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    • #58124
      Anonymous

      Ok, so I do not like nor want my testicles anymore…..I don’t think I’ve liked them for a long time….They get in the way, are easily hurt, sag really low, (plus, they’re ugly…you know!?!) and have very little use anymore (I am a 30 y/o married, and think of myself mainly as a straight, Cis-man with 2 children and don’t want any more) other than providing testosterone to my body (which has an over-abundance anyway, very very hairy, very masculine body). Sorry, there’s really no easy way to start talking about something like that!
      It’s been itching in the back my head lately to look into Orcheictomy (or orchidectomy, depending on how you want to spell it). But I am not sure how to bring it up to my wife or how to even truly go about looking into it. I understand what the lack of testosterone can/will do to me, and how to get it other ways. But does anyone know what they other effects could be? Has anyone here had it done? I do think I would feel better about myself without them among other things.
      I’m just not sure anymore and looking for some advice…….Truly, this isn’t something I take lightly, nor is it something that I just decided on, this has been building for some time now, and I was only recently able to come to terms with how I feel. I enjoy being male, but I do also like exploring and developing my feminine side and female desires. I am lucky to have a supportive wife, but I do not know how this will be taken…. I underdress (mainly panties, but I desperately want more, my wife isn’t quite ready for more), but for now that is it, along with pretty nails sometimes.

    • #58338
      Anonymous

      I’m guessing no one is able to help or advise me on this…makes me very sad.

    • #58364
      Anonymous

      Adrianna, I think the short answer is that only a medical practitioner can give you the information and advice that you are looking for. It’s a big step and not something I’d contemplate based only on the ‘advice’ I got from unknown people on line.

      Go see a doctor, make some initial enquiries and then talk to your wife about it. I’ve raised it with my wife – she was shocked I’d even consider it but understood how I felt after I explained my feelings to her.

      If nothing else, a doctor can give you answers.

      🙂

    • #58417
      Anonymous

      I’m really just looking for advice and stuff from people who have gone through these feelings and confusion….. I am still very to dressing and desiring to be feminine (well, recognizing and accepting these desires is more like it, I suspect). I am currently on a waiting list to start seeing a therapist, originally sought out for other things, but all of this will absolutely be on my talking points.

    • #58420
      Ilona
      Lady

      Hello Adrianna. I think you need to think about the subject very seriously. If your wife isn’t ready for you to wear feminine outer clothes, I suspect she will not be happy with you having an orchidectomy and I think this could lead to a divorce. I think you and your wife should get some form of marriage counselling. http://www.healthtalk.org/peoples-experiences/cancer/testicular-cancer/masculinity-and-self-image will give you some idea about psychological problems you may have if you have an orchidectomy, while http://www.healthtalk.org/peoples-experiences/cancer/testicular-cancer/side-effects-surgery-orchidectomy gives some details about physical side-effects. I think you are very confused about this issue.
      “I enjoy being male, but I do also like exploring and developing my feminine side and female desires.” “Ok, so I do not like nor want my testicles anymore…..I don’t think I’ve liked them for a long time.” You don’t need to have an orchidectomy to develop your feminine side and if you enjoy being male, why do you want an orchidectomy? I hope you can get professional help with your wife to sort out your problems.

    • #58428

      Adrianna.  I highly recommend that you contact the Gay/Lesbian/Transsexual group. They will have members in the transsexual community who can best advise you on your questions, am sure there will be someone there who has gone thru what you have. I have read psychology articles on neutering sexual deviants and rapists…….but this is done to curb violence and severe pervert urges. I am not catholic but perhaps if you talk to a priest about the boys they castrate to become castratoti singers in the Vatican, he might be able to help you. Castration is something you should discuss with an Endocrinologist.

      Transgenders usually are put on OESTROGEN and develop female issues, since their testosterone is not present. Maybe the internet can shed some light on this for you. The oestrogen pills most like may see you become somewhat effeminate and you would certainly lose body hair…how much….I can’t say. Your brests may grow a bit too but you certainly would not become Chesty Morgan.  There are specialists in doing transgender work and I am certain you could speak with one about what you want done.  Meanwhile, I am going to research the orchidectomy procedure and may glean some more info for you. I was Medic in Nam and have since then taken many medical programs and psychology programs in my studies of female humans….a fascinating subject to me. Yea I was married but divorced and want to know what made her tick. I am cross dresser but have no intentions of getting together with another female. Way to old to become transgender. Anyway, I will get back to you and post what I find on your site page with CDH, or if you like…send me private messages and I can do like-wise.  Your issues will be held in Strictest Confidence on my Honor as a Knight Templar.

      Lady Veronica Graunwolf.

      • #72988
        Anonymous

        “Way to old to become transgender”. Please speak for yourself, or even better how about not saying that at all. Thank you. P.S. I realize I sound like/actually am an overly sensitive jerk.

    • #58431

      How about this for fast????!!!!   Excellent web sights for you issues…will answer all you questions…I hope.   1….LGBT.wikia.com/wiki/castration

      2…surgeryencyclopedia.com/orchiectomy

      3…WebMD.com/prostate-cancer/orchiectomy-surgery

      If you wish to talk to doctor….general/family doctors are a poor choice…..specialists are the best.

      At least now you will know side-effects….sex with your wife may be impossible only time will tell. If you can maintain an erection it can be possible to have a prostate ejaculation, again…time will tell.

      Hope this helps……Lady Veronica

    • #72254
      Anonymous

      Well, if I was in your position, I’d say I want a vacsetomy, remove them. Easy enough, but you might want to speak to a gender therapist. Or you could just be a cross dresser. So overall, get rid of the balls, but keep scrotum sac, probably with whatever doctor puts back in but, sounds like you just want the penis with nothing else.

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