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    • #658356
      MelanieElizabeth
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      Registered On: January 9, 2021
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      This is always a bit of a touchy discussion but a necessary one. Personally I don’t wear a gaff although I’m curious about trying one someday, I find tight panties and hose are enough for me. When I have worn lady jeans in the past, it has worked out fine. After all I know I’m not a beauty queen and I don’t expect to be, but I do like to present my best self. So maybe I need to try a gaff because tucking properly sounds a little scary. Lol

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    • #658329
      Caty Ryan
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      Registered On: August 27, 2017
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      I tuck and ware a gaff. For extra security I wear firm control panties over the gaff. Colour matched(where possible) to the rest of my lingerie… I also use the control panty to “anchor” my suspender belt with safety pins…

       

      Caty.

       

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      • #658386
        Anna Marie Smith
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        Registered On: June 12, 2022
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        Morning Caty
        So,you do both and in all honesty i have taken onboard your comments about wearing Control Panties over your gaff!
        I am currently wearing Pink Control Panties but have not got around to wear a Garter belt yet as i am trying to find one that fits and is Pink!
        I much prefer Panties and Pantyhose!
        Hoping that you had a nice night’s sleep because as i write this i know the time difference between us sees you deep in slumber!
        On waking,have a nice day and Keep Well sweetness!
        Hugs & Kisses
        Anna xxx

    • #658323
      Rachel Williams
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      Registered On: November 3, 2019
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      Anna
      I have neither tucked not used a gaff. I am fortunate that my bits down below are very modest and as I only wear dresses that are loose below the waist I am comfortable with the degree of control that comes with panties and pantyhose.
      Rachel

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      • #658385
        Anna Marie Smith
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        Morning Rachel

        I guess not every girl needs these fashion accessories but i am not going to comment on your size sweetness!
        You seem to be more experienced than me and know what you want!
        Please have a good night’s sleep and Thanks for your honest reply!
        Hugs & Kisses
        Anna xxx

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    • #658292
      Ashley Konners
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      Registered On: August 15, 2020
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      I’ve looked at gaffs online but haven’t pulled the trigger on one yet. I fine with my panties and pantyhose I can keep things under wraps pretty good.

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      • #658296
        Anna Marie Smith
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        Evening Ashley
        Thanks for replying sweetness but they aren’t for everybody!
        If you are comfortable and the things do range in style,size and price,then good for you girl!
        I only raised this Topic because i personally wear one and wondered if others tucked with Tape!
        It’s too tight though me being a large girl!
        Hugs
        Anna xxx

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        • #658305
          Ashley Konners
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          I’ve never tried tapping but have worn a pair of control top pantyhose with the legs cut off under my panties and found that it kept things in place with no bulges at all. Mind you I’m not huge but rather average I like to say.  Lol.  I think I will order a couple gaffs and try them out.

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          • #658315
            Anna Marie Smith
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            Darling Ashley
            As you are a Canuck girl,they should be readily available and reasonably priced in Canada!
            Living in the UK,mine are sadly from China!
            I know this is going to create a stir of controversy but the prices of Gaffs in the UK are not good!
            Nor is the quality…..
            As it’s nearly sleep time here i’m off to wear my Babydoll as it’s unseasonably warm here!
            Night Sweetness and thanks for the reply!
            By the way,saw your public pix and you look real foxy lol!
            Kisses
            Anna xxx

    • #658275
      Aurora Borealis
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      Registered On: October 25, 2021
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      Dear Anna,

      I prefer a,gaff, as that is the most effective and,covering. I have four of them different colors, also have a silicone vagina which I use often. Adds to the womanly feeling!

      Love, Aurora B.

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      • #658297
        Anna Marie Smith
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        Darling Aurora
        Thanks for your reply to this intimate of Topics!
        You have different coloured ones?
        All mine are beige but i have 2-3,one being a half body gaff and there is one on the way which i can not divulge here as it will cause controversy!
        A Silicone Vagina?
        That’s a new one on me!
        You slip it in your panties sweetness or is it panties-related?
        Most of us hate those damn dangly bits in our underwear haha!
        Love & Respect
        Anna xxx

    • #658274
      Aurora Borealis
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      Dear Anna,

      I prefer a,gaff

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    • #658268
      Rayna Carlian
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      If I NEED to tuck, I use a gaff.

      Easy, set it and forget it, plus it’s easy to go pee. No tape to fight and reapply.

      xoxo

      Rayna

    • #654455
      Liara Wolfe
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      I’m a little small down there, so tucking works for me.

      Hugs, Liara

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    • #654451
      Genivieve Bujold
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      I have found that simply wearing spandex panties is all I need, I have become very relaxed when enfemme so and there isn’t the bulge trouble I had in the past! 😉

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    • #654443
      Mia Mor’e
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      Registered On: June 27, 2021
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      I tuck it under, no tape, put on a gaff, and hold everything in place with a tight body shaper.

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    • #654441
      Lauren Mugnaia
      Registered On: November 1, 2021
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      I, like many who have replied to this post, don’t have that much to hide, just shove the little boys up into their canal and tuck it back underneath, and I almost always wear tights over my panties so the result is a completely flat front.

      Hugs,

      Lauren M

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    • #654433
      Barb Wire
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      Registered On: September 16, 2021
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      Tucking? Ah, no…

      I’m with Celeste. I gotta pee too often. LOL!!

      Besides, I already struggle enough pulling up my pantyhose numerous times a day (I sit to pee). I guess this is why I’m into thigh-highs nowadays.

      The biggest reason I don’t tuck is because me and “The Mrs” are still on speaking terms despite my wardrobe and sometimes as rare as it is all the planets line up. WOO HOO!!

      Barb

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    • #654429
      Brielle Ross
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      I don’t use a gaff or tape. I just slip the little guys up into the lingual cavities and tuck myself back. I usually wear snug panties, I like that feel anyway.

      Hugs,

      Brie

    • #653878
      Val’sheril Starsong
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      Sadly (/happily?) I’ve never been man enough to really need to tuck, though I suppose if I ever got the nerve to sunbathe in a bikini I’d need to do something… though at that point in all honesty my groin’s the least of my problems.

      For erm… “research” purposes I’ve tried a couple techniques, most of which I’ve somewhat regretted after.  Personal experience though; actual results may vary.

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    • #653623
      Jennifer Swanson
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      I have gotten very good at the QuickDraw and I can hide anything.  Staying tucked all day is not a problem.  Many times I will use a gaff to hold the tuck.

    • #653566
      Lara Tucker
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      I use a gaff to hide it away for a tight skirt or form fitting dress.

      A long T shirt is great for covering with leggings or spandex shorts. No tuck needed then.
      💕Lara

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    • #653557
      Stephanie MacNeil
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      Registered On: January 31, 2022
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      I’m apparently small enough that my regular panties and control top pantyhose do the trick.  I often wear open bottom girdles as well, so there’s no chance of an unsightly bulge.

    • #653435
      Marg Produe
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      Registered On: March 16, 2022
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      I only wear a gaff and tuck for very special times like when I want a really flat front with swimwear or bandage dresses.  Otherwise daily I wear a Warner’s Cloud 9 Seamless  Hipster Panty.  This gives me some smoothing and a slight tuck and it is very comfortable for all day wearing.  My gaff is the Mesh Front Gaff with Heart Pattern from the Breastform Company and is also very functional and comfortable.  I wear these articles to help me look good in my clothing and for no other reason.  They do the job and allow me to go about my daily business with little fuss or muss.  To me it’s just what makes my daily appearance look good and not unattractive while still being very useful garments and not a bother.  I don’t really see this as a taboo subject any more than the period products that are advertised on television.  It’s just part of my life.  I hope this helps others and thanks Anna Marie for this interesting topic.

      Marg

      • #653462
        Anna Marie Smith
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        Marg Darling
        I will send a Private message to you because i don’t want to embarass you and lay open your life!
        Pleased you are glad i raised this Topic but must Place my heartfelt Thanks to Celeste,youknow what you have done to help me!
        Hugs & Kisses
        Anna M xxx

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        • #653655
          Marg Produe
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          Thanks for the nice reply Anna Marie but I really don’t see any embarrassment here.  I’ll look forward to your PM.  Thanks,  Marg

    • #653433
      Michelle McQueen
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      Registered On: June 14, 2021
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      Hello Anna Marie.

      Depending on the outfit I will tuck and wear tight fitting womens bikini swim bottoms to hold everything in place or just wear snug panties or regular panties. With jeans tucking is necessary for a smooth look but with a skirt the tight panties work and with some dresses like peasant dresses I can wear regular panties without a problem. Girls suffer for fashion… lol.

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      • #653466
        Anna Marie Smith
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        Dearest Michelle

        Thank you for that input and very sorry for not being in touch!
        Obviously you are a dab hand at this Dressing thing and we could learn a lot from each other!
        Brought up this Poll because it’s a problem i have had myself!

        Love & Kisses

        Anna M xxx

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    • #653388
      Celeste Starre
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      That would be a no for me. I have to pee too often for that to be practical plus it strikes me as being very uncomfortable.  The closest I come would be wearing a special type of panty that I’m not allowed to mention on this forum.

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      • #653415
        Anna Marie Smith
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        Dearest Celeste
        Your privacy is noted!
        Sorry for touching on a sensitive subject for you!
        Just as long as you are happy being Fem and presenting as a Female!
        Hugs
        Anna xxx

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        • #653429
          Celeste Starre
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          It’s not a sensitive subject for me at all. It is however a sensitive subject for the folks that run this site which is why I won’t mention it.

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      • #653414
        Саманта
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        hmmm.  Celeste, would that special panty happen to be so named for the digital extremity of a dromedary and equipped with crucial integrated vaginal prosthetic?

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        • #654431
          Barb Wire
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          And this is why you and I are good friends!!

          LMFAO!!! 🙂

    • #653378
      Katherine Boesemann
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      The whole tucking procedure strikes me as enormously tedious and uncomfortable and I doubt that I will ever even attempt it.

      The closest I have ever been to a gaff is the dance belt (which I learnt about and made use of when I joined an adult beginner’s ballet class).

      I cannot, however, imagine spending a whole day wearing such a restrictive garment though and for me, it would detract from the experience of feeling ladies’ underwear against my skin.

      Generally, I therefore choose my panties sensibly and ensure that whatever outer garment I have on either conceals or draws attention away from whatever “bulge” might show.

      However, as time goes by and I grow increasingly keen on “passing” as a woman in public, who knows what horrors I may yet inflict on myself?

      Love, Katherine

       

      • #653416
        Anna Marie Smith
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        Hi Katherine
        As i said,i use a Gaff but can’t find a garment to fit my size/waist!
        I know that is too much information for most here but having one sometimes is uncomfortable but removes my manhood well outta view!
        There are pluses and minuses for all ways we choose to obscure our Male Form!
        Love & Hugs
        Anna xxx

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