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    Grace Scarlett
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    Registered On: July 26, 2020
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    My dear friend has been taken off a ventilator, is sitting up in bed and talking…it’s not over but she’s not dying and getting better…( After 9 days ” plugged in ”

    I really don’t think my body could produce one more tear…can I thank you for the messages…you are all so ” bloody” wonderful…I have only been gone for three days and my notifications are bordering on…. ridiculous…I really do feel the love!!!

     

    Can I say this really has brought the ” real world” crashing to my door…thousands are dying….but when it’s someone You know and love….it’s destroying…..

    Worrying about “passing” or if your neighbour spots you have nail polish really is not even close to being  a problem….

    3 DAYS….and I have missed you……grace xx

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    • #434154
      Alisha Alex
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      Welcome back, sweetie.

      hope everything goes well over there

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      Bobbi
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      I’m so glad your friend is doing better! 🙂

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      Britney Summers
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      Good to hear every thing is looking up.

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        Grace Scarlett
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        Thank you Brit….I’m so glad you responded…I hope you are well…

        I have just been watching a box set of Buffy…..and I thought of you….I love her, she does kick ass

        you know where I am….

        Huggs, grace ❤️

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          Britney Summers
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          Very cool. Kicking ass in a cute skirt/top or dress and heels is something I want to do too.

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      Millie Balunis
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      Fantastic, my prayers to you and your friend that she gets stronger and you feel more at ease, Grace. Stay safe, my dear.

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      Maily Miatra
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      Welcome back

      Love Maily

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      Stephanie Flowers
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      Wonderful news.  So good hearing your friend is off that nasty machine… great too in having you back…

      Stephanie 🌹

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      • #432180
        Grace Scarlett
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        Thank you Stephanie….yes, the machines are life savers, but I would HATE to have to be plumbed into one!!!….huggs, grace xx

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          Paula F
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          Oh yes.   I can attest, unless you are unconscious, a respirator draws copious amounts of air (sucks hard).  When I crashed with pneumonia after my final cancer surgery, I was on propofol and a respirator for just about 2 weeks.  No food, only ice chips for water.   Feeding is done by IV.  Awful to wake up to.   I am glad your friend is better.

          PaulaF

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            Grace Scarlett
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            Thank you Paula….

            as I am glad you are better….and you have gone through it too girl…!!!…

            but look at you now….my Texas Tornado !!!!

            Huggs, grace xx

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            Paula F
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            And too stubborn to do otherwise, too, Grace.

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      Kathleen
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      Absolutely great news!

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      Mikey Johnson
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      Welcome back Gracie!  So wonderful to hear your friend is getting better.

      And of course we all missed you!  And were worried for you.

      This damn disease is wearing on all of us, but especially so on those who have lost loved ones.  It’s extremely scary when a loved one gets sick because we don’t know how bad it will be.

      But enough!  Buck up Loveliness!

      Keep the faith and know we’re here for you.

      Huge hugs, Mikey

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      stephanie plumb
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      I’m late to the party as usual.    Welcome back Grace darling.  You have been missed!  – It’s been eerily quiet round here for a few days.  I was worried that a dose of real world problems would catapult you out of our Pink Fog shrouded CDH world.

      So pleased to hear your friend is recovering. Throws a new perspective on our own lives doesn’t it?  Too many seem to think “It won’t happen to me.” Stay safe.

      pleasedyourback, hugs,  Steph 😃💖

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      • #431805
        Grace Scarlett
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        Thanks Steph…

        the trouble is that it COULD and CAN happen to anyone…me?? out of the fog??….never my darling…..I’m beginning to think that I AM the fog!!!

        Huggs…grace xx

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          stephanie plumb
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          Mmmm – “I AM the fog” –  interesting idea.  It was definitely thinning when you were away being a supportive Angel.

          Perhaps you are not the Fog itself – but you most definitely are a Fog generator!  Thank goodness you are back!  I’m feeling very feminine today.

          Hugs, Steph 💖

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            Amanda Burton
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            Ah ha that explains why Grace is a powerful force on this site, well and life it’s self too Stephanie, our Grace is a generator. Not a lot of people know that.

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          Amanda Burton
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          We could do a new take on John Carpenter ‘s the fog. Stephanie, me and you Grace, roll across the planet as the revenging pink fog, seeking out the trolls of crossdressers, turning them into feminine ladies with our magic pink fog with no place to hide and unable to change their appearance we give them.

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            stephanie plumb
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            You are being too kind!  You must have got into Grace’s exhaust –  NO!  What am I saying?

            Sorry,  I meant Grace’s delicately perfumed waft of Pink Fog.  I wonder where its generated from?

            I would turn them into frogs and let them go in an Adder pit.  No…that’s mean. Better still dress them up in Rei’s mark 2.0 gaffs and launch them across the Channel.   Or make them eat sprouts whilst wearing hooped petticoats on the White cliffs of Dover with a wind blowing from the north west.  Yes…….  that’ll do.      💨💨💨💨

             

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            Amanda Burton
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            Yes good idea Stephanie, nothing like a bit shooting practice over the channel.

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          • #431819
            Grace Scarlett
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            Oh yes!!!!….one of my fav films ever….. knocking on a trolls door at midnight with a meat hook….mmmm I have had worse evenings..haha

            And after the Christmas sprout festival, grace was definitely generating something, but it sure was not pink!!!!….

            Adrienne Barbeau xx

             

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            Amanda Burton
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            💥💥💥🤢🤢 your not kidding sweetie. 

             

             

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      Hilda Beaumont
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      So glad that your friend is getting better and you are back with us. Although the statistics are alarming nothing drives home harder than a loved one becoming invected by the virus. Truly hope that your friend makes a full and complete recovery.
      Love and hugs
      HRxx

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      Kathleen 60454
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      Grace,

      That is GREAT news about your friend I am so happy for both of you. and it’s great to have you back too. As you are aware of my situation and the reason for me being quiet but have no fears I’ll be back in here at some point.

      Miss talking to all of you. You are my support.

      Love and Hugs,
      Kathleen

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        Grace Scarlett
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        Thanks Kathleen…

        and I do appreciate we all have our own things going on all the time…. especially you, so it makes your message even more thoughtful…keep on keeping on girl, and it WILL get better…..bit worried about you saying you were ” quiet??”….you? really?…haha

        stay safe, rock chick !!!!

        Huggs, grace xx

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      Paula F
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      Welcome back Grace.  It is good to hear your friend is doing better, for certain.  Remind her to behvae for a couple of weeks and do as the docs tell her, and she will recover in time.

      PaulaF

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      Polly Stewart
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      Please stay safe!
      xx Polly

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      patty williams
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      HI Grace,

      It really does put your priorities in order when you have to deal with something like that.

      I am so thankful your friend is getting better and its great to have you back.

       

      Hugs Patty

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      Amy Myers
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      Grace that is so great to hear! Nice to see you back as well.

      Amy

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      Patti James
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      Glad to hear the news. This virus is horrible. Glad you’re back with us 😊

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      Kelly Ann
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      Welcome back sis

      And glad to hear your friend is back on the mend

      Where all here for you Grace

      And these are strange and difficult times for us all

      Your the life and sole for us all and we all need too sheed a few tears for our nearest and dearest

       

      Stay safe

      Stay strong

      And we will all come through this stronger than ever

       

      All my l❤ve to you sis

       

      Kelly💋Ann

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      Stephanie Roberts
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      Welcome back darling Grace!!! So great to hear that your friend is recovering.

      Love, Stephanie 💖💖

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      Genevïéve
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      Glad to hear your friend is recovering Grace…. I missed you… ❤

      Gen… ❤

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      Alice Underwire
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      Hi Baroness Grace!

      It’s great to see you’re back.  You are a dear and caring friend.  It’s wonderful to hear your friend is on the recovering and on the mend.
      Alice

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      Kitty Van Curen
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      Glad to hear!

      – Happy you’re back! 🙂 🙂

      x

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      Bridgette VonSmirff
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      In so happy you’re friend is recovering, there are way too many who never will. I thank God that all my friends who had this Awful illness have recovered, or are getting better. I missed you, too.

      Hugs

      Bridgette vS

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      Regine Rich
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      Welcome back, Grace, Im so glad your friend is recovering, and that you are ok
      I wish all these fools would realize just how bad this thing can be, and start taking it seriously,
      We did miss you, too,
      Hugs, Regi.

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      Sarah Du Hessisse
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      Hi Grace good to see your back, very nice to hear your friend is on the mend. Your a very good friend putting her first, the people who deny the severity of this virus need to wake up. I hope your well and stay safe sweetheart.

      Love Sarah

      xx

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      Ginny Virginia
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      Welcome back, sweet Grace! I am glad things are getting better. You do put things in perspective. Life is indeed short and precious, so we have to enjoy it while we can.

      Hugs,

      Ginny

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      Rozalyne Richards
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      Welcome back Grace, I’m so glad you’re friend is getting better, a friend of ours passed away from the covid last year it really brings it home to you not to take this virus to lightly,

      Hugs Rozalyne x

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      Trisha Smith
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      I am glad your friend is turning the corner. And I am super glad that you are ok as well. We need our Grace to keep us centered.

      Seriously. If you need anything from us yankees just let me know. We got your back.

      Trisha

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        Grace Scarlett
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        Thanks Trisha…

        You’re very kind…

        I love all you Yankee girls, you’re all 💓

        Grace xx

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          Trisha Smith
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          💋

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      Sandy Jayson
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      Great t have you back Grace!!It just goes to show how petty some of our fears are when compared to someones’s very life.  I’ve been crying most of the last 3 hours.  Watched the U-tube documentary finding Joe.  One thing I got from that is that this fear is real and within us and a part of us.  What we need to do is look at the fear, embrace it and then go through the challenge together.  Nothing like a good cry!!

      Good to hear you friend is getting better.  She is so lucky to have such a good friend like you!!!

      Sandy

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        Grace Scarlett
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        Thanks Sandy…

        You’re a love …

        I think a good cry is wonderful… releases all the stress!!!

        Grace x

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      Bettylou Cox
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      Hi Grace,

      It’s great to have you back – and with good news, to boot.
      I don’t worry at all about being outed; but a friend in pain or in trouble is something else. I’m happy for you.

      Hugs,
      Bettylou

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      Cindy Lou
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      Gracie’s back yay! So happy to hear your friend is doing better sweetheart, my wife had a couple of scary covid days when her lungs felt like they were burning and she was so afraid, I can certainly understand what your poor dear friend must have gone through on a ventilator, you are an incredible friend they are lucky to have you.

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      Amanda Burton
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      So glad your friend is so much better Grace, thats fabulous news to read. Welcome back sweetie, it’s just not the same with out you. Love Amanda xx

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      Laura Lovett
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      I am so glad your friend is better, darling!

      Love Laura

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      Erica Lightly
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      So very thankful your friend is doing better! xo

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