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- September 22, 2016 at 6:10 pm #31262
Hi!
I’m new to the site (duh!) I am a 52 years young trans woman who recently came out to my wife. She has been amazing and supportive (though not without a lot of mixed emotions as well.) My story is a lot like the rest, knew at a young age, thought all boys wanted to be girls, was directed by my parents to stop being girly and in my desire to please them I did my best. Some 40 years later, wondering why I was just miserable with my life (which by all accounts should have been happy happy happy) and carried this horrible secret that I never shared. A couple years ago I was reading a transgirl’s testimony and all the pieces fell into place with a loud BANG! Holy crap! I’m trans! I was so happy to have a name that fit with how I felt and suddenly I wasn’t alone in the world. There were other people like me. Yay! A feeling of massive relief and finally seeing all the behaviors and thoughts of my life make sense. Then, here comes the dysphoria more powerful than ever. I finally couldn’t take it anymore and told my wife. She didn’t leave, didn’t judge, didn’t do any of the things I feared but instead has made me feel loved and accepted. I’m out to a few friends now and things are going well. Its not all peaches and cream but my life took a very sudden turn for the better!
Anyway, now I am learning how to “girl” and found this site so here I am!
- September 22, 2016 at 6:23 pm #31263
Hi Dani,
Welcome to CDH.
Hope you find us a great source of advice and friendship.
Hugs,
Samantha
- September 22, 2016 at 6:28 pm #31264
Thanks Samantha!
- September 22, 2016 at 7:17 pm #31267
From one new member to another, welcome Dani. Congrats on finding yourself. The lades here are wonderful, kind, and loving.
- September 23, 2016 at 4:48 am #31292
Hello Dani,
Welcome to CDH. You’re going to love it.
Hugs and kisses
<3 Victoria - September 23, 2016 at 12:28 pm #31299Anonymous
So many of us have experienced that too Dani so youre not alone sis.
- September 27, 2016 at 4:21 am #31495Anonymous
Hi Dani and welcome to CDH.
Rachel
- September 29, 2016 at 12:36 pm #31682
Hi Dani and welcome! Great to read you’ve not only found yourself, but that you have a wife that is understanding and accepting! You’ll love it here, this site is absolutely filled with a great group of gals to meet and chat with. Glad you’re here with us!
<3 Lauren
- October 8, 2016 at 9:56 am #32151
Hi Dani welcome with us
Catherine - January 31, 2018 at 9:49 am #85418Anonymous
2016_introductions new members: Dani original post:
Hi!
I’m new to the site (duh!) I am a 52 years young trans woman who recently came out to my wife. She has been amazing and supportive (though not without a lot of mixed emotions as well.) My story is a lot like the rest, knew at a young age, thought all boys wanted to be girls, was directed by my parents to stop being girly and in my desire to please them I did my best. Some 40 years later, wondering why I was just miserable with my life (which by all accounts should have been happy happy happy) and carried this horrible secret that I never shared. A couple years ago I was reading a transgirl’s testimony and all the pieces fell into place with a loud BANG! Holy crap! I’m trans! I was so happy to have a name that fit with how I felt and suddenly I wasn’t alone in the world. There were other people like me. Yay! A feeling of massive relief and finally seeing all the behaviors and thoughts of my life make sense. Then, here comes the dysphoria more powerful than ever. I finally couldn’t take it anymore and told my wife. She didn’t leave, didn’t judge, didn’t do any of the things I feared but instead has made me feel loved and accepted. I’m out to a few friends now and things are going well. Its not all peaches and cream but my life took a very sudden turn for the better!
Anyway, now I am learning how to “girl” and found this site so here I am!
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