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    Hi all.

    I’m Susan and new to the group. But I have been a CD from very young. Always have loved the transformation to a female. All the lovely clothing to dress up in. And been someone I have always wanted to be. I grew up with three sisters. So I was lucky to secretly wear their clothing. Always been carefull. As no one knows about my desire.

    I have bought and purged many times. But the urge always lingers.

    I have often tried to come out to my wife. But alas do not have the courage. And also been over 60 I don’t know. I have tried dropping in conversation about Crossdressing. But never had the feeling she would understand. So it’s in secret I can dress and be happy.

    I’m glad that with support here on this site. Who knows. I might be able to come out to her and be accepted.

    Lots of love ladies

    Susan xxooxx

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      Madelynn Fox
      Registered On: September 6, 2019
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      Hello and welcome to CDH. It is a wonderfully supportive place, especially for us girls who are still secretive about our feminine side.  I hope that you find as many wonderful sisters here as I have.



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      Fiona Black
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      Registered On: November 23, 2019
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      Welcome to CDH Susan!

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      Stephanie Green
      Registered On: November 20, 2022
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      Welcome, Susan.  I wish you all the best.

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      Christina Isme
      Registered On: April 8, 2022
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      You should not ever purge. I have been full time girl 👧 since I was 9 till now at 62. When my parents caught I was required to wear my dress 👗 in front of my friends so I did. Best thing I could have done. I did have to work the farms to buy my own dresses 👗 and materials to make my own dresses. My friend was the first one to wear dresses to school so I had to. Had my prom dress 👗 for a long time. My wife used to buy dresses 👗 for me to wear places until she passed away. Well I am cd/tg and I am open about it. We are glad to have you welcome to the site

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      Erika Henderson
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: November 26, 2022
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      Welcome. Susan! I am new here myself and have loved the outpouring of love and support from our sisters here! Welcome to the family!

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    • #697367
      Registered On: October 13, 2015
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      Hi Susan,
      As you can see many sisters have already have welcomed you with open arms… your introduction is so familiar to my experience…I am 74 yo and within the last 20 years embraced my feminine side and am balancing my alter egos…                                                         Please read the informative forums and settle in with CDH website where we offer friendship & Support.            Warmest regards, Leonara

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      Alice Underwire
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Susan,

      Welcome to CDH.  It’s nice to meet you.


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      Rozalyn Richards
      Registered On: July 27, 2022
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      Hi Susan welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, I’m a mature crossdresser too I’m a bit older than you I’m nearly 70, I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on, I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I’m in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, I’m in the closet to my wife too, I’m not sure if i would come out to her she is always saying she doesn’t understand why men want to dress 👗 up like women, if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X

      Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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      Greta La Folle
      Registered On: August 6, 2022
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      Hello Susan!

      Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family. It is a pleasure to meet you here.
      Here you can exchange opinions and information and find support to move forward in your enfemme adventure.
      Have fun participating in the forums and polls.
      Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm embrace.

      I am Greta, a 56 year old cd / tg person; with a life a bit complicated by having to forcibly hide my gender identity ….. when I am alone in the house and I know I have no guests I am Greta, if I am at work or I have guests in the house I am Greta dressed externally as Mr. Antonio (lol) but I wear women’s underwear.

      XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
      Greta ❤️

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      April Sinclair
      Registered On: April 29, 2022
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      Hello Susan welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are and found us and made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or public expression and or level of personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression or those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of acceptance and self expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or world were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are; as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, or expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!

      Hugs April

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      Stephanie Bass
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi Susan nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also..  Girl there is a wealth of knowledge here to acess and learn from as many ladies telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they travel.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Susan as she travels down her own girly path in life..  Now girlfriend as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away.. So once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime..

      Stephanie Bass

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      Toni Costa
      Registered On: November 27, 2022
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      Hello, I’m in the same situation

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    • #697215
      Stephanie Flowers
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Susan happy you found us. Browse our site and start enjoying all that we are about. The ladies here are wonderful and love to talk and offer help and advice if needed and always here just to listen if one wishes. In time make lasting friendships and know we’re always here to share each other’s experiences in our love for dressing. Very nice meeting and love to chat anytime.


      Stephanie 🌹




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    • #697200
      Allysa Grant
      Registered On: November 1, 2022
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      Hi, Susan. Welcome to CDH.  You have come to the right place for support and advice. All of the ladies are willing to help you with your journey and your questions.  I am 55 and have been dressing for awhile. I am single but share a house with 4 other men so have to keep my dressing a secret. I wish you the best. Hugs, Allysa

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