How do i tell my parents

[Sophia Valetine]

Hello everyone,

im 21 years old and still live with my parents and sisters. How do i tell my family i really want to be a girl and have surgery and hormons so i can finally be a girl ?

[Danielle Santez]

Hiya Sophia,

I know exactly how your feeling, I was in the same position at your age hun.
the first thing I’d say is do they have any idea about your feelings towards dressing and wanting to be a girl?
I’m just asking because I remember telling my mum around 21-22, after years of her finding women’s underwear, clothes and heels stashed around my room so she kinda already new which made it easier…

dani X

[Sophia Valetine]

Hiya Danielle,

they have noo idea yet because i always dress up and pretend to be a girl when everybody is not home. I use my sisters cloths and when i think the come back i always lay the cloths back were they were.

 

Sophia x

[Anonymous]

Sophia,

I think before you tell them anything, you should consider the cost of what you are asking for, including the down-time to recover from surgery, AND what you would do if their response is to boot you out of their home.  I suggest you begin with a consultation with your family doctor and an endocrinologist.

Bettylou

 

 

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