What is your tuck technique?

First, do you tuck and when you do, what is your go-to method?

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  • I don’t tuck
  • Tight panties or swimsuit bottoms
  • I use a gaff specifically for tucking
  • I tape with athletic tape or KT tape
  • I duct tape (not a joke)
  • I use a special tape product (if so please comment!)
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    Katie Darcy
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    I have multiple approaches to the tuck and sometimes I just don’t feel like tucking at all. Since, I don’t go into public yet, I have that choice not to tuck. I’m wondering what everyone else does and how often.

    When I tuck, I mostly use the “tight panty” technique which consists of full, smaller size panties, or more often, a string bikini bottom. I heard which the bikini bottom from RuPaul and it works faintly well. The ties strings can mess up the silhouette on some outfits though.

    I also used KT Tape to tape everything back and down but that very much “locks you in” for the day and makes for very scripted and tedious bathroom breaks. The KT tape is the only thing that withstands a workout for me and will stand up to swimming – even though I haven’t tried that yet. With KT, you really need to carry a little bottle of olive oil to get yourself “out of a bind”, and then if you plan to tape right back up, it could get sketchy if you don’t also clean ALL of the oil off.

    Recently I’ve come across the tape sets from unclocked.com which has amazing reviews and touts the ability to undo and redo the same tape once or twice before changing tapes. They are also supposed to work for swimming up to 4 hours, they say. I have a 7 pack in my closet but haven’t tried them yet, so I don’t know if they live up to the hype of not. I will report back once I do!

     

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      Vickilynn Cummings
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      Well, this is where  being small is a great help in being fem, LoL. I love wearing low cut panties that show off  my smooth puffy pubic mound, they are tight and give me a beautiful cameltoe with no sign of me having a penis what so ever. So I’m lucky not having to do any of that folding and tucking, taping or gaffing😖 who would have ever thought that having a tiny penis would be a advantage 🤷‍♀️LoL

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      Carla Erikson
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      Just get old! Not the best idea, but when you are 80+ your male equipment gets small. Even “Little Richard” retreats to the point that panties fit totally comfortably and look the same as on a gendered woman.

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      Katie Darcy
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      Seren, I’m going to recommend a good snug taping for that dysphoria 🙂

      I don’t usually experience dysphoria; but I can say, when I have, nothing checks it quite like a tight tape tuck and no panties! When I wear a sundress without panties (or with light weight, barely there panties) and not feel that “swing” when you move or walk, the dysphoria usually passes and you will feel super feminine! At least until you need to pee 🤦🏻‍♂️

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      Gail Bingyi
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      Hi

      Like Ann Marie, I use a couple of different methods, tucking away and folding it back between my thighs allows me to wear shapewear which gives good protection and concealment but have had it work its way out over an extended period of time.  I also have a silicone vagina which is like a pair of panties that hold things in place better for swimming and other activities where you are moving around a bit but you have to be aware that on warmer days it does ghet a little sweaty in there so a good dousing of talc and a spray of perfume are required to make things a little more comfortable

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      Seren
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      Seren! To find that happy place the first few times, I sat in a cold bath, for half an hour or so, fiddling around down there 🙂

      We are all familiar with the “shrinkage” or tightening up of your boys when they are cold – whether from taking a swim or simply being in cold weather. When your guys shrink up they are actually retreating up into the space you would normally tuck them, so you can use cold to your advantage to find that place and even practice tucking!

      Bubbles in the bath make it more enjoyable and you don’t really need to see what you are doing anyway, you need to be able to tuck by feel 🙂

      thanks Katie, I’ll have a go at bath time. My previously non existent dysphoria about my boy bits has just been magnified by a clothing try on this morning….

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      Katie Darcy
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      Seren! To find that happy place the first few times, I sat in a cold bath, for half an hour or so, fiddling around down there 🙂

      We are all familiar with the “shrinkage” or tightening up of your boys when they are cold – whether from taking a swim or simply being in cold weather. When your guys shrink up they are actually retreating up into the space you would normally tuck them, so you can use cold to your advantage to find that place and even practice tucking!

      Bubbles in the bath make it more enjoyable and you don’t really need to see what you are doing anyway, you need to be able to tuck by feel 🙂

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      Seren
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      Back to this….. erm….. where do ‘they’ go? I mean I know where they’re ‘supposed’ to go (back up, from whence they came). But I can’t find ‘that’ place… is it up and back, or up and sideways….??

      Apologies if anyone is still eating 🙄

      Seren x💚🦄x

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      Gloria Renee
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      I recently purchased a gaff and I love it. Keeps him in place.

      In the past, I have used tight shapewear, but that isn’t as comfortable.

      Gloria

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      Jannie Murry
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      I tried tucking and didn’t like doing it. It was uncomfortable and I couldn’t stay tucked for extended periods of time. Like most of us, I like to wear tight fitting clothes like skinny jeans and pencil skirts so having a bulge is not very ladylike. I found a prosthetic vagina is the answer to the bulge problem. It hides my male parts and it also makes me look and feel feminine more than just tucking. Its also more convenient when using a ladies room by not having to get half undressed when you have to pee. Just pull down your panties and pee like a girl would

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      Ellie Hope
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      I usually don’t need to but recent purchases of swim suits and skinny jeans are now going to require tucking, which I noticed while trying them on. So this is a great poll for me also. I have tried taping a few times and it did look a lot  better,  but didn’t  hold up to swimming very well. But I didn’t have the appropriate tape for that. I’ll check out the tape you mentioned in the initial post. Thank you,

      Ellie

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      Anonymous
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      Ever since I can remember I have always tucked between my legs and now that is its natural position.

       

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      Rami Love
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      A small swim  thong with panty hose. Usually thought I just wear long hanging blouse or long tailed shirt worn out side my leggings.

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      Anne-Marie
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      I don’t just use on method as it depends on the day to day circumstances. Most of the time, I will just face ‘the bat’ downwards under my thong which is only partially effective at reducing the bulge. At other times I will use shapeware and the most effective is to wear My silicone hip and bum enhanced over the shapewear which not only gives me a femme profile down there but allows me to per like a girl. The enhanced doesn’t get used to much though as it can get very hot and uncomfortable.

      Take care girls ❤

      Anne-Marie

      🌹🌹🌹

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      Helene Bock
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      I use a ladies string two sizes smaller than I would normally use lined with a thin woman ppad which “flatten” the “bump” of my private part.

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      Bettylou Cox
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      I do own a gaff, but I don’t tuck.  I’m “blessed” with bits small enough for shapewear to conceal, and I don’t wear a bathing suit, which is the only thing which could cause problems.

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      Rachael Winters
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      I bought a g string gaff with the center seam.  Works well in normal day to day activities

       

       

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      Gabrielle Thomas
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      I use a thonged gaff.  I’ve also used a control top panty hose with the legs cut off.

      I prefer the thonged gaff.  Easy to put on and take down, practical to wear when out, and the thong effect on my bottom cheeks is phenomenal.  I also love the feeling of my bare bottom touching the fabric of my tight skirt and can feel everything my bottom touches.

       

      Gabbi

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      Janet williams
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      I had prostate cancer and it has shrunk so far no need to stand or can’t stand to pee so yes I sit everytime

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      Tiff Any
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      ATM I don’t tuck 😊

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      Deni Smith
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      With a dress/ skirt a size 4 bikini panty will work well in a tucked position. Tucking with surgical tape works well while wearing tight shorts/jeans/ leggings. Until you have to pee.I love the ” camel toe” look when wearing leggings/ yoga wear. I like those faux vagina panties. Feel so feminine and sexy

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    • #369702
      Katie Darcy
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      I just realized I put the wrong name for the taping sets I mentioned in the main post. They are from unclockable.com not “unclocked”. Again I’m not endorsing them or anything because I haven’t even tried them yet!

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      Marianne
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      Usually a tight pair of panties hold things in place. When I need a really smooth front, like going swimming in a bikini, I use surgical tape. As other have stated the tape has to be reapplied after bathroom visits.

       

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      Sophie Summers
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      Funny I have been asked how I tuck quite often and over the years I have developed or looked at various options mainly depending on how tight the garment I’m wearing is. I recently got around to doing a Video on this issue hopefully it might help/be of interest.

      Kindest Regards

      Sophie

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    • #369432
      stephanie plumb
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      I’m fed up with the number of times one drops out the side!  It’s a bit of a problem when your out wearing a dress to put back.  But I have to.  I’m a girl – I don’t have bollocks. There’s no one looking so in you go ….  for now.

      It’s not easy finding panties that hold it all in without strangulating hernias.  I like to feel sexy when dressed so no bikini bottoms, control pants, slings, hawsers, harnesses, girdles or surgical appliances etc.  for me.

      A good pair of tight panties with enough of a gusset – a rare item (UK recommendations gratefully received)  – does me most of the time.   Spandex is a wonderful thing.

      When I want to feel ultra feminine I wear a vagina gaff ( I can’t leave myself alone!) Unless of course I am wearing the full lingerie  when everything has to match.

      Stephanie P.

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      Molly Lace
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      I don’t tuck usually, bikini panties usually keep things in check.

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    • #369378
      Wendy Swift
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      Katie, I’ve only used the pantiliner twice, and for me I find it smooths the area out.  However, jury is still out on this one.

       

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      Danielle Silverfeather
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      Ladies

      Tucking for me has been easy for me. Being average size down there. Everything tuck very easy. Tight panties keep everything in place. I started tucking very young. So I have 50 years of practice.

      Love

      Danielle

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      Caty Ryan
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      I use a gaff and a pair of one size too small control panties and put them on back to front.

      With no distinct female hips, the control panties also serve as an “anchor” for my suspender/garter belt. Via the use of two large safety pins in either side than I run through the belt and the panty.

       

      Hope this helps

      Caty

       

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    • #369305
      Katie Darcy
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      Oh yes! I rock petticoats a good bit myself just because I like the look and because they also hide the lack of hips. If I’m wearing a nice fit and flare dress or a-line with a petticoat, then I’m rarely tucked.

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      Alison Anderson
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      A lot depends on what I am wearing and perhaps where I am going.  If I have an A line or circle skirt, I may not need to tuck.  But if walking outside, the air can push the skirt into the groin area making a need to tuck.

      An alternative to tucking is to use a petticoat.  You can use a short tutu petticoat to poof out the skirt slightly (and also make it look like you have a rounder behind) to poof it out slightly without it looking like you are wearing a petticoat.

      I have a gaff that I will use occasionally.  But most often I put on a thong and top it with a panty girdle.  The pair will then hold the tuck.

      A month ago I bought a special G string that I found online.  It is like a tight thong so it holds the shaft in tight to the bottom.  What makes it special is that there is an additional piece of elastic running vertically down the center seam.  This will split you down the middle of the sack and make it look like you have girl parts between your legs.  You can then wear this under tight pants, tight jeans, or even a bathing suit.

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      Becca Belrose
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      Literally, Gaffers Tape – used in the hollywood/theatre industry. It’s much like duct tape but doesn’t leave residue. Tuck in and down and use three strips. Holds pretty nicely. Not available at all stores, but you can order it online.

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      Paula F
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      I picked that I use tight panties.  Way, way back when I was trying to learn all of what I needed to know, like that will ever happen for us special girls, started at 5 and progressed from there, I shared a bedroom with my older sister.  This gave me plenty of time before her modesty trait kicked in, to see how her body looked in her panties, compared to me.  This was a very long time before the internet, so everything was trial and error, lot’s of error.

      I did try tape ONCE.  I don’t remember what kind it was, but when I tried to take it off, it sounded like someone in the house was scalding a cat.  I tried absolutely everything in the bathroom to make it let go and finally settled on Campho Phenique, which cut the sticky stuff after soaking a few minutes.  So I settled on working out where to put ‘things’ to make my front look like my sisters.  Lot’s more trial and error.

      I finally got it sort of figured out using a pair of panties that were one size too small, which held everything where I put it, but became very uncomfortable with time.  That is what I stuck with for the duration of my life now.  I have found that once the  danglies are up out of the way, my clit is pulled back and the empty scrotal skin is used to actually fashion something that looks like a camel toe in now snug, but not tight, panties.  After a few years I found that using a feminine pad in my panties to cushion and softly hold everything, it felt much better and was easier to stay tucked for the whole day and night if I felt the need to do so.

      I have tucked now for about 50 something years, and through the training of the muscles involved and keeping myself tucked as long as I was awake, that almost always now when I am pulling up my panties, my clit goes into her place and pretty much stays there.

      PaulaF

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    • #369249
      ChloeC
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      Tried medical tape, didn’t like it.  Looked at gaffs online, didn’t look inviting. Duct tape…really? are you kidding (well, maybe if I wanted to do serious hair removal). So just some manipulation that took some time to gather the courage and discover the methodology, and tight panties.  Works well enough for me.

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      K Swim
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      I don’t go out of my way to tuck, but some of my swimwear makes me look near flat down there.

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      Wendy Swift
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      I’ve tried tucking with a gaff, and while I like the end result – flatter area, one thing I didn’t like was the bathroom senario.

      Re-tucking wasn’t as easy as I would like, especially if you’re wearing silicone hip/butt pads.

      What I am experimenting now is using a thicker pantiliner, and I am finding it hides the bulge quiet well.

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        Katie Darcy
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        Okay @wendyswift! Apparently I’ve missed a PTA meeting on how we bake the cookies now… how does the panty liner work? I mean I sort of get it but wouldn’t it make the bulge bigger?

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      Seren
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      Limited (but growing) outdoor adventures here. I have a gaff specifically for tucking from the folks at Strip it Back, but my technique needs work….! I’ve also read good things about the Unclockable tape but obvs you need to be pretty smooth for these products to work (not there yet…!)

      Interested in reading other girls views/techniques etc xx

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      Mary Priscilla
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      I have yet to be in a situation where a “tuck” would be necessary.  I know that eventually I will need to master that art, especially if I ever get up the nerve to wear a swim suit!  Hold the presses on getting up the nerve ladies, that will probably not happen outside the confines of my or friend’s home.

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      T.J. Byron
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      1. Sorry?…Not Sorry ( as Reeses’ cup proclaim!).
      2. Nope, happy never been to the ” Untuck Room ” on R.P.Drag Race…never miss an episode.
      3. Glad…I don’t have to do so.
      4. Later Girls!
      5. Dr.T.J.
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