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    Eve Tatum
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    Registered On: May 10, 2022
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    1. I cross dressed at home before getting married 30 years ago. In the many years since I have enjoyed my woman within, with her humor and kindness, knowing that she’s the best part of who I am, but I set aside my urge to cross dress because I thought it would create a hostile home environment if I was open with my wife.I recently started talking to a woman counselor and the woman within me was obvious to her. She’s encouraged me to pursue being a woman more fully so I’ve recently started  buying women’s clothing, which I find thrilling and satisfying, like I’m finally doing what’s right for my true self. My wife is away so I’m loving dressing up at home. When my wife returns, there’s a good chance I’ll be too afraid to discuss these feelings but I’ve bought and will wear a lot of sexy panties, etc.that my wife is sure to notice. I expect a difficult  discussion. Like others on this site, I’m afraid to go public, but I’m just getting started. For now, to interact with this group and to find friends to dress with would be great for me. Thank you all in advance for the help I’ve already started to receive.
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      Amber Lynn
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      Registered On: April 30, 2022
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      Welcome Eve,
      It’s wonderful you are here. This is a supportive and caring place. There are alot ofawesome and knowledgeable women here. Hugs and Kisses Amber

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      Chrissy Simpson
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      Registered On: January 14, 2022
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      Welcome Eve, enjoy the site and the forums.  I wish you luck in your journey and success.

      Chrissy

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    • #645030
      Eve Tatum
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      Registered On: May 10, 2022
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      Good evening ladies. I’m Eve now. Bye Ted! Thanks to 2 or 3 days on CDH my confidence and joy in the changes
      I’m experiencing have risen higher than I could have expected. What a great feeling! I appreciate and thank all of you for how much being with you has helped me.
      With love,
      Eve

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      • #645033
        Jane Mansfield
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        Registered On: December 27, 2020
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        Welcome Eve, a dwcision well made, and long overdue. Yes, you will have to discuss your life changes with your wife, but when you open up hopefully she will see Eve, and say, yes we can work at this.
        A lunch date, weekend away enfemme.
        30 years of marriage shows your commitment, maybe she will commit to helping you.
        Best Wishes
        Jane

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      • #645032
        Fiona Black
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        Registered On: November 23, 2019
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        Welcome to the group Eve!

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    • #644857
      Paulette Parfois
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      Registered On: November 17, 2021
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      Hi Ted, and welcome. I understand your dilemma. When I returned to crossdressing after a long absence I decided to tell my wife right up front. After a few difficult weeks she has accepted Paulette. I have to say it removed a major stumbling block for me in that now I can enjoy exploring my feminine side without the fear of being discovered. I look forward to hearing how you are progressing with your own journey. Hugs, Paulette.

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      Liara Wolfe
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      Registered On: August 14, 2021
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      Welcome to CDH.

      Hugs, Liara

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    • #644715
      Eve Tatum
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      I thought I replied to this yesterday but I don’t see my reply so thank you very much for the warm welcome! I feel like I somehow found the right place for me. I look forward to supporting each other. Nice people here!

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    • #644689
      Tara Ryan
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      Registered On: April 20, 2021
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      Hi Ted,

      Welcome, it is lovely to meet you.  I hope you make lots of new friends here and find what you want.

      There is lots of support available, I am always happy to chat or lend a listening ear, please feel free to message me anytime.

      Tara

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    • #644684
      Lara Tucker
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      Registered On: September 29, 2021
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      Hi Ted

      Welcome to this beautiful community of friendship and acceptance! There is lots of great advice from the girls here.
      I hope you make lots of friends.

      💕Lara

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    • #644660
      Stephanie Bass
      Hostess
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi Ted nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here..  Wel girl as a new sister and family member here you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. With lots to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies telling there stories about there travels down there femme road in life .. So girl when you get comfortable with us please join in and give us a story or two about the life and times of Ted as she heads on her journey down that girly road in life..  Lots of hope for you to have the talk with the wife and it go ok as there is a wealth of knowledge here so post what questions you have and you will be answered .. As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with .. Again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime ..

      Stephanie Bass

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      Jerri Newman
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      Registered On: April 6, 2022
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      “The feminine form of Theodore is Theodora. The names Dorothy and Godiva also mean “gift of God”. In German, Theodore is the feminine form and the masculine form is Theodor.”

      Theodore (name)

      Ted….how about Dorothy?

      Jerri ❤️

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    • #644658
      Raquel
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      Registered On: January 8, 2021
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      welcome i know how you feel about being secertly wanting let them know have them join you on this jearney

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      Dianna Rose
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      Registered On: August 18, 2019
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      How about Teddi>

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      • #644716
        Eve Tatum
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        Registered On: May 10, 2022
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        I like it! Maybe.

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      Alice Underwire
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      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Ted,

      Welcome to CDH.

      Alice

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    • #644623
      Eve Tatum
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      Registered On: May 10, 2022
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      Opening myself brings forth the pain of repressed loneliness, not having someone to share with. It’s my first day here and you girls have made me feel great and welcomed. I really look forward to being your sister. You’ve made me feel great!

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      • #644639
        Stevie Steiner
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        Registered On: June 11, 2020
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        Welcome to your new happy place Ted!  You are now home among friends 🙂

        Stevie

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    • #644622
      Dana Munson
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      Registered On: May 5, 2022
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      Hello Ted and welcome. I am a newbie here, too. Seems like a nice place so far!) That femme name is important – your parents got the choice the first time, but this one is all yours to pick. So take your time with it, if need be. You’ll know it’s right when you can look in the mirror, say the name and then go “Yes! That’s HER!” Beyond that, I know the difficulty of that first “talk” with the wife. Mine wasn’t happy, and things were rocky for a while, but we worked through it. She “accepts” it now, although she doesn’t exactly do cartwheels about “Devyn.” Being a good husband in all the other ways seems to help balance accounts. Best wishes to you on your exploration!

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    • #644610
      Jane Mansfield
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      Registered On: December 27, 2020
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      Welcome Ted, great to finally unlock the door too your femme self. Yes, some difficult questions, but open talking, honest, is how you should go. She will see your inner lady and may say, ok, lets start at home first.
      In time a coffee date outside, a weekend away.
      All the best.
      Jane

      • #644619
        Eve Tatum
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        Registered On: May 10, 2022
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        Yours was the first posting I read. I haven’t had anyone to share my deepest self with so now that I’m opening up that pain comes to the surface. The warmth I’ve received here in day 1 makes me feel great. Thanks!

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      Anonymous
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      Forgive the laugh, but that title is hilarious. Seriously though, don’t worry about picking a name. One will come eventually.

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    • #644596
      Stephanie Flowers
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      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Ted

      This is certainly a special place full of beautiful ladies all enjoying this wonderful world. Get all doll up and enjoy mixing right here. Girls here love to chat and make one feel very comfortable in themselves to enjoy moving with a dream looking forward. In time find others maybe close but always around and with some develope wonderful friendships. Happy to have you here and now enjoy all that we are. Welcome…

      Stephanie 🌹

       

       

       

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