- This topic has 23 replies, 12 voices, and was last updated 1 year ago by Reba Motswaledi.
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- November 3, 2023 at 1:03 pm #778241
My name is Rebabedi, you can call me Reba and I have been crossdressing since my teens.
- November 3, 2023 at 1:29 pm #778243
Hey Reba
I’m a long way from Botswana (I’m in Norfolk, UK) but welcome to CDH!
I’m trans, and I’ve been dressing since I was seven. I only found this site myself back at the beginning of July, but I’ve loved every second of my time here since then. I hope that you have the same experience. It’s a wonderful, supportive community and a great place to make friends.
So, once again … welcome!
Hugs
Ellie x
- November 3, 2023 at 1:36 pm #778246
Thank you,Ellie
- November 3, 2023 at 1:47 pm #778250
You’re very welcome Reba!
I’m really ashamed to say that I know nothing about Botswana … I’ve only just found out that Gaborone is the capital city, so now I feel really uneducated 🙂 It’s got a population which is roughly similar to my nearest city though (Norwich), so I can sort of picture its size at least.
Of course, now I want to find out more!
When you get a chance, perhaps you can fill in a little detail about yourself in your profile. It’s often one of the first things that the girls here look at when anyone new joins.
Meanwhile, if you need any help, just shout 🙂
Hugs
Ellie x
- November 3, 2023 at 1:55 pm #778251
Ok, will put more details about myself in the future, right now I can tell you that I am 25 and no one knows about my femine side nor that I am a fan of wearing women’s clothing.
More details in the future and thank you for supporting me
- This reply was modified 1 year ago by Reba Motswaledi.
- November 3, 2023 at 1:59 pm #778254
I look forward to reading more about you 🙂
Meanwhile, welcome to the family!
Hugs
Ellie x
- November 3, 2023 at 1:36 pm #778245
Hello Reba I am a long way from Botswana being in The United States. I want to welcome you to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are. Having found us you have made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or levels of closeted dressing or underdressing or public expression and or personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression from differing levels of crossdressing to those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of self acceptance and expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or space were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are that you are not alone and this is a place where you can feel safe to express and share part of yourself as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, a man who dresses as a woman, if it makes you a better complete human being expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. For some it means remaining private for some telling a select few ultimately you have to do whats best for your own situation and you ultimately know best. I appreciate you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. Being here helps not only yourself but helps others gain acceptance and confidence in themselves. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!
Hugs April
- November 3, 2023 at 1:41 pm #778248
Thank you April
- November 3, 2023 at 3:43 pm #778267
Hi Reba….welcome to CDH with open arms…you will find all of the ladies here are friendly, kind, and caring…I have only been here a little over a week and already I can feel,the love and care of everyone…reach out anytime!
Courtney
- November 3, 2023 at 4:19 pm #778276
Hi Reba,
Welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family,
I’m a mature crossdresser I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on, I’m still in the closet to my family,
I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee I’m in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, I’m sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X
Hugs Rozalyn X
- November 4, 2023 at 2:07 am #778341
Thank you, Rozalyn, I’m so happy that I can find someone who relates to my story. Thank you for helping me feel like I am not the ONLY one who is keeping a secret. Looking forward to chat with you
Hugs Reba
- November 4, 2023 at 2:35 am #778343
Your welcome Reba,
I think all the girls have been through just the same as you have, keeping it all a secret from our family and friends,
Keep safe X
Hugs Rozalyn X
- November 3, 2023 at 4:40 pm #778279
Hi Reba,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
- November 3, 2023 at 5:27 pm #778290
Hi Reba,
Welcome to this amazingly supportive group. You will soon be feeling at home here.
Aurora Lynnette
- November 4, 2023 at 6:06 am #778360
Reba Welcome, get comfortable and start enjoying all that were about. Meet with many of our ladies here and talk about anything you like. Much to see and do . Nice to meet and look forward to seeing you around here soon.
Stephanie
- November 4, 2023 at 10:28 am #778412
Hello Reba,
Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.
The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.
Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.
At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM). You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.
Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.
Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.
****** https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/
- November 4, 2023 at 10:35 am #778416
Hi Reba!
Welcome to CDH!
Hugs,
Autumn
- November 4, 2023 at 11:36 am #778431
Thanks,Autumn
- November 4, 2023 at 11:43 am #778434
Hi Reba nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Ok girlfriend with so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Reba as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Good luck on your journey in the life of Reba and please let us know how you are from time to time we all love to chat like any girl does he he .. Chat soon Reba ..
Stephanie Bass
- November 4, 2023 at 2:09 pm #778469
Hi Reba
Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family.
It’s a pleasure to meet you here.
You are in a place where it is really difficult to feel alone and abandoned, you will be able to find all the “sisterhood” you need.
Here you can exchange good opinions and information and find support to move forward in your female adventure.
Here you can have fun participating in forums, polls and questionnaires.
Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm hug.I’m Greta, I’m a 57 year old CD/TG person who is living with extreme happiness the choice to undergo hormone replacement therapy; my life has been complicated for too long by having to hide my gender identity… not that it’s easier now, but at least I’ve happily taken possession of my way of being.
When I’m alone at home or at work or I know I don’t have LGBTQ+phobic guests, I’m Greta and I live my femininity freely, but if I’m elsewhere in places where I know I’m surrounded by dull and ignorant people I’m dressed in unisex clothes but of course I’m wearing my women’s underwear.XOXO from Italy 🇮🇹
Greta ❤️💙❤️- November 4, 2023 at 2:50 pm #778476
Hi Greta
Thank you for your kind words and making me feel that I am not only one.I have in the closet for all my life. There are times when I crossdress when nobody’s home.That’s the only freedom I have. Sometimes I paint my nails,wear pantyhose even wear women’s clothes just so I could express my feminine side.
Thank you for your kind words
X
Reba
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