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My lady and I (she’s not my girlfriend yet, we’re waiting to meet before we officially take that step) have been talking online since late February. Very early on (3 or 4 weeks) into our relationship I told her I crossdress. I told her there was a little more to it but that I wanted to wait until we could meet in person to explain that. I did tell her that I wanted to be her boyfriend and that I didn’t want to be her girlfriend ever, not even for 5 minutes once a year. And I’m serious about that. She’s very OK with me crossdressing.
The thing is I’m transgendered, and androgyne. But I’m not a woman. Technically my gender is other but I largely just consider myself a man. Yesterday she told me she’s really starting to fall for me, which for her means a whole lot more than it sounds like. It’s time to tell her.
If it was your man how would you like him to tell you this? What should I say? We can’t fit all that much into a message so I have to prioritize what I say. What should I put into that first message? I want to be honest with her. I don’t want to downplay something important and blindside her with it later. And is this the time to tell her? I would appreciate any advice you can give me. Thanks.
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