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    Renee Davis
    Registered On: January 15, 2023
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    I am so thrilled to find this site and all of you!!  I’ve been trying on women’s clothing and accessories forever (ie, since I was a toddler, and all through my teenage and adult years), but I’ve haven’t taken the next step — until now!   There is SO MUCH I need to learn!   I’ve been gradually shifting my menswear clothing over the last 1-2 years to be less masculine, and whenever I could work it in, more feminine (eg, pastel colors, tighter fits).   About 6 months ago, I told my wife I wanted to begin wearing feminine panties, and she fully supported me in this but has been a bit cautious since then as I’ve continued wading a bit deeper into femme styling and clothing.   I’m hoping I can learn enough and get proficient enough that she’ll be interested in being my girlfriend for shopping or lunch out together!

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      Greta La Folle
      Registered On: August 6, 2022
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      Hi Renee

      Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family. It’s a pleasure to meet you here.
      Here you will be able to exchange opinions and information and find support to go forward in your enfemme adventure.
      Have fun participating in the forums, polls and questionnaires.
      Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm embrace.

      I’m Greta, a 56-year-old CD/TG person (I’m taking my first steps in HRT); with a life a little complicated by having to hide my gender identity for too long ….. when I’m alone at home and I know I have no guests I’m Greta, if I’m at work or I have guests at home I’m Greta dressed in unisex clothing outwardly like Mr. Antonio but wearing my women’s underwear of course.

      XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
      Greta ❤️

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      Tara D Sometimes
      Registered On: October 4, 2022
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      HI Renee! Welcome to the group – I am glad you found us all too. We are all on the same journey. It is so wonderful that you have a supportive spouse.

      Welcome XO


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      Stephanie Flowers
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Wonderful to have you here with us. Many girls to chat ,make friends with and  much to read through our forums and such. So get settled and start enjoying being part of a place to express your inner feelings and share them with gals that support and understand our needs for dressing. Happy to welcome you here with us.   Hugs!


      Stephanie 🌹




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      Fiona Black
      Baroness - Annual
      Registered On: November 23, 2019
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      Welcome to CDH Renee

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      Rozalyn Richards
      Registered On: July 27, 2022
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      Hi Renee welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, I’m a mature crossdresser I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on, I’m still in the closet to my wife and family, I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I’m on the other side of the pond in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, I’m sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X 💋

      Hugs Rozalyn X 🎀

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      Jessica Skye
      Registered On: October 27, 2022
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      Welcome Renee.
      You have found a great resource here at CDH for your journey. Plus you are surrounded by the best ladies who are helpful and encouraging.
      Welcome Again, Jessica

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      April Sinclair
      Registered On: April 29, 2022
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      Hello Renee welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are and found us and made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or public expression and or level of personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression or those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of acceptance and self expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or world were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are; as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, or expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!

      Hugs April

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        Renee Davis
        Registered On: January 15, 2023
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        Thank you, April!    Very sincerely, I appreciate all the thoughtfulness and caring that you and ALL the members of CDH have extended to me following my introduction!!

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      Erika Henderson
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: November 26, 2022
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      Renee, Welcome to CDH!  We’re so glad you found us!  Congratulations on beginning conversations with your wife and how accepting she is!  I am so happy for you!  I look forward to hearing more of your journey!


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      Sherri Remington
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: August 8, 2018
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      Welcome Renee to CDH. I’m happy that you were able to find us and so glad that your wife is so supportive, it does make the ride so much nicer.


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      Christina Isme
      Registered On: April 8, 2022
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      Well you have to take baby steps one at a time. It’s sounds like you are getting a hold of things. I have been full time girl 👧 since I was 9 till now at 62. Sounds like you have a girlfriend that may support you at this if you need help just ask and we will do what we can. We are glad to have you welcome to the site

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        Renee Davis
        Registered On: January 15, 2023
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        Thank you, Stephanie!    I’m ready, willing, and able to learn, and I know I’ll need to this, as you say, in baby steps!   Thank you for your encouragement and support!

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      Stephanie Bass
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi Renee nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. You know girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also..  Girl there is so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down there femme path in life .. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Renee as she travels down her own girly path in life..  Now girlfriend as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are just a simple click away..  Congrats girl on having a supportive SO that is such a pleasure to have as many ladies here my self included  have  the support and acceptance from there Wife or SO in there home .. So once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

      Stephanie Bass

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      Alice Underwire
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Renee,

      Welcome to CDH.  Congratulations on opening the lines of conversation with your wife.  Hope she gave you the go ahead to wear panties.


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        Renee Davis
        Registered On: January 15, 2023
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        Thank you, Alice!   Yes, she helped pick and order them, and when I first tried them on, she was very encouraging about how feminine they looked, saying they even looked “bridal”!  She was less thrilled when I did a whole-body shave.   I think the key for helping her get accustomed to me being this way will be for me to be consistent with something visibly feminine, but at a low-grade level for a long time before taking the next baby step further.   Normalization does wonders for progress!

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