How do you feel when you dress for the day?

[Kayla Kross]

Honest question that I haven’t had the courage to ask my wife yet. How do GGs feel when you get dressed for the day? I’d assume there would be some excitement if you were getting dressed for a date or a night out with the girls, or putting on an outfit for the first time. But, how do you feel when dressing for a day at work or casual day with family and friends?

I ask because my feelings towards women’s clothes and dressing in general has changed quite a bit to the point in which I feel some kind of excitement/jealousy anytime I see an outfit that I think is “cute”. For the longest time, whether looking at clothing on a girl or putting on my own clothes, I was generally only excited or interested in the sexiest and trendiest looks like 5-6inch heels, short skirts, tight dresses, leather leggings, etc. However, since I’ve really begun to accept my feminine side (3-4 years) I’ve really started to find attraction to, and excitement in more basic everyday looks. Leggings with a large comfy hoodie and brown knee high boots with no heels, or skinny jeans and ankle booties with a 3 inch chunk heel and cute top.

These looks get my attention when I see them on other women, but also make me feel so good when getting dressed in them. Its hard to explain, a feeling of excitement knowing my look is cute, a feeling of calm stepping into my fem attire, a feeling of hope that I’ll draw positive attention of men. So I guess that bring me back to my original question. When you’re getting ready for your typical day, trying to look good but not necessarily dressing to kill, how do you feel as you put on your outfit and give yourself the once-over before heading out for your day?

[Anonymous]

I glad that you’re appreciating casual woman’s wear. You’ll blend in better and clothing choices are more affordable. There used to be a time when women really cared how they look in public. Outfits that fit nicely and not tattered. Sadly, that’s not the case anymore. But then, I grew up at a time when the family went to see a movie, we all dressed up like Sunday-go-to-meeting.

From my perspective, the difference in the way men and women dress is that women tend to care more how they look to others. Just a bit of self-conscious awareness.

The cis-gender woman does not have the emotional thrill of dressing like a girl that a CD might experience. We’ve done it all our lives. Especially with close friends or family BBQ’s, it’s nice to dress like a slob. Those jeans that are worn, but still fit right, the most comfy bra and T-shirt.

Hope I answered your question, Kayla.

Hugs, Eileen

[Ang]

Hi Kayla,

I suppose that depends on the day, LOL, and the outfit.

I wear scrubs to work so while they are comfy and cozy (like pajamas honestly) to me they represent the grind. They are also the clothes I am wearing in times of trauma and emergencies and therefore there really isn’t a “comfort” feeling. Putting on scrubs feels a lot like obligation and hope. I hope I can help someone daily. The wrong pair of scrubs though can trigger a memory of a traumatic experience and that can ruin a whole day. I work in healthcare.

I love getting dressed on the weekends in comfy clothes. It feels like wrapping myself in a hug. I also love spring/summer getting dressed to go to my garden and work. My favorite part is putting on that big floppy hat because it represents doing something I love.

For me it isn’t about what the clothes are but more what they represent – the activity associated with them. The two clothes items that always makes me happy, no matter what, are pajamas and socks. I may have a slight problem with pajamas and socks (I have so many, like I have ran out of room to store them). Putting on pajamas to me just feels comfortable and comforting. The world can be harsh, scary, and unexpected. BUT pajamas feel safe, and they represent home to me.

I will say though I am a firm believer that everyone should have soft and cozy socks. I buy them all the time if I find a soft pair. For my kids, for my partner. I pay a lot of money to make sure that socks are soft. I don’t know who decided men’s socks needed to be so rough and utilitarian, yuck.

I will say I too can be envious when I see another woman who looks really well put together in an outfit I like. I am on the shorter side, and a little plumper. It can be very difficult to find clothes that fit me due to my short height and round mid-section. So sometimes trying on clothes and shopping can lead to tears because well no one wants to feel like nothing is made for them. Clothes….they can be tricky.

Sorry I am so all over the place with my thoughts. I tend to jump from one topic to another. Hope that this information gives you some insight into this 1 GG’s head.
Hugs, Badgergal

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