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    • #708941

      Hi,

       

      My name is chrystal, 38 years old and married to my wonderful supporting wife.

      Since i was young i loved female clothes, make up and pretty hair. I was always going to the shops with my twinsister to help her buy new clothes.

      For many years i kept this secret to myself and couldn’t talk to anyone about it. Honestly it was hard. I really wanted to be more feminine but didn’t have the courage to do my thing.

      In 2012 i met my wife. We told every little secret about ourselves but the only thing i didn’t tell was the fact deep inside i felt feminine. The more we talked and the more things we discovered about each other i felt i needed to tell her. So i did. At first i was afraid she would never accept it. But when she knew about it she told me i did not have to worry about it and she would support me in everything i would do.

       

      And here we are years later. I’m going through some tough times also in my dressing and feelings but i’m still searching for the real me with the help of my wife.

      What i’m looking for is lovely  people who also are crossdressing and lovely chats with tips and tricks we can share.

      X chrystal

    • #708942
      Prudence
      Ambassador

      Hi Chrystal!  Welcome to CDH. You will find many tips  here. A lot of Ladies with a lot of knowledge.  Hugs Pru

    • #708949

      Hello Chrystal

      Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family. It’s a pleasure to meet you here.
      Here you will be able to exchange opinions and information and find support to go forward in your enfemme adventure.
      Have fun participating in the forums, polls and questionnaires.
      Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm embrace.

      I’m Greta, a 56-year-old CD/TG person (I’m taking my first steps in HRT); with a life a little complicated by having to hide my gender identity for too long ….. when I’m alone at home and I know I have no guests I’m Greta, if I’m at work or I have guests at home I’m Greta dressed in unisex clothing outwardly like Mr. Antonio but wearing my women’s underwear of course.

      XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
      Greta ❤️

    • #708953

      Hi Chrystal from across the North Sea.

      Welcome to the site, hope you have fun exploring and stick around.

      B x

    • #708963

      Hi Chrystal welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, I’m a mature crossdresser I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on, I’m still in the closet to my wife and family I’m not sure if i would come out to her because she says she doesn’t understand why some men want to dress 👗 up like women, I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I’m in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, I’m sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you, the good thing about this site is that I’ve found that there are lots of girls like us all over the world even some just down the road to where i live X 🎀

      Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

    • #708981

      Hello Chrystal welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are and found us and made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or public expression and or level of personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression or those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of acceptance and self expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or world were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are; as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, or expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. I am happy you have a supportive wife and made the step to be here. Welcome!

      Hugs April

    • #708984

      Hello Chrystal, nice of you to pop by. I too have a supportive partner, we do everything together as two ladies would do. I am out  to anyone, and being gender fluid, never really know when I will suffer disphoria from being caught between genders. Anytime you want to chat, just hit me up.

      hugs, Jillleanne

    • #709012
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador

      Chrystal happy to welcome you and being excited about  finding this place, you have certainly started this journey right.   From someone just starting to the well experience everyone here enjoys the support and acceptance that is truly unique. Be free to express yourself with many like yourself and with no judgements. No matter at what level of experience one is  everyone is having fun expressing their passions in a caring and supportive place. Learn as you go and meet with our ladies to chat ,share stories and with some develop lasting friendships. So much to embrace so relax and enjoy being part of a community of same mined souls all accepting each other  for who we are. Very happy meeting you.  Hugs

      Stephanie 🌹

       

       

    • #709037

      Welcome Chrystal!

      I’ve only been a member for a month, and am so thankful for the support and encouragement I have received here. I know you will find the same love from other girls like us here.

      Also, I have an exchange student from the Netherlands living with our family right now. It has been so fun to get to know her culture and spend time with her.

      -Gemma ❤️🔥

    • #709059

      Hi Chrystal,

      Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy wandering through the site reading posts and posing your questions.

      Alice

    • #709125

      Hi Crystal, I live in Groningen. This is a great place to sound off and get support (if you need it) or give support if you can. Plenty of advice and help available in the forums.

    • #709137
      Anonymous

      Well congratulations you and your wife have come to agreement together, it is always nice when you both have open mind to things and understanding and willing to help each other. I have had a wife that was buying dresses 👗 for me to wear places until she passed away. If you need any advice you can get with the girls 👧 and welcome to the site

    • #709214

      Hi Chrystal nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they travel.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Chrystal as she travels down her own girly path in life..  Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lastien friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Congrats on having a supportive wife as many here also myself included it sure makes life easier .. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better thankyou.. And once again nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon…

      Stephanie Bass

    • #709404
      J J
      Lady

      Hello, and congratulations on having such a lovely, supportive wife. Life is so much better that way.

      I have enjoyed several trips to The Netherlands, and think it would be a great country to dress en femme since all the people are so open and friendly. Have fun exploring this new experience and keep talking with your wife about it to see were it takes you and to what level you are her are comfortable with. My wife is wonderful as well and I get to enjoy wearing what I choose.

      Feel free to drop me a PM anytime.

    • #709891

      Thank you all ladies for welcoming me. I’ve updated my profile a little bit. There were some things that were filled in wrong. Now i also have added some extra info. When someone likes to have a chat with me it’s okay to send me messages. For now I’m going to discover this lovely forum and hope I will talk some of you lovely ladies in the future.

       

      And really really thank you for the warm welcome ❤️

       

      Chrystal

      • #711031
        Leonara
        Ambassador

        Please to meet you.. You  have the opportunity to meet like minded lovely ladies who offer friendship and support….Warmest regards, Leonara

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    • #709901

      Hi Chrystal, lovely to meet you and you are in the best place to make friends. Enjoy your stay!

      Fiona xx

    • #710241
      Katie
      Lady

      Hallo, vanuit de Filipijnen weliswaar, maar Nederlandse.
      Fijn dat je een vrouw hebt die je ondersteunt.
      Groetjes,
      Katie

    • #711010

      Hi Chrystal, nice of you to join in. support here. Thank your wife for me, for being supportive of who you are.

    • #711073
      Erika Henderson
      Duchess - Annual

      Hi, Crystal! Welcome to CDH! I’m so happy you are here!

      Erika

    • #711092

      Hi Chrystal! Having a supporting spouse makes the journey so much easier and better! Welcome to the group 🙂

      XO Tara

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