Replies: 2186Has thanked: 27880 timesBeen thanked: 7186 times
Hi Samara nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here on the best CD site on the internet so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. So much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies here telling stories about there travels down there femme road in life .. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with some comments to these ladies he he then guess what your turn.. Just a story or two about the life and times of Samara as she travels down her girly path in life.. As for making friends here there are so many ladies here from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with .. So do us a little favor and return to your profile page and fill in some more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. So again nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime ..
- July 29, 2021 at 6:35 pm #524767BaronessRegistered On: July 29, 2021Topics: 12Replies: 344Has thanked: 1132 timesBeen thanked: 1092 times
Thank you so much, Stephanie! That is really sweet. I so appreciate the warm welcome from everyone! Still navigating around the site, but I am starting to get the hang of it. I definitely plan on adding to my profile soon! I am really having fun in my short journey so far! Looking forward to learning a lot more. I am really shy, but trying to break free from that. Take care!
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Being new to cding you’ll find our site to be most comforting . The girls here are wonderful and are so willing to give there advice and help in every way. Talk to some of them share each other’s stories and develop beautiful friendships . support is everywhere and with an acceptance to move forward in this life we have chosen. Very happy meeting you . Welcome. .
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- July 29, 2021 at 5:46 pm #524742Michelle CatonDuchessRegistered On: June 5, 2021Topics: 3Replies: 57Has thanked: 128 timesBeen thanked: 216 times
I hope you come to enjoy this refuge as much as the rest of us do! Everyone here is warm and supportive. All ages and at different stages in this wonderful journey! Never feel afraid to reach out if you have questions. Chances are someone has dealt with the same question also.
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Hi Samara, you have found the best and safest CDH sites on the web, a Sisterhood of women and Ambassadors that are more than willing to answer questions, give advice, support and a shoulder to lean on if needed.
You will find articles of interest as well as the forums to post thoughts, feelings, or what ever is on you mind ( within reason ).
so I say to you Sister Samara to CD Heaven, you are home!
love and hugs Bobbisue Jones
- July 29, 2021 at 5:20 pm #524725BaronessRegistered On: July 29, 2021Topics: 12Replies: 344Has thanked: 1132 timesBeen thanked: 1092 times
Thanks so much, Bobbisue! That is so nice. I have been checking out several different forums. I REALLY like this one!! Everyone is so nice and willing to help. I am really looking forward to learning more and getting to know people who enjoy what I enjoy!
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