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Hi everyone Luci here, Im a newer member here and I CD in secret as my family (who I live with) would never support it. But thanks to an opportunity where no one was or would be home today I went the full nine yards, makeup, fragrance, wig and jewellery. Knowing that I have time to wash it off before anyone returns home, and knowing that I could come and go I braved it, first I went for a simple drive, to get some confidence, I love driving as both man and enfemme I discovered, and then I did something I never thought I would I went to the shops! No one made funny faces or commented, they just saw me for me. Im over the moon after the experience! Im curious to hear others first outings.
Fully cross-dressing isn’t really my thing, but even it if were I would never have the nerve to go outside in a million years, no matter how much effort I’d put in to trying to pass. God knows I found it difficult enough as a boy to be in public when the only female item I had on was my girdle. Anyone on this site who actually does go through with something like this gets a round of applause from me!
I love going out in public as well. The ability to get fully dressed and go out to the shops and interact will people is just so rewarding.
I have always loved shopping. But shopping en femme is so much better. Keep it up and you will not want to leave the house without some form of femme attire.
Congratulations on you first big outing.
Paula
Any suggestions on femme attire for daily wear as you are right I would like to try and go incognito with some pieces that Wont go noticed. Hugs Luci
I wear women’s jeans and sweaters with sneakers. Out all the time. My toes and fingers are painted and i will use light eye make up. No one ever says anything.
I would like to put on heels more but most women don’t wear them so if i dont want to stand out runners not heels.
Get out and enjoy yourself.
Paula
Ooh yes, going shopping en femme is one of my favourite things!!!
Congratulations on your first shop – what did you buy?
Or is that the next step??
Laura story time:
First time I went out shopping en femme, I did a spot of Christmas shopping in a busy town – about 3 years ago.
That was where I started to notice the “luck of Laura!”.
First shop I went into, lo and behold, a trans girl came up to me and helped me with my browsing.
Two other specialists helped me, and a fourth sat me down and gave me a hand massage in the shop with some lovely product or other.
That shop got it so totally right, I bought quite a few of my wife’s presents there, lol!
It was a wonderful experience, and, as you say, hardly a filthy look anywhere – people generally carry on their business like nothing’s amiss – which is exactly how it should be.
Love Laura
Hi Luara, ty for your lovely response I grab some groceries for dinner. Also wow you really went shopping I just did the basics
Hi Luci,
I am building up to my next story about my irregular outings to seaside towns
In that instalment, I finally, after 3 years, went into a clothing shop and bought a fancy going out dress – and the receptionist at the hotel insisted I did a fashion shoot in the foyer (lobby), with her as photographer.
Oh girl, do I have some pretty pictures to post!
Love Laura
Yes Luci, Isn’t feel great going out for the first time ,Congratulations you crossed your first milestone, it gets easier, the more you go and feel confident, I went my first time and have gone many more ,shopping at the malls and gone out for a few cocktails,being a tall woman with big hands a little hard but got over it ,enjoy you new freedom, hugs Cathy
Hi Lucy
Wow you are so brave.
I am nowhere near that stage yet and cant imagine the thoughts going through your head, when you you stepped out of the car, for the first time as the real you.
Love
MichelleWell done you !
I think my first outing in feminine clothing consisted of some very short denim shorts, a fitted feminine tshirt and womens flip flops, with bra and panties for underwear – but it was the middle of summer.
It felt both amazing and normal at the same time , and although I was quite aware that my bra could be seen through my tshirt , I simply did not care.
Hi Luci as havent been out yet lets say as where i live its a small farm community with old fashion ways like mo dressing ha ha but in late March The Keystone conferance will be in PA and wife and i will attend for the week just being girly and having fun got a couple of trips into Harrisburg for meals ans just girl fun with wife and friends so looking forward to it anyhow,, So happy for you girl as ive read here each and every trip makes it more easy to be you good luck girlfriend enjoy your girly life..
Stephanie Bass
Well Luci this won’t be a case of Once bitten, Twice shy. This bug has bitten and will hold on! My first trips out were fraught affairs but were the first of many to come. You have just taken hold and gone for it which is more than a lot of girls here will do on a first time out. As they say, you owned it girl.
Hi Luci, congratulations! Nothing compares to being out and about fully dressed. I’d like to caution you however. It’s a crazy world out there and we must all be careful, all the time!
I wrote an article about my first time out was not at all pleasant. Here is the link.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/a-lesson-learned/[postquote quote=611525]
Well, its not like I went outside in public really, but I did step out back of our apartment building with breast forms on and underdressed.At night. Only a babyHh ft step I know but I did it unnoticed. There was one man in the elevator (I live on the second floor) with me on my way back to the apartment and he didn’t seem to notice my boobs. At least he didn’t say anything. Aurora B.Congratulations Luci, what a great day you had. I bet you are looking forward to your next adventure out.
Congrats on your first time out. Sounds like a great day. I might caution you about fragrance, as it may be hard to wash off.
I’ve probably had many firsts, depending on how far you want to take it. What I consider my first time was going out to a diner with the woman after getting my first makeover. Similar to you I had the day when my children (the youngest was 16 at the time) were not home, and my spouse (now ex) was working nights, so slept during the day, giving me the opportunity to leave the house for my makeover, and even return en femme. After the makeover, I had a little nerves going out to her patio for pictures, to her backyard while I waited for her to get ready, a little nerves going out her front door to get into the car, and a little getting out at the diner where there were people about. But I think I was really ready for the experience, because these passed quickly. Plus being out with someone is a huge help.
I think I did pretty well my first time. My scariest moment was when we went to pay and the manager (at the cashier) asked us how things were. While I used a somewhat feminine voice, I guess that I was read. Not that I saw any signs of it, just a feeling looking back in retrospect. But I was treated with respect whether or not I was read, so it all worked out.
I have learned over the years that it doesn’t matter if I’m presenting as male or female, whether I’m read or not, most places you are treated with respect. They are in the business of selling something, and if they make you feel comfortable you may come back and use their services again.
Way to go girl..fabulous. I love driving and wandering dressed, so nice to be me but it’s rare I get to do full make up and fingernails due to work. It’s so sad when loved ones can t understand and support..makes living a secret both difficult and disappointing. Keep on though, you look fab.xx
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