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Hi ladies I took a while to join, it’s so super hard to admit the crossdressing out loud so I kind of lurked in the shadows for a bit and while doing so I saw that you all are a very kind, super close knit and supportive group, and I knew I needed that in my life so here I am.
So, I have been a lifelong crossdresser since an early age. I am now in my late fifties and last year I told the love of my life the truth about me and my hidden clothes. There were a lot of tears (mine) and a lot of nervous shaking and blabbering (all mine). In the end she loves me, and I love her and well I am still me just in a dress and heels. She knows that I wish I was a woman, but the reality is that I was born a guy and I will go in the ground as a guy. I think the hardest thing for her was that she knows I always wanted to be the bride and to wear a wedding dress. However, I told her at our wedding that I would not do that because of my love and respect for her. It caused her some tears, but she will always be more important than my wishes and dreams. So, we settled for a private wedding photo at a later date of both of us in wedding dresses.
So, since day one she has been super supportive of me and has taught me make up skills, helped me to shave my legs and more. She has taken me shopping; buys me clothes, earrings and other jewelry and she has given me several complete makeovers along with teaching me the how to be a woman. I now do not have to hide anything from her, and I can dress as much or as little as I want to include sleeping in nightgowns. My closet and dresser are now overflowing, and I have tossed out a bunch of the boring drab male clothing. No more boxers, just panties every day and I love all the colors, choice and variety in my panty drawer. We plan to go to Keystone 2023, and I can’t wait to go. However, sadly, I have not had the chance to go out of the house dressed but I am very hopeful that maybe at least for Halloween although TX is very conservative, so I don’t know. Anyways, I hope to meet some new friends and with any luck there are some TX gals on here as well.
Saludos
Susan
Hi Susan nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member here you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Girl there is such a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and have fun . Having a supportive SO is such a wonderful thing as lots here myself included have wifes or SOs that support us .. As you said you would like to go to Keystone next year as this past year 2022 was my first event as well as my first outing ever from my home with wife in hand we went and stayed for the week.. Girl so much fun we both had met many CDH ladies and many more wonderful girls .. So hope you make it as we have plans to attend also in 2023 for round #2 he he ..
Stephanie Bass
Howdy Susan. Welcome. You are very fortunate to have such a supportive wife. Count blessings. And always to remember to accessorize. It will accentuate any outfit. Xoxo Jocelyn
Susan isn’t it wonderful when you have support from someone so close to ones heart . Having your wife’s acceptance certainly makes this journey most fulfilling. I too enjoy this but with full agreement as she needs to be a important part in these decisions. Liberty’s are a blessing and never taken for granted . You now have many here too to enjoy expressing yourself with total acceptance and a confinance to explore more. Happy to welcome you and enjoy your time with us.
Stephanie 🌹
Welcome Susan
Hello Susan,
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Thank you. I knew I could trust her then and always and I just couldn’t ask her to marry me without being honest. I never told my ex-wife right or wrong but that is the past.
I think I am very blessed my fiancée is very sweet and loving and to be honest nothing really upsets her. This will be my 2nd marriage and hers too and after rotten divorces you kind of learn what you want and don’t want. She was always what I wanted even before she knew that I like to wear dresses and more.
I am thankful that she is so supportive and helpful with my dressing but in the same breath she is a very kind soul.
Take care
Susan
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